Why do people care so much about who people date? (interracial)

BLΔCK⁂W⊙LF

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Bro I 100% agree I didn't have to be as disciplined or hard working as you coming because I'm naturally smart and pick up what I need to know to get what I want faster than people like you.

That's why I'm saluting your work ethic. I'm also gonna allow you to get the last word in after you read this post. Because I'm tired of making things clear for you.

Kind of getting ahead of yourself there, little buddy. Let's not operate under fantastical delusions.

I hope you still don't believe in Santa Clause. That'd be embarrassing and very unfortunate. :francis:
 

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When it comes to celebrities I think they're seen as our representatives and they're also our sex symbols so when they succeed after being somewhat maligned by white people and we see them married to white people we feel the kind of disdain you get from a betrayal. It's weird, I've never felt a connection to any of them, I've rooted for them but I've never looked at them this way myself.
 

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Im genuinely curious why it upsets some people. What about a stranger that you never met or never will meet dating out that upsets people so much? This is not about "pawg in peace" so don't even mention it. I just want to know why its so upsetting to people? I understand if the person dating out talks bad about their race but if they don't do that then what is the problem? Do people really lose sleep over people dating whoever they want lol.

Im trying to figure out if these people are actually mad about it or if they are just bored and trolling. Does it make people feel inferior or like they "owe" you something? 99 percent of the time that celebrity that is dating "out" you never had a chance with anyway.

Tell me whats really going on? Maybe its the whole presidency and racial tensions that got people feeling like this man.
It's not just because of Trump or recent racial tensions. Interracial relationships (especially with whites) have always been frowned upon by much of the AA community. It's basic human tribalism. People look at intermarriage as treason to the ingroup--especially if it's intermarriage with a group that is seen as a tribal enemy.
 

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It's not just because of Trump or recent racial tensions. Interracial relationships (especially with whites) have always been frowned upon much of the AA community. It's basic human tribalism. People look at intermarriage as treason to the ingroup--especially if it's intermarriage to a group that are seen as tribal enemies.

I knew someone would come along with the right answer.:obama:
 

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I have no idea why some people have issue with who another person date/marry, but I will say this...

Whenever these topics come up, there is rarely any constructive dialogue going on. I keep reading shyt like, "well so long as he/she doesn't shyt on their own people, then blah blah blah"..

Well, we all know that in reality, those who swirl will catch vitriol regardless of their reasoning or lackthere of for doing it. It doesn't really matter why they are doing it because the mere fact that they are doing it is a crime in itself!

When you see an IR couple out and about, one doesn't know why they hooked up or how they hooked up! They are simply judged on site!

The reality is that IR couples(mainly ones with a Black partner) is held to a different set of social rules. They "have" to do it for a certain reason.

They have to have a certain mindset as if they are the only ones whose actions and lifestyle affects the social dynamic between the various ethnic groups.

I wish people would understand that in this day in age, people hook up with people for a myriad of reasons. But, at the end of the day, it is their choice to do so whether one agrees with it or not.

I could go into more detail, but not interested in getting into online kurfuffles with folks over it.
 

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I swear on my life I be only ever met about 5 white women that didn't fukking annoy me the rest of them I wanted to boot down the stairs. I don't get these c00ns who can happily chill with any white bytch for that long. That's why I gotta sideeye these c00ns who only date white, ain't no proud black person wanna be around cacs that much :scusthov:
 

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I dont care about brehs dating interracially as long as they are only dating to smash.

Only thing that irks me is when I see homies having kids or marrying a white chick. Cause you are whitening your genes.
Right, their genes. It’s not you so why do you personally care so much?
 

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