Why do people talk like black women are in last place for being wanted?

[brandy]

Black women are not divorcing their spouses to that extent either. “Other” groups of women have the highest “divorce” rates.

Exactly.

Also, Black women are waiting later to get married. Our low "marriage rates" stem from the age polled is around 25 or 27. Most BW are married by 35. In short, BW are waiting until they establish themselves in their career before marrying. We are bringing something to the table, financially.

To answer the question, they get these numbers from Tinder. Tinder is an excellent source to gather poignant and useful relationship stats.


Most BW in my friend group find BM in the real world and off apps. Folks are apps are looking for ass.

 

[Cadillac]

I'm saying. nikkas bringing up celebrity Black women and fine women in shape. Of course if a chick look like Tika Sumpter, she will have no issues with any man.

But what about the overweight ones that are the majority of American Black women.

When's the last time you seen an outta shape regular Black woman dating a non-Black man? It is extremely rare. It's sad but it's true. I hopped on this Black online dating app called BLK and the amount of obese Black women was startling if I ain't interested, I know other cats ain't when they can just get a fat White or Latina woman.

BW can come in more ways then just fat, "ugly" and obese or fine/in shape. there are BW that a are average, full-figured etc. even the ones who fall under that obese stat arent just big "Ugly" women shyt some of them are the "thick" women that you see nikkas drooling over.

@bolded I seen several, espescially if we talking BW in that shape with some titties, thighs, and ass("thick"). Most of these are with Mexican or black acting white guys.

The average white guy tho does prefer slimmer BW, and they are like that in general with women even their own(White women).

Its part of the reason I believe(my opinion) why they like Asian women, they fit the frame they desire more than other women.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Black people are a minority in this country right? So there are only but so many black people. For most people in the US a black woman isnt their first choice.

Now you would think for black men a black woman would be their first choice but that OKCupid study showed that wasnt true. That's the main study that is used to justify the claim that black women are unwanted.

I also think most non-black men werent interested in black women because of stereotypes and because they assumed black women were not interested in them but that is quickly changing.

Media loves showing black women in a negative light. Black women are seen as the scum of the earth. Ain't that a bytch? The woman who birthed civilization is now scum of the earth. That shyt hurts my heart to the core. I love black women so much.

With all that said I love to PAWG . I'm attracted to attractive women. I'm aware of black women who blow every race out of the water. Those who are average or below average tend to place their insecurities on black men and blame them for not wanting them. It's just not true.

 

[Voice of Reason]

I used the "." many times... On tinder not sending your matches a message lowers your score... So I used to send a dot to all the girls I wasn't interested in but matched

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

I don't think OkCupid and tinder stats is a good way to measure black folks taste

Ask some hood nikkas how many of em use OkCupid. Black OkCupid and tinder users tend to be educated, alternative "I'm not ghetto like them" type blacks, esp OkCupid

 

[Biscayne]

I just installed BLK about 3hrs ago. So far I have like 60 Likes and about 8 messages. And I gotta agree with @The Coochie Assassin

Most of the sisters in here are kinda on the hefty side of the game. And I don’t even mind a pretty Jill Scott-type BBW who carries her weight well. That’s sexy. I’ll live. As long as she’s DTF, I’ll be good.

 

[CoochieWhisperer]

I just installed BLK about 3hrs ago. So far I have like 60 Likes and about 8 messages. And I gotta agree with @CoochieWhisperer

Most of the sisters in here are kinda on the hefty side of the game. And I don’t even mind a pretty Jill Scott-type BBW who carries her weight well. That’s sexy. I’ll live. As long as she’s DTF, I’ll be good.

Think you meant to quote @The Coochie Assassin breh.

 

[MajesticLion]

Because if you want in on a company and the stock price is too high, or the board is too close-knit, you take it to their neck with a public disnfo campaign to drop the value...and you scoop it on the cheap. Systematically turning women to consumerist harlotry with the mind games makes for cheap access to what has more value than anything in the mind of men.


People keep falling for it.

 

[EMY]

I remember some ok Cupid "stat" that stated black men prefer Asian women the most out of all the races of women and black women the least.

That has to be the biggest cap I ever seen this how you KNOW those websites bullshyt

 

[jwonder]

I just installed BLK about 3hrs ago. So far I have like 60 Likes and about 8 messages. And I gotta agree with @The Coochie Assassin

Most of the sisters in here are kinda on the hefty side of the game. And I don’t even mind a pretty Jill Scott-type BBW who carries her weight well. That’s sexy. I’ll live. As long as she’s DTF, I’ll be good.

Definitely a Big Girl app. I live in South, FL and didn't know there were so many fat black women in the area. shyt is tricky because when you are out and about you don't see nowhere as many fat black women. That's why you can never go by what these apps say. It's not what reality is for the most part.

 

[Ahadi]

I just installed BLK about 3hrs ago. So far I have like 60 Likes and about 8 messages. And I gotta agree with @The Coochie Assassin

Most of the sisters in here are kinda on the hefty side of the game. And I don’t even mind a pretty Jill Scott-type BBW who carries her weight well. That’s sexy. I’ll live. As long as she’s DTF, I’ll be good.

That’s another convo, black women & the gym.

Idk why I don’t see more, if I see 1 she’s usually with a cornball cac.

 

[ajnapoleon]

Because the nikkas they want, want different races the nikkas that want them they don’t want.

The right answer right there

 

[Biscayne]

Definitely a Big Girl app. I live in South, FL and didn't know there were so many fat black women in the area. shyt is tricky because when you are out and about you don't see nowhere as many fat black women. That's why you can never go by what these apps say. It's not what reality is for the most part.

Right. SoFla is usually one of the fittest areas in the South. So that must’ve been unusual for you. A lot of bigger women on BLK. The skinny or average bodied women have hundreds and maybe thousands of likes and dudes in their messages.

 

[jwonder]

Right. SoFla is usually one of the fittest areas in the South. So that must’ve been unusual for you. A lot of bigger women on BLK. The skinny or average bodied women have hundreds and maybe thousands of likes and dudes in their messages.

I was taken back by it. But then again I don't go to the places they would be at tbh. It ranged from the hood rat fat different color weave to the fat "Highly Favored" Christian black women. There were some slim chicks on there, but key word some. Like 4

 

[philmonroe]

I don't think OkCupid and tinder stats is a good way to measure black folks taste

Ask some hood nikkas how many of em use OkCupid. Black OkCupid and tinder users tend to be educated, alternative "I'm not ghetto like them" type blacks, esp OkCupid

I agree outside of the "I'm not ghetto like them" part. I mean if you're not into that stereotype hood shyt why should you want to be grouped with them just because you're the same race? That's that stupid shyt right there. I do agree with the rest of who is more likely on them dating sites though. Its the grapevine overcompensating online blacks like some that post on here funny enough that I don't run into offline. I think the reason for that though is like it or not we already know a person is black already no matter if you're more on that stereotype hood shyt or some stereotype carlton banks shyt.