why do people say if she can cheat on her bf with u she's not relationship material

SheWantTheD

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I disagree. Perhaps not with u but a lot of that "I gotcho bytch" is glorified these days for people who have low self esteem and something to prove about their own worth.
But that's just my two cents.
You said Everybody :comeon:

And I've never met a man trying to steal another man's woman. It really doesn't happen like that unless they've been dealing with each other or years and they are promising shyt to the person on the side like how they are gonna leave their partner for them and they will live happily ever after and shyt.
 

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It's an assumption and nothing else. I think cheating is pathetic but no one knows whether it's going to lead to you being cheated on next. It's just a big red flag. I wouldn't take the chance with it but it's not my life.
 

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Supremely selfish line of thinking. The entire logic chain doesn't value or consider anything beyond the self and it's immediate desires. What you described is an unevolved woman.

She would certainly cheat on you too.


:stopitslime: I was being tongue and cheek to a degree obviously

This does not describe an unevolved woman

The body as we know craves food:ehh:

If you lived in the hood with a small bodega with meager option in regards produce/
Then finally after years of suffering with these meager options due to gentrification :mjlol: they place a whole foods on your block
Are you obliged to continue patronizing the run down bodega not fulfilling any of your even basic nutritional needs :francis:
Or are you free to feed your body what it craves:takedat: what it needs:usure:

Women can be stuck in these relationships where their mental and and emotional well being is absolutely emaciated :mjcry:

They find the strength to love again:mjgrin:

More power to them!

The man she's with may not even be capable of caring for her emotional needs :yeshrug: and what she requires in regards to love

I don't really buy into the whole cheating thing

She would not cheat on me:mjlol:

Most people who cheat feel trapped

To me you are always free to go:ehh:

You are with someone because you want to
Not because you have to:yeshrug:

I don't care how many "rings" ( glorified shackles ) you put on her finger

Pre nups contracts mareiage licenses :deadmanny:

If you don't have her heart you don't have her:yeshrug:

I don't believe in owning people

When you place these high expectations on people this ultimately is what leads to disappointment

We can't even guarantee tomorrow how can we say what forever will be:yeshrug:

:whoa: Stop being fed nonsense
Listen to your intuition

Take out all what you where taught and be in the present:ahh:

They think a child is a blank canvas when it's born

:umad: It's actually like a new computer with all the software already installed

:umad: It's we who have to learn how to access it

13 moon cycles/ that correlate with the woman's cycle

:umad: Yet they give you 12 moon-ths

Get in sync :banderas:
 
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I think some people asking why she with a lame didn't see my post that it's possible she's rooming with him to attend school. She lives very close to campus.
 
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