Why do people get mad when their ex-gf/bf finds someone else after a breakup

[delta]

listening to this guy at work yesterday, "we were together for 3 years but not even next week she found another nikka" etc.

.. like which way you want it? you wanted them to cheat before the breakup or for them at least have the decency to end the relationship before getting w/ someone else?

 

[Worthless Loser]

Because they are not over their ex.

 

[Bubba T]

Because they are not over their ex.

One and done.

 

[Poitier]

If they found somebody that quick then it might feel like they were plotting and/or cheating behind their back the whole time

 

[StickStickly]

If they found someone that quick then it meant the ex didn't have as much emotional torment as them and therefore did not care about losing their partner. They were easy to forget.

 

[75 Others]

Because they are not over their ex.

/thread

 

[SuperNintendo Chalmers]

I'm a resolute person.

When something is over, I take the time to process my feelings, deal with my issues and then it's on to the next one with no fukks given.

My belief is that life can always get better and I will always meet doper women. fukk I look like staying stagnant and crying over spilled milk.

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Ego

Possessiveness, similar to when a kid sees another kid playing with their old toys


That's mine

 

[DirtyDee]

This is why you always keep p*ssy on the bench even if you're in a relationship.
Women are cold like that - their friend zone includes cats they will emotionally/physically swindle as soon as they break up with their dudes.

 

[Chrishaune]

If they found somebody that quick then it might feel like they were plotting and/or cheating behind their back the whole time

They had their eye on them....absolutely.

 

[TRUEST]

listening to this guy at work yesterday, "we were together for 3 years but not even next week she found another nikka" etc.

.. like which way you want it? you wanted them to cheat before the breakup or for them at least have the decency to end the relationship before getting w/ someone else?

post like yours is quite infuriating. you're not a very bright person.

whether or not she cheats during the relationship or right after makes no difference. its just as bad.

when a woman finds a guy right after a breakup, its not coincidence. it didn't just happen. she has been, at the very least, emotionally cheating with said dude way before she initiated the breakup with her current guy.

moronic/selfish people seem to think "hey, if i break up with her, or if i break up with him before I go fucck x y z, I'm not a bad person. i did the right thing. i ended the relationship first".

No, you are a horrible person. You shouldn't have put yourself in a position to have found or bonded with x y z, while you were with your current partner.

there are many instances u coulda nipped the budding "friendship (cause thats how it starts)" before it grew into a situation where ur breaking up with ur current partner.

 

[Chrishaune]

If a woman is giving you signs that she doesn't really care about you....leave it alone. Your concious is telling you it's not the right situation. Nobody wants their time wasted. She's giving signs before it goes bad. Most people aren't mature enough and too ignorant to be able to handle a real relationship.

 

[StickStickly]

This is why you always keep p*ssy on the bench even if you're in a relationship.
Women are cold like that - their friend zone includes cats they will emotionally/physically swindle as soon as they break up with their dudes.

Men do the same thing lol

Be mad that your partner has somebody waiting in the sidelines while you have somebody waiting in the sidelines brehs

 

[DirtyDee]

Men do the same thing lol

Be mad that your partner has somebody waiting in the sidelines while you have somebody waiting in the sidelines brehs

Of course they do.
I do

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

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