Why do some of yall nikkaz despise single mothers, when many of you come from single mothers

kayslay

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You're using exception to the rule with your sister.
Not really.
Most single mothers are create after failed long term relationships. All single mothers aren't teen moms.
 

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Exactly if you already have kids you should be able to provide for your kids and they should have a healthy relationship with the other parent.
If not get them a mentor.
I'm not playing step mom.
My parents are separated but for half my life lived in a two parent household. In general I don't have an issue with single mothers, however I wouldn't personally date one. I don't care for kids and I can't see myself really caring about someone else's kid that isn't mine. The only single mothers I have a problem with are the ones with unrealistic expectations and who expect to be pampered.
 

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Who you you blame more, the single mother or the dude who knocked her up? Or do they deserve equal blame

The woman for not choosing the right man to have a kid with. Now the man will always have to deal with walking out on his kid
 

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receipts?
From my experience.
My mom dated my sister dad 2 years before my sis was born.
He passed.
Dated my dad 3 years before I was born. Still together.
All my family members were with their kids parent at least 2-3 years before a child was conceived; Men and women alike. Except like 3 of my cousins, but they have issues.
 
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Antidotes are better than stats in this instance.
As I already stated all single mother aren't teen moms.
Most adult women have kids after they've been in a committed relationship at least a few years.
Ask your brehs who aren't teen fathers how long they were with their children's moms before they had a kid.
 

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I want stats, not anecdotes.

Anecdotes are better than stats in this instance.
As I already stated all single mother aren't teen moms.
Most adult women have kids after they've been in a committed relationship at least a few years.
Ask your brehs who aren't teen fathers how long they were with their children's moms before they had a kid.
 

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Antidotes are better than stats in this instance.
As I already stated all single mother aren't teen moms.
Most adult women have kids after they've been in a committed relationship at least a few years.
Ask your brehs who aren't teen fathers how long they were with their children's moms before they had a kid.

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These generalisations are wild, because every one's situation is different.
There are things such as widows and divorces.

Do you dudes think just because you're no longer in a relationship with a women that you don't have to be apart of your child's life????

Just because a women is single and a mother doesn't mean she needs you to raise her kid.
That what fathers are for.

Some women just want relationships not step dads.
 

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Most single mothers are create after failed long term relationships.
False. You aren't a single mother if the father is in your child's life, you are just co-parents and THAT is how most "failed long term relationships" are. Most single mothers are results of short-term relationships, promiscuity, immaturity and poor decisions (men and women both).
 
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