Why do so many Black men encourage Black women to be fat under the guise of being "thick"?

[Ashley Banks]

I always thought black men preferred thick women like Beyoncé/Ashanti etc not fat. I don’t think black women's obesity is their fault. It’s due to not understanding and prioritizing health and fitness then shaming men into accepting it.

 

[BaggerofTea]

I cant lie, I dont think men need to be occupying their brains about what women should or shouldnt be doing.


We have enough on our plate, I know my simple brain doesnt have the bandwidth

 

[Xcenai]

So a black woman looking like Kendall Jenner is "healthy" to you?
If that's the case, why can't you clowns just be with a white bytch and leave black women alone?

Because some of us love black skin but not fat

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I don’t think black women's obesity is their fault. It’s due to not understanding and prioritizing health and fitness then shaming men into accepting it.

So it’s their fault

 

[RaspberryFitted]

When 60% of the women available to you are obese, many brehs will see it as the norm and learn to like it.

see how they hop skipped past this?

 

[010101]

nikkas really just be fukking for entertainment

they don't uphold a standard for women that is about health & complimenting the family image/reputation

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[Jean Jacket]

Nobody said women should be obese...

You're on clown time with this one.

Post a woman that you consider to be borderline fat.

You are buggin my man.

 

[Vandelay]

Relationship security.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

I think low standards has kind of been etched into some of our brains and people are itching to demonize you for having any sort of standard or preference. Men in general, but black men especially. Plus we've got this whole body positivity movement going on where we let fat women model for clothing that don't even sell in their size, some of them are out here winning pageants, and at least 75% of rap is guys drooling over "thick" women



A whole song justifying being a degenerate chubby chaser. The title and opening lyric of the song is literally them coping with their fat fetish.

 

[jilla82]

a breh gets his money right...moves up a social class and all of a sudden he forgets he ever liked fat girls

to add to this...
its not black men as a whole...its black men that grew up poor or lower middle class.
We need to stop equating the habits of people on the lower end of the socioeconomic rung as "black"

the women in these environments are big...
...so you convince yourself this is what you like

you see it on hood youtube channels...
...all the women look like this

its kinda sad

 

[King Poetic]

Only ones who encouraged that shyt is

1. nikkas fresh out of jail needing a place to sleep and he knows they ass fall for the bullshyt lines

2. Them dusty jeans wearing nickel and dime hustlers who can’t rubbed two nickles together

And finally those old ass gator shoe wearing nikkas who at this point would fukk a wild boar if they want to. Same old nikkas telling bytches they’ll drink a chick bath water

nikkas have no respect for themselves and then leaving these fat hoes pregnant with 2 and 3 kids

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

to add to this...
its not black men as a whole...its black men that grew up poor or lower middle class.
We need to stop equating the habits of people on the lower end of the socioeconomic rung as "black"

the women in these environments are big...
...so you convince yourself this is what you like

you see it on hood youtube channels...
...all the women look like this

its kinda sad

I actually think once we move into class it becomes of a topic about how low standards in general are a problem because it's not like wealthier and more successful black men are bagging rich and 10/10 Victoria secret models. Look at all these athletes. For example, you've got a billionaire like Tiger Woods who dates nothing but old looking white women when he's one of the most successful athletes in the world. They don't match his success with looks or money. You never see any of these NFL or NBA athletes bag dimes like Giselle, except Wilson, but even then his current wife was a single mom and his last one was a below average looking white woman that cheated on him.

 

[Ashley Banks]

So it’s their fault

Yeah, I thought that was obvious. You being fat can’t be someone else’s fault

 

[kaldurahm]

I like big women(big tatas and big booty) but might have to drop the word thick it's getting bad out here . Not even referring to just black women but all of them. At least more often then not a thick black women is better shaped, lotta other girls are badly shaped mang.

Might even have to stop being attracted to big women 9/10 it ain't worth the hype, with the tricks they're playing

 

[Piff Perkins]

Dunno what black men have to do with it. Women say everything they do body-wise is for themselves not men, right?

I think there's a clear shift to more fit bodies, more gym shyt etc thankfully. I hope black women join that wave.