Why do people think introverts are some super weirdos who can’t handle human interaction?

[bl2k8]

As a full blown introvert it gets really old with the woe is me, I’m an introvert people don’t understand me topics. Especially on the internet, a lot of us have a holier than thou attitude

 

[TheBlackDeath]

thats fine. lets not act like the majority of introverts are just people who are awkward/not outgoing

Not necessarily true. Maybe the other way around, that the majority of people who are awkard/not outgoing are introverts.

Plenty of introverts are well adapted to and comfortable in social settings. Barack Obama is an introvert.

 

[Suleiman Bey]

thats fine. lets not act like the majority of introverts are just people who are awkward/not outgoing

What makes them awkward?

 

[kenreid0726eabos]

Stigma in society seems will never go away sad how humanity is

 

[the cac mamba]

What makes them awkward?

you all know what the fukk i meant. dudes in here touting barack obama as the standard of dudes who claim they're introverts

 

[King Poetic]

Both introverts and extroverts are both fukked up some kind of way

Just do you fukk labels

 

[Suleiman Bey]

you all know what the fukk i meant. dudes in here touting barack obama as the standard of dudes who claim they're introverts

I don't know what you mean. I only seen Obama in a"professional setting". I don't know how he interacts with strangers he gives no fukks about.

 

[-deleted-]

Introverts tend to be reactionary as fukk

its like how you see nerds all of sudden go from being about science and shyt to out of nowhere caring about masculinity, atheltics etc.

Because they realized that more perks come from having extrovertive qualities in today’s society. It makes them extroverted enough for the most part but the introvert qualities are still there. Also, there is nothing wrong with this. It’s adaptation that every living creature uses differently to survive

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

who the fukk would rather be an introvert than an extrovert

Been that way all my life..
Maybe it’s because of how I grew up(my brother lives in another state)..
Just used to being alone and getting up and doing my own thing..
It does affect my relationships because when I don’t feel like being bothered, I don’t answer my phone..
shyt pisses my girl off something crazy
I just never liked small talk..
I don’t think I’m better than anybody..
I just find small talk superfluous..
I consider myself intelligent but not to th point were I don’t want to learn from others..
Also my sense of humor(especially in this time and age) is very un-pc
Now if I get to know you or if I really like our conversation, I will open up more. I also don’t like big crowds or clubs(did all that in my teens/20s)..
I prefer small settings with cool people I actually care for and like..
People project a lot of misconceptions on people that are either introverts or loners..
I’m pretty sure thecoli psychiatrists are about to flame me..
But I’m 36
And actually happy with who I am

 

[ePiffany]

Introverts tend to be reactionary as fukk

its like how you see nerds all of sudden go from being about science and shyt to out of nowhere caring about masculinity, atheltics etc.

But u gotta see it from our point of view. I've had people literally say "it speaks" once they see me speak at length for the 1st time. My nikka, IT speaks like I'm a muthafukkin creature or thing all bcuz they and I never had anything to speak about.

Shyt is wild disrespectful and when u check and out debate sucka ass nikkas like this they get all he-motional and from personal experience perpetually bitter that someone who wasnt "supposed to" best them verbally can and did with relative ease.

 

[agpxknt]

because they are stoop

 

[Vandelay]

I'm an extroverted introvert. Wouldn't have it any other way. I don't care what dudes think of me. I like being that nikka in the cut who just can get at almost any chick in the room if I really feel like it. But most of the time I'll be that casual observer.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

But u gotta see it from our point of view. I've had people literally say "it speaks" once they see me speak at length for the 1st time. My nikka, IT speaks like I'm a muthafukkin creature or thing all bcuz they and I never had anything to speak about.

Shyt is wild disrespectful and when u check and out debate sucka ass nikkas like this they get all he-motional and from personal experience perpetually bitter that someone who wasnt "supposed to" best them verbally can and did with relative ease.

boi......

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Introverts tend to be reactionary as fukk

its like how you see nerds all of sudden go from being about science and shyt to out of nowhere caring about masculinity, atheltics etc.

It’s not about being reactionary, it’s the principalities..
People like to take it there just because people are quiet and think introverts are soft targets.
So when people come with the bullshyt, you have to check them..
Every quiet nikka I know or the dude that just likes to sit in the cut and observe, are legit crazy..
Certifiable
What it really comes down to is that people don’t like what they can’t read..
If you are all loud, boisterous, full of bravado and charm..
Then people can easily indentify you and place you in a box(is that presumptuous and a blanket statement.)
Of course..
Is it right..
No..
So do the opposite with people who just like to be alone with their thoughts and prefer intimate relationships..
Nobody knows what goes on in someone’s head or life..
Instead of casting judgement..
People should just live their life and find happiness in there own instead of making people feel inadequate because they don’t want to talk..
I have a poker face from hell..
But people think I’m stuck up or mad..
I’m perfectly happy actually but I don’t tolerate dumb shyt and small talk.
If that makes me a misfit, nerd, cornball or what ever other adjective you can come up to describe me..
So be it..
You not feeding or fukking me..
So anybody’s input on me being introverted, really doesn’t matter

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

It’s not about being reactionary, it’s the principalities..
People like to take it there just because people are quiet and think introverts are soft targets.
So when people come with the bullshyt, you have to check them..
Every quiet nikka I know or the dude that just likes to sit in the cut and observe, are legit crazy..
Certifiable
What it really comes down to is that people don’t like what they can’t read..
If you are all loud, boisterous, full of bravado and charm..
Then people can easily indentify you and place you in a box(is that presumptuous and a blanket statement.)
Of course..
Is it right..
No..
So do the opposite with people who just like to be alone with their thoughts and prefer intimate relationships..
Nobody knows what goes on in someone’s head or life..
Instead of casting judgement..
People should just live their life and find happiness in there own instead of making people feel inadequate because they don’t want to talk..
I have a poker face from hell..
But people think I’m stuck up or mad..
I’m perfectly happy actually but I don’t tolerate dumb shyt and small talk.
If that makes me a misfit, nerd, cornball or what ever other adjective you can come up to describe me..
So be it..
You not feeding or fukking me..
So anybody’s input on me being introverted, really doesn’t matter

Introverts bend the knee for status quo all the time, stop trying to act like you a shaolin monk or some shyt