Why do people with kids constantly ask when you having kids?

[Mandarin Duck]

That's how people are. They do this to celebrities too.

Not to mention it's not as if Children/Marriage are always clear cut ways to prove someone isn't gay

 

[Aphrodite]

They want you to suffer too

This too. This is partly why people don't like the LGBTQ because they feel like instead of living a "normal suffering life full of sacrifice" its filled with "pleasure" and for "fun and happiness". That's why I think so many people hate the LBQTQ. They hate the "freedom" that the LGBTQ represents. Many grown adults live their lives for their parents/families and friends to blend in with everyone else.

 

[Unknown Poster]

That's what I hear too

They be miserable as fukk especially on social media

Yea. I think about my peers with kids and see how much theyve aged looks wise and how kids make them miserable fat and out of shape.

Meanwhile my sexy rocking hard and all these young women wanna holla at that boi...

 

[Aphrodite]

Not to mention it's not as if Children/Marriage are always clear cut ways to prove someone isn't gay

We ALL see that. Just like someone being a Preacher or Reverend/leadership position. But this is why people live double lives because they live for other people. Feel forced to live how their families/friends want them to.

I remember seeing photos of teen girls (Black young girls) in a bathroom all pregnant (in around 8th grade, if that). It was around 7 or 8 of them. All pregnant at the same time. You can't tell me they didn't have influence on each other.

 

[Black Cobain]

This too. This is partly why people don't like the LGBTQ because they feel like instead of living a "normal suffering life full of sacrifice" its filled with "pleasure" and for "fun and happiness". That's why I think so many people hate the LBQTQ. They feel hate the "freedom" that the LGBTQ represents. Many grown adults live their lives for their parents/families and friends to blend in with everyone else.

No lie I felt that way for a while too, I never liked the whole culture associated with LGBTQ, just felt too flashy, I realized most of us never had a family who'd support us and a chance to express themselves, I can't blame people for loving themselves in a heteronormative world anymore

 

[IronFist]

My mom has a friend who forever does this.

 

[theflyest]

Probably think you're gay/DL.

A lot of people are wrong when it comes to this. It seems like most dl people go out of their way to prove they aren't gay, by getting married, having kids, etc.

 

[Aphrodite]

A lot of people are wrong when it comes to this. It seems like most dl people go out of their way to prove they aren't gay, by getting married, having kids, etc.

It's both. You literally never know. People can suspect a feminine man for being gay (especially if he doesn't date or date publicly or have kids). He could just be sheltered and feminine. Doesn't mean he's into guys. But I can vouch that I've seen some of the most masculine tough guys who I later found out were DL /gay. So you're right. Those types escape the radar. Yusaf Mack said he was like that because he knew he liked guys/did things with guys and wanted to throw everyone completely off. He has dozens of children.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Dawg I've been saying it.

In this climate, kids are the worst investment you could possibly make.

 

[GreenGhxst]

They don't wanna be the only ones that fukked up
Misery loves company

 

[Tetsuo]

Homeboy with 3 kids: when you gon' drop some youngins?

Me: When I feel like it