Why do some of yall nikkaz despise single mothers, when many of you come from single mothers

[Ronnie Lott]

People don't like to admit they have resentment toward one or both of their parents for raising them alone. Living that life they can see how it could have been better since there is alot of behavior that has to be unlearned and retaught since a woman can't teach manhood. Ready made families for a man with no child is not the business.

Well why do some cats believe that single mothers need to remain single

 

[Detroit Wave]

Two parent homes

Still not raising another nikka seeds :paperumad:

 

[The5thLetter]

Cuz he's not fukking his mom, so her being a single mom has no bearing on who he dates

 

[Mowgli]

Well why do some cats believe that single mothers need to remain single

That's the perspective of a young man without a child.

 

[meth68]

Ok so everyone is different but I can give my take, I used to be that dude that would never chill with a girl with kids, not sure why to be honest

I started dated this chick that was cool and after 3-4 dates she told me she had a daughter that was 1 years old, no baby daddy drama or anything like that. I was scared as hell but she was mad cool so I stuck around it wasn't easy cause you can't ignore the fact that if your dating someone (and move in together) their kid especially being that young because a huge responsibility for you as well. My boys used to bust my balls and talk mad shyt, but after a while they got it and they all became cool with the situation

Fast forward 5 years we dated for 5 years, we mutually broke up in feb but are still very good friends i see her 2-3x a week, her daughter (who is now 6) is my nieces best friend (who is 7), they have known each other since 1-2 which is very cool and hard to come by. Her daughter is still mad cool with me, and even her family is cool with me, they trust me picking up her daughter from school more so then her baby's father who is a legit piece of shyt. Her daughter is mad cool with my brothers and they are cool with her. It turned out to be a very good situation and I don't regret it at all, to this day she thanks me for helping her through it at, but in the end, it probably helped me grow up much more then she realizes.

To make a long story short, I got mad respect for single moms now and I actually respect then more then any other random female. It ain't easy doing what they do, yea some are mad shady but I am not talking about them, I am talking about your typical single mom. I all of them.

 

[Detroit Wave]

Attention all ladies, this is a real man ^^^

So the only thing that makes a man a real man is his willingness to raise another mans child?

So childless men who marry childless women then starts having kids arent real men?

Say dumb shyt on the internet brehs :timmyumadbreh:

 

[Ronnie Lott]

So the only thing that makes a man a real man is his willingness to raise another mans child?

So childless men who marry childless women then starts having kids arent real men?

Say dumb shyt on the internet brehs :timmyumadbreh:

I'm just goin off what I've been told

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Single mothers are very last on my dating list right under terminally ill women and amputateed midget stripper/$10 hooker

I know people who were brought into the world by crackhead mothers. Are they supposed to love all crackheads because their mother was one?

It's an unnecessarily terrible situation to get into as a single male with options

 

[Blackking]

depends on the single mom.

If she's too ratchet then shes scum.

If shes a good mother and has things going for herself then.... maybe.

 

[Tuneday]

Why can't single mums date single dads tho?

Is that option for them slags or nah?

 

[No_bammer_weed]

I'd prefer not to date a women with kids, not because I think they are the scum of the earth
But because I believe in picking the best situation for me
The same way women don't want short nikkas, broke nikkas, Mama boys, downlow nikkas etc. etc. etc.
And my parents have been married 40+ years
I might consider a single mon with ONE kid if her shyt was together

This is moderate and reflective of the views of many males, and its one that I share as well. Im at a point in my life where kids arent on my radar...whether through my own doing, or introduced by another party (a single mother). Thats my preference and my right as a free man. But Ronnie aint talking about you and I here.

Hes talking about the a$$holes who use "single mothers" as an end around to ridicule black women with fukked up stereotypes, in almost the exact same way whites selectively use "crime rates" to attack black men and portray us as subhuman menaces.

 

[WILLOWSMITH]

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[WILLOWSMITH]

glad I grew up with my mom, dad and former stepdad at the same time. unless you are abused/widowed/divorced I believe single parenting is wrong. a child needs to grow up with two parents in their lives.

 

[Tuneday]

This is moderate and reflective of the views of many males, and its one that I share as well. Im at a point in my life where kids arent on my radar...whether through my own doing, or introduced by another party (a single mother). Thats my preference and my right as a free man. But Ronnie aint talking about you and I here.

Hes talking about the a$$holes who use "single mothers" as an end around to ridicule black women with fukked up stereotypes, in almost the exact same way whites selectively use "crime rates" to attack black men and portray us as subhuman menaces.

I think I can speak for the "a$$holes" when I say we are hard on single mum slags.... Regardless of race, culture and ethnicity.
Now stop caping, it's embarrasing mate.

 

[Raptor]

You need a psychologist for that answer