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I agree that some dudes on here go over the top with their rhetoric, however, discussing topics is what an internet forum is about. And no, simply disagreeing with SOME of the things some women may do does not mean that dude is not getting female attention.

Out of curiosity, why do people use the elementary "if you say something negative about a woman's behavior, then you must be gay or not get any women" line? Grown people with functioning brains actually say that? Out loud? For other people to hear? And they think that makes sense?

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It's a sad state of affairs when intellectual discussion is turned into "you must not have no chicks" because a dude challenges the idea that wearing weave is harmless to one's self image. Or a dude challenges a woman decision to be a recurring single mother. Or a dude challenges a woman saying "I'm strong and independent" but still wanting a dude to treat her on some June Cleaver level when she feels like it.

Yup, because every time I turn around, gay guys are the ones calling women on their bullsh#t :stopitslime:

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Mad dudes project their issues/problems with women on others and I ain't feeling that. I've called out many posters on their BS only for them to backtrack.

Also, people get offended when you don't like or share their opinions as if their opinion is the only one that matters and everyone should think that way.
 

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I agree that some dudes on here go over the top with their rhetoric, however, discussing topics is what an internet forum is about. And no, simply disagreeing with SOME of the things some women may do does not mean that dude is not getting female attention.

Out of curiosity, why do people use the elementary "if you say something negative about a woman's behavior, then you must be gay or not get any women" line? Grown people with functioning brains actually say that? Out loud? For other people to hear? And they think that makes sense?

:mjlol:

It's a sad state of affairs when intellectual discussion is turned into "you must not have no chicks" because a dude challenges the idea that wearing weave is harmless to one's self image. Or a dude challenges a woman decision to be a recurring single mother. Or a dude challenges a woman saying "I'm strong and independent" but still wanting a dude to treat her on some June Cleaver level when she feels like it.

Yup, because every time I turn around, gay guys are the ones calling women on their bullsh#t :stopitslime:

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Lets not insult anyone's intelligence here by characterizing the rhetoric in question as men just having a reasoned disagreement, or critique with the behavior of "some" women. Thats throwing rocks and hiding your hands. If a white dude gets on here and starts talking about "blacks are thugs and love violence more than education", we can all tell where his head is at w/o him explicitly saying he hates all black people, and harbors deep resentments towards them. Yes this is an internet forum, but at the same time if you throw extreme opinions out there be prepared for them to be thrown right back in your face.
 

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It is what it is... wtf ive been here at the Coli for a few weeks and I see every topic under the sun from a BLACK perspective getting talked about. You know how hard it is to find that on a major website nowadays. are you serious??? We're gonna talk about whatever the fukk we want. I'm just saying it's refreshing to hear some shyt people just say what's been on their minds. No censoring themselves like we do in public...


yeah i see it from this perspective too...but i laugh at the ridiculousness of it...as ive always said i come here for the fukkery and laughs but @BelowTheMasonDixon is making good fukking points about the general dysfunctional nature of these nikkas mindstate...
 

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Men can be scarred cuz. Its not only women. Imagine getting 80k in debt, and studying your ass off to attain a degree only to find out the chick you like, fukking with a dude that works at hibbetts. :to:

LOL :russ: true fukking words...


whats hibbetts :lupe:
 

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I chalk it up to people venting vicariously.......It is a plethora of vagina out here and no decent guy should have a reason to complain about dry dikk syndrome......

I think the media and TV got a lot of dudes\chicks fukked up mentally when it comes to interacting socially in real life
can you elaborate on this...i see the connection..just picking your brain
 

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I agree that some dudes on here go over the top with their rhetoric, however, discussing topics is what an internet forum is about. And no, simply disagreeing with SOME of the things some women may do does not mean that dude is not getting female attention.

Out of curiosity, why do people use the elementary "if you say something negative about a woman's behavior, then you must be gay or not get any women" line? Grown people with functioning brains actually say that? Out loud? For other people to hear? And they think that makes sense?

:mjlol:

It's a sad state of affairs when intellectual discussion is turned into "you must not have no chicks" because a dude challenges the idea that wearing weave is harmless to one's self image. Or a dude challenges a woman decision to be a recurring single mother. Or a dude challenges a woman saying "I'm strong and independent" but still wanting a dude to treat her on some June Cleaver level when she feels like it.

Yup, because every time I turn around, gay guys are the ones calling women on their bullsh#t :stopitslime:

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This post is rational and I see where you are coming from, but its based on the assumption that dudes on this site are actually discussing these issues from a respectful standpoint...but thats not the case...nikkas are here venting frustrations with their extremely negative views of black women as a whole that only serve to expose what issues they are dealing with in life right now...

on one hand you have c00ns...
on the other you have white people pretending to be black...
oh and you cant forget the holts...

that list can continue some more, but you know that TLR has really become :troll: worthy
 

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Lets not insult anyone's intelligence here by characterizing the rhetoric in question as men just having a reasoned disagreement, or critique with the behavior of "some" women. Thats throwing rocks and hiding your hands. If a white dude gets on here and starts talking about "blacks are thugs and love violence more than education", we can all tell where his head is at w/o him explicitly saying he hates all black people, and harbors deep resentments towards them. Yes this is an internet forum, but at the same time if you throw extreme opinions out there be prepared for them to be thrown right back in your face.

And I can agree with the sentiment regarding "extreme" opinions and statements. However, I'm speaking more towards the idea that simply calling out BS on the actions, attitudes and/or demeanors of some women is somehow tied to a man's sexuality and/or his relationship status at the moment of the comment.

Or that even calling out bad behavior from women is extreme in and of itself. When did that happen?

I just get tired of the rudimentary:

Chick/Dude: "Oh, if you say something bad about chicks, then you must be gay" :mjpls:

Dude: "I'm not talking about women in general, but the kind of women who want to be independent in one breath and traditional in another" :stopitslime:
Chick/Dude: "Well, the only dudes who hate women are gay" :skip:

Dude: "Really? What gay dude hates women? Every gay dude I've known/seen is extra cool with chicks.":comeon:

Chick/Dude: "Well, you must not have get any women then" :patrice:

Dude: :beli:...."tell that to the chick who drank the babies last night" :mjlol:

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