When you dig yourself out of your own rut by making your own moves, there is a great deal of pride that comes with it. You also become much more independent...to the point where borrowing doesn't even cross your mindYeah I don't get that shyt. Personally, my mind won't be at peace knowing that I owe someone.
Being in debt sucks because you know you owe a someone. Once you pay the debt it's like freeing the shackles.
I hate borrowing money from others, even as a kid I'd rather starve than ask another person for money
talking about do you "need it need it"? "I was gonna pay you next week" meanwhile nikkas shopping, drinkinv at happy hour all week. Asking ME if I want to go drink
run my shyt nikka
Cant lend nikkas shyt in good faith anymore smh always pay your debts first and foremost brehs.
My mom be gettin me to breh just give her tha shyt no paybacks. Its hard for me too.
But...they ain't gon be here forever. Maybe after she is gone you will wish you would've gave her that petty cash (the amount will be petty after she gone). At least that's how i be feelin. I be like "damn bro...come on mom....here dude just take it collect 200 an go".
and this is the things. The nikka sthat ask are RARELY responsible with money. I love bro but his spending habits are fukking atrocious. 30 years old, no savings what so ever and blows his money on clothes and going out.Worst ones are the folks who feel like they can't go an hour without drinking/smoking sumn. Even if they did remember they owed someone, that shyt is instantly blocked out by "I need my fix"
Then they forget and when you come see about it they either dont know what you talking bout or "already gave you that"
Dont mind lending to people with good spending habits, but the ones who just have to get rid of cash as fast as they get it ain't getting shyt
Me I rather just chill out n be broke for a brief second if it came to that, instead of enjoying somebody else money and then having to pay them back before I can enjoy my next money. Kinda defeats the purpose and just makes you look sorry