Why Do So Many Women Walk Around W A Chip On Their Shoulder?

[semicko82]

i know a bunch of chicks who are getting thier azz beat daily by BROKE AZZ DUDES

why??? two main reasons

one they grew up in a subculture where GUYS were seen as REAL MEN who kept thier women in check PHYSICALLY

so they don't want no WEAK AZZ MAN that they can bully around or is a basic simp who can't say NO to thier demands

and TWO

because MISERY LOVES COMPANY

i know a beautiful chick who worked for me as a temp ....whom asked me to help her move while her man got locked up briefly for whupping he azz

sad.....she use to come work damn thier begging other workers for lunch money and shyt cause her man did nothing but odd jobs and keep her pregnant...

4 kids and ONE ON THE WAY

and even after me and my homeboy helped move her into her sister house

SHE STILL WENT BACK TO OLE BOY to get those WWF SMACKDOWNS

it's basically SELF ESTEEM....and just because a byatch has a chip on her shoulder don't mean she has good self esteem

cause ole girl the temp...had a lil attitude too...but i realized while getting to know her it was just a DEFENSE MECHANISIM

and she was insecure and fearful....fearful of dealing with SOMEBODY BETTER because truth be told SHE WASN'T SHYT HERSELF

high school dropout...poor money management skills....a drunk.....and a attention seeker

she felt more comfortable dealing with somebody on her level like his broke azz who liked to drank and make bad decisions as well

a RESPONSIBLE GOOD MAN is too CHALLENGING for her.....

and BORING

the "ABUSIVE GUY" is ENTERTAINING...cause she don't know whether he gonna HUG her one evening or SMACK THE SHYT OUTTA HER

preach on this Sunday morning

 

[The M.I.C.]

Some of y'all nikkas need to start traveling and get passports.

Western society is shyt, has been shyt for over 50 years and steadily getting shyttier. You think a good majority of the women ain't gonna be shyt either? Whole population is degenerate. You gotta stick and move, identify and sort women you meet nowadays..you can find what you want but nikkas have blinders on that equate big titties and ass to a broad you want to keep close not knowing that woman got demons on her.

 

[The M.I.C.]

i know a bunch of chicks who are getting thier azz beat daily by BROKE AZZ DUDES

why??? two main reasons

one they grew up in a subculture where GUYS were seen as REAL MEN who kept thier women in check PHYSICALLY

so they don't want no WEAK AZZ MAN that they can bully around or is a basic simp who can't say NO to thier demands

and TWO

because MISERY LOVES COMPANY

i know a beautiful chick who worked for me as a temp ....whom asked me to help her move while her man got locked up briefly for whupping he azz

sad.....she use to come work damn thier begging other workers for lunch money and shyt cause her man did nothing but odd jobs and keep her pregnant...

4 kids and ONE ON THE WAY

and even after me and my homeboy helped move her into her sister house

SHE STILL WENT BACK TO OLE BOY to get those WWF SMACKDOWNS

it's basically SELF ESTEEM....and just because a byatch has a chip on her shoulder don't mean she has good self esteem

cause ole girl the temp...had a lil attitude too...but i realized while getting to know her it was just a DEFENSE MECHANISIM

and she was insecure and fearful....fearful of dealing with SOMEBODY BETTER because truth be told SHE WASN'T SHYT HERSELF

high school dropout...poor money management skills....a drunk.....and a attention seeker

she felt more comfortable dealing with somebody on her level like his broke azz who liked to drank and make bad decisions as well

a RESPONSIBLE GOOD MAN is too CHALLENGING for her.....

and BORING

the "ABUSIVE GUY" is ENTERTAINING...cause she don't know whether he gonna HUG her one evening or SMACK THE SHYT OUTTA HER

All gospels right here.

 

[Chrishaune]

If you're running away from your problems, you can't run far enough. Get to know human nature. Get to know how God made you (The only way to do that is through His word). You're a grown up now!!!

 

[Aceofspades404]

You literally threw black men under the bus because as you stated..
“You know what time it is” if a black man locks eyes with you..
This has nothing to do with you being a black woman..
No matter the color..
If you are an attractive woman and make eye contact with any man..
You could possibly get approached ..
This is the same rhetoric that has gotten black men killed in the past..
This same statement is why black men have the savage, hyper sexuality stigma attached to them...
Take yourself out of the equation as a woman and put yourself in a black mans shoes..
Every female(no matter the race) thinks even if it’s the smallest interaction on earth, a black man is trying to holla at them..
Nah..
I was just raised in the era of manners and being told since birth to all always make eye contact..
So even being courteous is now seen as trying to holla..
The fukk
This is why shyt is the way it is...
I’m just trying to get my juice and bagels bih..
Not interested in your goofy ass when I’m walking through the store
I love women, don’t have no beef but y’all can’t have it both ways
One minute it’s chivalry is dead/no men approach..
The next it’s..
This nikka made eye contact..
I hope he don’t holla
Again..
This is why I avoid the bullshyt out dolo..
Not every nikka you make eye contact with wants your ass..
Some could be in heavy thought about work or any other trivial, mundane thing..
See a attractive woman..
Acknowledge it in their mind and keep it moving..
I can concede on the fact I have never walked in a women’s shoes..
So I can’t fully experience the thirst like behavior of men..
But the same rhetoric you used(whether you like it or not) is the same shyt these white chicks and nonblacks use for every interaction with black men..
Emmet Till was killed for this exact same reason..

Girl Bye







you basically setting up a situation for NEGATIVITY with every person you meet....you are sad



And heffas like yourself wonder why YOU CAN'T GET A MAN

or GET TO THE MONEY...

nothing wrong with being CORDIAL...you ain't gotta put up a wall to every mofo you meet

one of the beautiful tings about arelationships give us access to opportunities and money

or as my homegirl said..."these HOES stressing but they fail to realize their attitudes is denying them a BLESSING"



girl ..... every BLACK MAN that MAKES EYE CONTACT WITH YA ...AINT TRYING TO HOLLAR

he could be wondering HOW THE FUKK U GET SO BIG??..and WHY ARE YOU WEARING THAT?...or WHO RAISED YOU???

stop feeling yaself ma.....you probally ain't nothing to look at to begin with

If y’all dont get the fukk outta here with the bull shyt. Don’t tell me how I should feel. I’ve had my body since about 10 or 11 so I’ve been dealing with this for more than a decade so you don’t get to tell me how I should move in certain situations and yes black men because that is the demographic I’m around. Even the most mundane shyt, I gotta brace myself for and yes I’m really not all that which makes it even more pathetic because I could understand the thirst if I looked like some ig model. Idk, maybe I’m just jaded but y’all realky asking me to ignore years of catcalling and harassment just so you can feel better about me saying hello back?
And I also explicitly said that I know the difference between a genuine hello and thirst so I act appropriately for the given situation it’s just the latter situations happen more frequently.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

If y’all dont get the fukk outta here with the bull shyt. Don’t tell me how I should feel. I’ve had my body since about 10 or 11 so I’ve been dealing with this for more than a decade so you don’t get to tell me how I should move in certain situations and yes black men because that is the demographic I’m around. Even the most mundane shyt, I gotta brace myself for and yes I’m really not all that which makes it even more pathetic because I could understand the thirst if I looked like some ig model. Idk, maybe I’m just jaded but y’all realky asking me to ignore years of catcalling and harassment just so you can feel better about me saying hello back?
And I also explicitly said that I know the difference between a genuine hello and thirst so I act appropriately for the given situation it’s just the latter situations happen more frequently.

And this right here ladies and gentlemen is why there is a divide and shyt is like it is
You not trying to listen and not even taking into consideration what I posted..
This tells me right now that you are not down to have a dialogue or even take responsibility for your statements..
I’ve had conversations with women like you and I just let it be..
Your experiences are all a sum total of all black men and it’s no changing your mind..
Not once in your initial post did you mention catcalling or harassment..
You are taking two subjects and mixing the conversations..
You legit said you know what time it is if a black man locks eyes with you..
So your statement is already tainted and as you say “jaded”..
Not every man out here is trying to hurt you, holla at you..
Are there shyt men out here that do what you describe..
Absolutely..
But I guarantee every brotha that crosses your path is not trying to holla just because they lock eyes with you..
That is far fetched and ridiculous..
You want people to acknowledge your plight..
Trust me I do..
This is not the plight olympics..
If you hadn’t notice..
They want all black people dead..
No matter the gender..
I have a mother, sister, nieces and a wife..
I know the stories..
But this is not about that..
You subtly tried to change the narrative in this post..
I asked you to take yourself out of your shoes and look at it from a black males perspective..
And you couldn’t even calm down and try to see it from my POV..
I even told you I can concede to your experience of thirsty nikkas..
But you couldn’t even acknowledge, just a little bit that your statement came off
I’ve been a black man for 37 years and I can’t even tell you the beginning of the fukkery I deal with from women..
I’m 6’0, dark, 245 and bald headed with a goatee..
I fit every stereotype of the hyper sexual,predator..
If a woman is not grabbing her purse, fidgeting with her keys in an elevator or even when I express chivalry/politeness..
I go through bullshyt on a daily and I still give chicks the benefit of the doubt..
I don’t hate women but I’m not dealing with the bullshyt micro agressions/attitude of random chicks anymore..
I just Diddy Bop around the bullshyt and go about my day..
Again..
Not every nikka is trying to holla at you..
People ask where is the humanity..
But we can’t even have a passing glance or share a moment of politeness anymore..
Is it Oochie Wally or One Mic..
You not trying to hear me so..
Enjoy the rest of your Sunday and I hope you try to heal from your past..
You can take that however you want...

 

[The M.I.C.]

And this right here ladies and gentlemen is why there is a divide and shyt is like it is
You not trying to listen and not even taking into consideration what I posted..
This tells me right now that you are not down to have a dialogue or even take responsibility for your statements..
I’ve had conversations with women like you and I just let it be..
Your experiences are all a sum total of all black men and it’s no changing your mind..
Not once in your initial post did you mention catcalling or harassment..
You are taking two subjects and mixing the conversations..
You legit said you know what time it is if a black man locks eyes with you..
So your statement is already tainted and as you say “jaded”..
Not every man out here is trying to hurt you, holla at you..
Are there shyt men out here that do what you describe..
Absolutely..
But I guarantee every brotha that crosses your path is not trying to holla just because they lock eyes with you..
That is far fetched and ridiculous..
You want people to acknowledge your plight..
Trust me I do..
This is not the plight olympics..
If you hadn’t notice..
They want all black people dead..
No matter the gender..
I have a mother, sister, nieces and a wife..
I know the stories..
But this is not about that..
You subtly tried to change the narrative in this post..
I asked you to take yourself out of your shoes and look at it from a black males perspective..
And you couldn’t even calm down and try to see it from my POV..
I even told you I can concede to your experience of thirsty nikkas..
But you couldn’t even acknowledge, just a little bit that your statement came off
I’ve been a black man for 37 years and I can’t even tell you the beginning of the fukkery I deal with from women..
I’m 6’0, dark, 245 and bald headed with a goatee..
I fit every stereotype of the hyper sexual,predator..
If a woman is not grabbing her purse, fidgeting with her keys in an elevator or even when I express chivalry/politeness..
I go through bullshyt on a daily and I still give chicks the benefit of the doubt..
I don’t hate women but I’m not dealing with the bullshyt micro transgressions/attitude of random chicks anymore..
I just Diddy Bop around the bullshyt and go about my day..
Again..
Not every nikka is trying to holla at you..
People ask where is the humanity..
But we can’t even have a passing glance or share a moment of politeness anymore..
Is it Oochie Wally or One Mic..
You not trying to hear me so..
Enjoy the rest of your Sunday and I hope you try to heal from your past..
You can take that however you want...

I don't even know why y'all going back and forth with her..she been on this shyt for a minute, wish her wounded ass would go back to lurking.

 

[MaxPain]

If y’all dont get the fukk outta here with the bull shyt. Don’t tell me how I should feel. I’ve had my body since about 10 or 11 so I’ve been dealing with this for more than a decade so you don’t get to tell me how I should move in certain situations and yes black men because that is the demographic I’m around. Even the most mundane shyt, I gotta brace myself for and yes I’m really not all that which makes it even more pathetic because I could understand the thirst if I looked like some ig model. Idk, maybe I’m just jaded but y’all realky asking me to ignore years of catcalling and harassment just so you can feel better about me saying hello back?
And I also explicitly said that I know the difference between a genuine hello and thirst so I act appropriately for the given situation it’s just the latter situations happen more frequently.

This is exactly the type of bitterness and rudeness I was talking about lol

Lowkey c00n comment too. Ur a miserable woman lol

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

If y’all dont get the fukk outta here with the bull shyt. Don’t tell me how I should feel. I’ve had my body since about 10 or 11 so I’ve been dealing with this for more than a decade so you don’t get to tell me how I should move in certain situations and yes black men because that is the demographic I’m around. Even the most mundane shyt, I gotta brace myself for and yes I’m really not all that which makes it even more pathetic because I could understand the thirst if I looked like some ig model. Idk, maybe I’m just jaded but y’all realky asking me to ignore years of catcalling and harassment just so you can feel better about me saying hello back?
And I also explicitly said that I know the difference between a genuine hello and thirst so I act appropriately for the given situation it’s just the latter situations happen more frequently.

yup its pretty clear......

you are a Bitter...Busted and Big

and want to vent your frustation on any random BLACK guy who comes into your presence






do us all a favor...


and GO KILL YOURSELF QUANDISHA

 

[mag357]

These dudes don't get it and he won't ever make a thread about that because he only wants to paint a light about the side of men. Alot of the women OP has talked about, he paints this picture acts like one of those "fake nice guys" and he doesn't realize what they are going through. I saw Tariq on a show onetime say that alot of these dudes don't chill and realize that some of the women are defensive because they could have been molested when younger or raped



This is the foolishness i'm talking about and the Stevante Clarke nonsense that will be the downfall of this site one day.

If your mothers knew half the things you were saying on here about women. The second one of you says "these females" a woman knows what is about to come



I am from the northeast but the conversation still gets annoying as hell. OP always has some sort of issue with women. He hates women and you guys always dap him up. But using the northeast women as an example of ALL women(and that is overhyped) is like the Black foreigners(Africans and Caribbeans) that go to America and live mainly in the Northeast and use that to generalize Black Americans. That is what I look at it like

Most Black people live in the South and it always has been that way. But these fools in here keep going off interactions from women in the Northeast. And its less black suburbs in the North east which makes it even worse and even more unfair.

You don't see OP ever speaking about going to the South and his interactions with black women with their own small businesses,on HBCU campuses, black business conferences, museums, STEM workshops,

I bet you anything his barometer on how he judges women and likely black women is clubs and malls. I guarantee you.

My mother knows lol.... shes a woman. ofcourse shes not going to agree... but truth is truth

 

[Aceofspades404]

And this right here ladies and gentlemen is why there is a divide and shyt is like it is
You not trying to listen and not even taking into consideration what I posted..
This tells me right now that you are not down to have a dialogue or even take responsibility for your statements..
I’ve had conversations with women like you and I just let it be..
Your experiences are all a sum total of all black men and it’s no changing your mind..
Not once in your initial post did you mention catcalling or harassment..
You are taking two subjects and mixing the conversations..
You legit said you know what time it is if a black man locks eyes with you..
So your statement is already tainted and as you say “jaded”..
Not every man out here is trying to hurt you, holla at you..
Are there shyt men out here that do what you describe..
Absolutely..
But I guarantee every brotha that crosses your path is not trying to holla just because they lock eyes with you..
That is far fetched and ridiculous..
You want people to acknowledge your plight..
Trust me I do..
This is not the plight olympics..
If you hadn’t notice..
They want all black people dead..
No matter the gender..
I have a mother, sister, nieces and a wife..
I know the stories..
But this is not about that..
You subtly tried to change the narrative in this post..
I asked you to take yourself out of your shoes and look at it from a black males perspective..
And you couldn’t even calm down and try to see it from my POV..
I even told you I can concede to your experience of thirsty nikkas..
But you couldn’t even acknowledge, just a little bit that your statement came off
I’ve been a black man for 37 years and I can’t even tell you the beginning of the fukkery I deal with from women..
I’m 6’0, dark, 245 and bald headed with a goatee..
I fit every stereotype of the hyper sexual,predator..
If a woman is not grabbing her purse, fidgeting with her keys in an elevator or even when I express chivalry/politeness..
I go through bullshyt on a daily and I still give chicks the benefit of the doubt..
I don’t hate women but I’m not dealing with the bullshyt micro transgressions/attitude of random chicks anymore..
I just Diddy Bop around the bullshyt and go about my day..
Again..
Not every nikka is trying to holla at you..
People ask where is the humanity..
But we can’t even have a passing glance or share a moment of politeness anymore..
Is it Oochie Wally or One Mic..
You not trying to hear me so..
Enjoy the rest of your Sunday and I hope you try to heal from your past..
You can take that however you want...

I’m not trying to change any narrative. If you’re familiar with my interactions with op, you’d know that I don’t take any of his thread seriously. You misconstrued my statement and made an assumption. When I said “if I see a black man and we locks eyes, I already know what time it is,” it wasn’t to be taken literally. I was not labeling the black man as threatening, I would never do that. For the most part, My interactions between black men have been positive on the personal level so I have no reason to be bitter. I was simply describing situations involving strangers. As I’ve said, I’m not rude to a man for just making eye contact. There are sublities that are given for me to know how to react in a certain situation hence “what time it is”. Maybe I should have went into detail in my original post but like I said I didn’t take this thread seriously given who op is. I don’t need to hear you because I understand completely.

I don't even know why y'all going back and forth with her..she been on this shyt for a minute, wish her wounded ass would go back to lurking.

Why not just address me?
You really want to group me into the black men hating club but you know that’s not true

This is exactly the type of bitterness and rudeness I was talking about lol

Lowkey c00n comment too. Ur a miserable woman lol

I have never used a man, never played a man, never lied to get money from a man and damn sure never catfished and black mailed a married man. The irony is you have done all these things and god knows what else but here you are about to flip your lid because women don’t like saying hi back to you
Maybe they smelled the sociopathy on you

You are the hurt and miserable one. Any person can go through your posts and post it on ***** and it’ll fit right in

 

[The M.I.C.]

@Holy Berry You make it hard to love you at times.

 

[MaxPain]

I’m not trying to change any narrative. If you’re familiar with my interactions with op, you’d know that I don’t take any of his thread seriously. You misconstrued my statement and made an assumption. When I said “if I see a black man and we locks eyes, I already know what time it is,” it wasn’t to be taken literally. I was not labeling the black man as threatening, I would never do that. For the most part, My interactions between black men have been positive on the personal level so I have no reason to be bitter. I was simply describing situations involving strangers. As I’ve said, I’m not rude to a man for just making eye contact. There are sublities that are given for me to know how to react in a certain situation hence “what time it is”. Maybe I should have went into detail in my original post but like I said I didn’t take this thread seriously given who op is. I don’t need to hear you because I understand completely.

Why not just address me?
You really want to group me into the black men hating club but you know that’s not true


I have never used a man, never played a man, never lied to get money from a man and damn sure never catfished and black mailed a married man. The irony is you have done all these things and god knows what else but here you are about to flip your lid because women don’t like saying hi back to you
Maybe they smelled the sociopathy on you

You are the hurt and miserable one. Any person can go through your posts and post it on ***** and it’ll fit right in

Who hurt you

 

[Aceofspades404]

@Holy Berry You make it hard to love you at times.

But what did I do?

Who hurt you

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

i know a bunch of chicks who are getting thier azz beat daily by BROKE AZZ DUDES

why??? two main reasons

one they grew up in a subculture where GUYS were seen as REAL MEN who kept thier women in check PHYSICALLY

so they don't want no WEAK AZZ MAN that they can bully around or is a basic simp who can't say NO to thier demands

and TWO

because MISERY LOVES COMPANY

i know a beautiful chick who worked for me as a temp ....whom asked me to help her move while her man got locked up briefly for whupping he azz

sad.....she use to come work damn thier begging other workers for lunch money and shyt cause her man did nothing but odd jobs and keep her pregnant...

4 kids and ONE ON THE WAY

and even after me and my homeboy helped move her into her sister house

SHE STILL WENT BACK TO OLE BOY to get those WWF SMACKDOWNS

it's basically SELF ESTEEM....and just because a byatch has a chip on her shoulder don't mean she has good self esteem

cause ole girl the temp...had a lil attitude too...but i realized while getting to know her it was just a DEFENSE MECHANISIM

and she was insecure and fearful....fearful of dealing with SOMEBODY BETTER because truth be told SHE WASN'T SHYT HERSELF

high school dropout...poor money management skills....a drunk.....and a attention seeker

she felt more comfortable dealing with somebody on her level like his broke azz who liked to drank and make bad decisions as well

a RESPONSIBLE GOOD MAN is too CHALLENGING for her.....

and BORING

the "ABUSIVE GUY" is ENTERTAINING...cause she don't know whether he gonna HUG her one evening or SMACK THE SHYT OUTTA HER

I gotta hand it to you

Ur very well informed