Why do people care so much about who people date? (interracial)

Noname2014

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Im genuinely curious why it upsets some people. What about a stranger that you never met or never will meet dating out that upsets people so much? This is not about "pawg in peace" so don't even mention it. I just want to know why its so upsetting to people? I understand if the person dating out talks bad about their race but if they don't do that then what is the problem? Do people really lose sleep over people dating whoever they want lol.

Im trying to figure out if these people are actually mad about it or if they are just bored and trolling. Does it make people feel inferior or like they "owe" you something? 99 percent of the time that celebrity that is dating "out" you never had a chance with anyway.

Tell me whats really going on? Maybe its the whole presidency and racial tensions that got people feeling like this man.
 

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Because in some respects we are fighting a battle of white supremacy so I understand.

I've dated out but I'm conscious of this and am introspective about some of my choices. I understand that side TBH and the message it could send.

But really people have their own choices, preferences, and circumstances that make them choose a partner so who are we to judge?
 

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Because of the c00ns who don’t simply date interracial. Most throw the community under the bus is where the real issue occurs.

If those who go the IR route kept their self pride and even converted their partner to our side you won’t see much people having issues with IR
 

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Because in some respects we are fighting a battle of white supremacy so I understand.

I've dated out but I'm conscious of this and am introspective about some of my choices. I understand that side TBH and the message it could send.

But really people have their own choices, preferences, and circumstances that make them choose a partner so who are we to judge?
I've learned that most of what the black americans makes a big deal out of that perhaps others dont understand the big deal probably has to do with history and the struggle between whites and blacks and oppression.

Which could be said about most places to be honest with you. Look at homophobia in the Caribbean for example.

ANyway living in the US has made me extra conscious of things i wasnt conscious of growing up. I notice the stares from black women when im out with my mexican jumpoff. The stares when im out wiith family members who are mulatto that look white or hispanic. I hate that im now so conscious about it whereas growing up i was not. I guess thats just the side effect of this racist society/world we are in.
 

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living in Los Angeles you only see a lot of heads turn from sisters towards brothers with white women, but not that often

brothers see a sista with a white dude and it's not a big deal

here in SoCal tho unlike the midwest or south, the brothers be with some in shape banging looking white women

but on the west coast as a whole we don't care about what other people do with they lives, we just do us
 

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I dont care about brehs dating interracially as long as they are only dating to smash.

Only thing that irks me is when I see homies having kids or marrying a white chick. Cause you are whitening your genes.
 

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Long as you understand, that's what the parables in the bible are about.

How has the black race mixing our seed with white people worked out for us? Examine and answer that question.

Arabs are mulatto resulting from blacks mixing with eurasians. How have arabs been for black people? How have whites been for black people?

A main parable in the bible was warning the result of mixing.
 

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Your dating choices determine your level of commitment to a certain cause.

If you are committed to Black liberation and autonomy, I can't understand how you could date/marry anyone other than Black.
But if you aren't, then date whomever. Just don't delude yourself.

I don't get angry with people in interracial relationships. The times I do care is when those people come around spewing Black liberation while a White person is latched onto them.
 

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It's really only women and sons of women that can't keep men around them that concern themselves with stuff like this.

And it's really nothing more than a self defense mechanism. Women only concern themselves with who people are dating out of insecurity for the most part. Secure women don't care who people are dating. Insecure women want to play the dating police game to make sure there are men still checking for them.
 
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