I disagree.
Why do people say, "if a woman isn't married, she can do whatever she wants"?
- Thread starter jadillac
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I disagree.
What's the point of not marrying someone after only a year of dating......and you have no clue why I said "what the fukk".
as long as my nuts explode nothing else matters 
SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
Of course it would annoy me. However, I am not his mother. I cannot tell him what to do and who to hang with. I can express my dislike or concern. He can take that into account or not. Based on whether I feel respected I stay or leave. If it ever gets to the point that I need to control what he is doing because I dont like it, then he is not the one for me. I am not about to mold someone. People are who they are. You take it or leave it.
West Coast Avenger
West Coastin & Smokin
you cant be serious??? How old are you bruh?
What's the point of not marrying someone after only a year of dating......and you have no clue why I said "what the fukk".
Answer the question. What is the point in NOT marrying someone after a year(or any time frame) of dating?
me & my girl only think of marriage as a ceremony & legal tool.... we value the loyalty... marriage dont mean sh!t cause married people cheat constantly.... if you value that commitment you dont need no ring....
Sierra Mist
Banned
I don't necessarily have an opinion on this but I must say I'm thoroughly enjoying men losing their shyt because women are now adopting their morals. It's quite amusing to watch.
Not every man thinks cheating on his woman is ok. Jesus Christ. I hate stupid people.
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
This is exactly how I feel.
It would be because you don't love them, of course.
In which case, it makes no sense to continually exclusively dedicate yourself to them in reality.
I wouldn't be the type to rush into "marriage" but there definitely is a logical fallacy to the "Be faithful and commit yourself to someone you don't love" mantra
It's easy to say take it or leave it, but when you've been with someone for years it becomes a lot more difficult. I don't care too much about money invested, but time invested is simply something you cannot get back. If my girl asked me to stop doing something that could jeopardize our relationship I'd do it. I don't think it's about being someones mother or father, it's about having atleast a little bit of respect for the person you supposedly love, a tree that doesn't bend will always break
nikka, it's only 1 fukking year, 12 months, 365 days, 52 weeks, that is NOTHING. If you're going to make a commitment to someone for the rest of your life you damn sure better take more than a year getting to know them.
You telling me I should have married my ex after 1 year, when after 2 years it was clear we really weren't for each other as we grew as people.
Sierra Mist
Banned
LOL I forget this site is mostly black people. And yall wonder why your AIDS, kids out of wedlock and Herpes rates are so high.
ZERO standards.
ZERO standards.
if nothing changes then why are ~%50 of marriages failing?
West Coast Avenger
West Coastin & Smokin
28 and happily married
how long did you know your wife before you married her? You cant go around telling young nikkaz to wife a broad up after one year....that is some despicable shyt.....Im in my 30's and Im happily married as well but I knew my wife since she was 16....and didnt marry her until two years ago....
