Why do some men believe dating a single mom is simping

[Phitz]

There are 2 stupid things about this thread.

The first assumes that all single mothers are the same in the exact same scenario

The 2nd assumes that everyone who dates one will eventually move in with her and/or marry her and provide for her children.

There are millions of variables involved. but the dummies on this forum have limited cognitive ability and no critical thinking skills.

 

[Marco Zen]

Single moms don't get that much hate offline. I personally know dozens in serious relationships and new marriages. I think it's Just one of those hot button topics to guarantee a long thread here, kind of like with pawgs, bedwenches, and nonsense

This.

And we have to consider a lot of these clowns don't get a lot of action offline. This may be avenue to vent their frustration.

I do believe a lot of these nikkaz are frustrated. They see or meet a hot, pretty girl with a banging body nice phat ass decent personality she's nice and cool as hell appears to have her shyt together then boom the worst thing imaginable... She has a child..

Then you take that same girl, and us exceptional nikkaz whom ARE willing to "date" her. Going balls deep in her fine ass on the regular, head from her with out asking just a hand signal, getting fed by her, bathed by her, treated like a king by her and ain't worried about who she used to fukk aint taking care of no "other mans responsibility" no "saved game" or whatever other clever nonsense fantasy these nikkaz yappin about ,just acknowledging the child's presence here and there, these nikkaz see that and they can't comprehend it. And it frustrates them so they come in here and take multiple shyts on these baddies they wish they were man enough to be dating.

Some people just would rather date a woman without kids. Cool. Nothing wrong with that. Doesn't make you less of a man.

But some nikkaz are just weak pieces of shyt and mad.

 

[Woman of god]

nah its a problem for the masses because these bytches need to face the consequences of there horrid decision making

let the next generation know

so people with "horrid decision making" shouldnt receive love? cool. lets apply that to all felons and ppl who've ruined their finances to and just watch the world burn.

also, having a child isnt necessarily horrid decision making

 

[Phitz]

because someone who doesn't share your DNA will always be her top priority over you.

It;s a kid...you're acting jealous over a HYPOTHETICAL kid. That means you're putting yourself on the level of a kid.

 

[Woman of god]

I agree that saying "single moms are unworthy of love" is taking it too far. But as far as the other points, its all about what you find important. Nobody is perfect, but asking somebody to take on the responsibility of a child that isn't theirs is a lot to ask for and totally diff than the other examples you used. There are a lot of guys out here who will, and also a ton of single dads out here who would look silly having a no child policy, that would choose single moms.

thats fair enough, it is a huge responsibility to raise a child. its also a huge responsibiliy to commit yourself to person with health issues or with financial issues. in general loving someone is kind of a gamble and might require more than youre willing to give. thats life. i dont put single mothers in a special category because of it

 

[Phitz]

There's alot of garbage personalities on this board, but to be fair they probably dealt with some garbage women. I guess this thread is a barometer of how far down the garbage shoot much of American society as fallen. People date to compete, hurt, and take advantage of other people, not for building or growing together or anything like that.

 

[dc007]

This.

And we have to consider a lot of these clowns don't get a lot of action offline. This may be avenue to vent their frustration.

I do believe a lot of these nikkaz are frustrated. They see or meet a hot, pretty girl with a banging body nice phat ass decent personality she's nice and cool as hell appears to have her shyt together then boom the worst thing imaginable... She has a child..

Then you take that same girl, and us exceptional nikkaz whom ARE willing to "date" her. Going balls deep in her fine ass on the regular, head from her with out asking just a hand signal, getting fed by her, bathed by her, treated like a king by her and ain't worried about who she used to fukk aint taking care of no "other mans responsibility" no "saved game" or whatever other clever nonsense fantasy these nikkaz yappin about ,just acknowledging the child's presence here and there, these nikkaz see that and they can't comprehend it. And it frustrates them so they come in here and take multiple shyts on these baddies they wish they were man enough to be dating.

Some people just would rather date a woman without kids. Cool. Nothing wrong with that. Doesn't make you less of a man.

But some nikkaz are just weak pieces of shyt and mad.

ain't nobody sayin they don't/won't fukk and have a single mom as somebody you casually date. Just sayin we ain't committing long term

thats fair enough, it is a huge responsibility to raise a child. its also a huge responsibiliy to commit yourself to person with health issues or with financial issues. in general loving someone is kind of a gamble and might require more than youre willing to give. thats life. i dont put single mothers in a special category because of it

I don't think many people are going to get into a relationship with a person with known serious health or financial issues without the relationship being already established beforehand. But different people value different things, its somebody out here for everybody

 

[old_timer]

My fiancé is a grandma and her kids are 18+
None live under her roof
So I can't speak to the stepfather part
But I agree with phortney that most mothers who entered my orbit had their act together and wanted to make it work and didn't need a comeup
They just wanted clarity
Like if I was coming by at 7, then I needed to hit that 6:55-7:10 window and be on point
Cause they are juggling shyt on a schedule
But that's most adult women who have careers and responsibilities

"Blank slate" women with no history or pending obligations aren't exactly catches, in my experience

I mean, if trashy backstabbing women are in your orbit
..then change your orbit
Because there's a big world out there

 

[Voice of Reason]

My fiancé is a grandma and her kids are 18+
None live under her roof
So I can't speak to the stepfather part
But I agree with phortney that most mothers who entered my orbit had their act together and wanted to make it work and didn't need a comeup
They just wanted clarity
Like if I was coming by at 7, then I needed to hit that 6:55-7:10 window and be on point
Cause they are juggling shyt on a schedule
But that's most adult women who have careers and responsibilities

"Blank slate" women with no history or pending obligations aren't exactly catches, in my experience

I mean, if trashy backstabbing women are in your orbit
..then change your orbit
Because there's a big world out there

I agree with the last part

 

[Voice of Reason]

It really depends on the baby father position

I used to love banging single moms in my past, but u can tell by the way they talk that a few of them wasn't over the baby father because they would talk about him to you more than what u wanted to know or not know..

I fukked a co worker who had two kids by two different dudes and I knew she was damage goods because she was the type to fall in love quick even before a relationship takes place...she got married I believe but man after I fukk and KEPT IT MOVIN , she literally told me she fukked 6 nikkas in like 5 months...

It varies from woman to woman and what profession she does and lifestyle she lives..

A chick I know literally told me the same thing the other day



These women be out here moving

 

[DrX]

There's alot of garbage personalities on this board, but to be fair they probably dealt with some garbage women. I guess this thread is a barometer of how far down the garbage shoot much of American society as fallen. People date to compete, hurt, and take advantage of other people, not for building or growing together or anything like that.

all man shut up

not all everyman is stupid enough to take care for somebodies living cum

yall kill me with this"they're angry and losers offline" not everybody think like u

 

[Taadow]

It's only simping if you simping.
Dwell on it.

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

This.

And we have to consider a lot of these clowns don't get a lot of action offline. This may be avenue to vent their frustration.

I do believe a lot of these nikkaz are frustrated. They see or meet a hot, pretty girl with a banging body nice phat ass decent personality she's nice and cool as hell appears to have her shyt together then boom the worst thing imaginable... She has a child..

Then you take that same girl, and us exceptional nikkaz whom ARE willing to "date" her. Going balls deep in her fine ass on the regular, head from her with out asking just a hand signal, getting fed by her, bathed by her, treated like a king by her and ain't worried about who she used to fukk aint taking care of no "other mans responsibility" no "saved game" or whatever other clever nonsense fantasy these nikkaz yappin about ,just acknowledging the child's presence here and there, these nikkaz see that and they can't comprehend it. And it frustrates them so they come in here and take multiple shyts on these baddies they wish they were man enough to be dating.

Some people just would rather date a woman without kids. Cool. Nothing wrong with that. Doesn't make you less of a man.

But some nikkaz are just weak pieces of shyt and mad.

You're clearly hurt by the comments in here hence why you've been in here for multiple pages talking this waffle hyperbole nonsense.

You can tell when users are hurt by a thread they always resort to 'these nikkas dont get a lot of action offline' - you were talkin about being a grown man, say names.. who are 'these nikkas' that dont get a lot of action offline?

 

[Phitz]

all man shut up

not all everyman is stupid enough to take care for somebodies living cum

yall kill me with this"they're angry and losers offline" not everybody think like u

Your response reflects on the type of women you deal with or expect ot deal with. If the kids father AND mother is taking care of them you really dont' have to do anything. Your response assumes that the kids father is not taking care of them. Typical dumb ass assumptions which reflects on your dumb ass.

There's too many assumptions leaning towards the negative. This type of topic has a million answers not just one, so you illustrated my point of no critical thinking skills.

 

[Marco Zen]

You're clearly hurt by the comments in here hence why you've been in here for multiple pages talking this waffle hyperbole nonsense.

You can tell when users are hurt by a thread they always resort to 'these nikkas dont get a lot of action offline' - you were talkin about being a grown man, say names.. who are 'these nikkas' that dont get a lot of action offline?

Names?
Who cares you mf you?