Why Do People Act Like Their So Above Their Emotions?....

[Elle Driver]

I’ve seen men and women do it tbh

They are usually the most sensitive u are right



I’m passionate

Blame it on being Latino like y’all all do.

 

[Henri Christophe]

How are women the only selfish ones when you just said, 'men will kill for our pride/ manhood'?

Mens emotions are usually tied to sacrifice

A man will throw his entire life away in a prison cell for his woman, or his family, or his country etc etc - all connected to pride


A woman aint bout to throw her life away for some nikka

 

[HarlemHottie]

A woman aint bout to throw her life away for some nikka

I caught a case for my man. Some dumb shyt my peoples did on my behalf, police was trynna implicate him. We were still in school and I wasn't trynna get him fukked up in the game before the shyt even started, plus I'm nice so I finessed it from a felony down to a violation.

 

[HoopLife]

We need our emotions to make decisions in a timely manner. If we only used logic/reasoning to make a decisions then it would take forever to make that decision since you would strictly be using facts like a computer over and over again. Simple choices would take eons since your over analyzing every little thing. I look at emotions as our mind telling us our bodies state of well being. They inform us of physiological needs when we're hungry, tissue injury when we feel pain, threats to our body like fear or anger.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I respect that

But Im talking more so the ones who act like they are “savage”

Dont care about anything

Quick to say someone is being emotional esp a man

Some of the most violent and powerful men in history were extremely emotional lol

Yea I know the type. I'm just a very low key dude.

I've talked about it before on here about having no ego, which I think is the best way to describe my "emotions".

So much of what we do is driven by ego, that if you get that shyt in check, you'll find yourself being at peace with most things.

At least I did.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Emotions are apart of life and there's nothing masculine about being a boring dude that doesn't react to anything.

with the whole "men shouldn't have emotions" bs a lot of that comes from lazy women that want a man to uplift them and cater to them or some boring ass dude that has a try hard "warrior" mentality. I don't pay attention to people like that for the most part. Personally I think people that hide from negative emotions are soft cowards to me and I would never want to be like that. Emotions are apart of life and makes life more exciting for me.

I know some people are naturally boring and they don't have much of a reaction to anything but a lot of these lames that try to act like they're some hard nosed warrior are playing a character. Many of them breakdown in private or go off from time to time because they run from their negative emotions instead of accepting them and learning to deal with them.

 

[IcemanCometh]

That's why people sound dumb talking about "you emotional" but everybody has emotions, but I'm just being pedantic lol. I know what they mean. Emotions need to be controlled- not having you under control. Like the mans Hooplife above me said- emotions help you reACT quickly instead of sluggishly overanalyzing everything. Ands that's the important part, ACTing, actions -especially as a man.

But what the hell am I rambling for? It's not like any of this matters. Most people are just dupes to their own psychology. They will forever live in their narrow "Ego Tunnels". And they will never experience the objective reality. This has been confirmed by neuroscience. Even colors aren't real, there just projections from our brain. The sky isn't really blue, those " colors"can altered by manipulating the brain. Reality would be too rich otherwise. An emotional situation indeed lol

 

[Koba St]

Because everyone thinks they’re Patrick Bateman.

They can think whatever they want, the vast majority crumble and show their true selves at the first sign of any problem in their life.

 

[African Peasant]

I hate the term "SO".

This thread is also very feminine.

 

[The Connoisseurs]

I wish I can show emotion

I sorta envy people that do




I was taught not to show them they can be used against you .. and I’m naturally and unemotional dude



.. yea I’m boring on the outside ..

 

[karim]

shyt is lowkey annoying

Even sociopaths have emotions

All humans have emotions the issue is with men we are supposed to control and channel our emotions. I channel mines fairly well but I have my weakness like anyone else.

I meet alotta females who say they don’t like “emotional men”, but I can be sporadic and emotional and they LOVE it. Im never “boring”. Yet they claim they don’t want men w emotions (like men aren’t allowed to have emotions).

My issue is that with my emotions I go on two extremes I either shut down & retreat or blow up and get violent

And as a grown man I can’t afford to blow up and be violent all the time

I’ve talked on here about my road rage and anger episodes & lowkey I feel ashamed of it cuz as a grown man I cant afford to blow up like a kid all the time

And most people know me as a cool as a fan type dude.

I’m human

I hate when people say shyt like this

Hell Mike Tyson was extremely emotional and I doubt most people who spout that shyt would say that to his face or call him soft/feminine lol

I feel like a lotta people who act like their above their emotions all the time are trying too hard to seem tough

And truth be told are the most deep feeling people

And “non emotional” people are really boring in my experience

What bytches mean, when they say that shyt is, that they don't want to see you cry. They don't file rage under emotion, to them it's passion and dominance. Crying or whining on the other hand is considered unmanly and emotional and gets the

 

[Carlton Banks]

Emotional thread.

 

[monsterpreneur]

Well this is the “unbothered” era. Most of these people trying to act cool in person, yet are crying themselves to sleep.

If you feel some type of way about a situation, speak your truth. A lot of people stay frontin.

 

[606onit]

They're

The ONLY thing I can in this thread to say. That shyt IRKS me.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Emotions arise instantly and uncontrollably

If someone pushes a grocery cart directly into your parked car on purpose as soon as you see that you get pissed. Inside. You don't sit down and study.

Next you either react based on that emotion, or not

This is where choice comes in

You yell at them. You hit them.

or

You fall back until they pass cause you don't want no problems

Either way you have to start with being mad, then you go from there

'controlling emotions' is not possible. They pop up instantly once you realize what's happening

"Controlling ACTIONS" is everything. Do the right thing no matter how you FEEL

Why do people act like this isn't the case? Cause people are stupid. Mostly