How is a cat with average looks, average persona, average bankroll supposed to get a chick to lay with him, simpin is the only way for some dudes
Only a very small amount of smooth cats can be the handsome fly ass players getting the most chicks with the least effort.(regardless of money)
Developping confidence and game watching dudes like ams will get you somewhere in between those two extremes.
But most dudes are not meant to be absolute ladykillers, it takes a perfect mix of looks, game and emotional detachment towards women , it's not even something dudes should aspire to it's a fukked up lifestyle actually

, dudes tryna murk you cuz they be tight that they lady loose
Being a lightweight occasional player should be enough for most brothers, and you still might get heat from a simp trying be tough ,choose wisely what you wanna pursue