i believe that is subjective, bro
Why do some people obsess over the thought of their partner cheating on them?
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no.
girls just wanna have funds
Either you like them and get jealous or your pride can't take being cheated on. Add on insecurities, then you get an obsession.
But honestly, it's never happened to me. I always accept that 1) they may cheat and 2) if they cheat, it's over. Just like that. It ain't worth my time obsessing over stuff. Even if I were to date a guy who was a notorious player, I'd accept our relationship as a one-time chance that would quickly be over if he stepped out of line.
I don't understand women who stay after a man cheats and keep trying to make him be faithful, however that works.
If he wants to cheat, he will. You can't stop him. What you can do is leave. And if you aren't strong enough to do that, then he obviously has full control of the relationship and you're truly his bytch. Not his woman, his bytch.
But honestly, it's never happened to me. I always accept that 1) they may cheat and 2) if they cheat, it's over. Just like that. It ain't worth my time obsessing over stuff. Even if I were to date a guy who was a notorious player, I'd accept our relationship as a one-time chance that would quickly be over if he stepped out of line.
I don't understand women who stay after a man cheats and keep trying to make him be faithful, however that works.
If he wants to cheat, he will. You can't stop him. What you can do is leave. And if you aren't strong enough to do that, then he obviously has full control of the relationship and you're truly his bytch. Not his woman, his bytch.
True, but think about the amount of women you'll come across when you're 35 as compared to the amount of women you've met at 25. But yeah it depends on a person's definition of "perfect mate" as well. I still think that monogamy is one of the hardest disciplines to master.
Busted_Toes
Veteran
For Black people is monogamy a new concept? I mean, most of our ancestors had a plethora of puzzy.
Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
The worst feeling in the world is the feeling of betrayal or imminent doom so i can see how these scars can put friends on edge. You cant let it rule your life though because what you'll find is that you become a catalyst for failed relationships with extreme paranoia. Some people may be flattered by the attention and others, may not.@His_Excellence_Reincar @Theraflu @BrothaZay @malcolmxxx_45
I'm sure we have all encountered people like this....is it paranoia? insecurities? self conscience?
I can't lie...I went through a month-long period of this, but then I just seriously thought it over and realized I was putting together puzzle pieces that don't even exist
But my best friend went through this for about 6 months...that shyt was rough
I was there for him though...but he is doing WAY better now
It doesnt help that men and women are demonic filth and cheat on each other at alarming rates.
1. being cheated on before
2. trust issues ( which i have alot of with people)
3. listening to there friends, coworkers and even the internet people talking about how there girl/man cheated on them
2. trust issues ( which i have alot of with people)
3. listening to there friends, coworkers and even the internet people talking about how there girl/man cheated on them
yeah man...im scared of that but at some point...people just have to learn to let go and let love and life take its course
Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
You have to love God or hate yourself to do that, friend.yeah man...im scared of that but at some point...people just have to learn to let go and let love and life take its course
I don't wanna catch something she caught cheating on me 
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
this song and video has ALWAYS gotten under my skin. and chicks be like "ohhhh that's my song!!!"
mcdivit85
Superstar
this song and video has ALWAYS gotten under my skin. and chicks be like "ohhhh that's my song!!!"
Yea I was always a bit taken aback with how much women liked that song...like they telling dudes something. And too many chicks were feeling that song.
I found it kinda funny and alarming at the same time. If a dude's chick was banging that song then.....
Honestly, I agree with the sentiment some have stated of not worrying about it. Just live your life and do right by your partner until that comes up. And then, you decide whether the relationship is over or worth trying to save. Because if someone wants to cheat, then they're going to cheat...and there's NOTHING you can do about it. The only thing you can control is being the best partner you can be and then handle yourself accordingly if that person doesn't appreciate how well you treat them.
Peace
what a bunch of garbage
StickStickly
Superstar
But how do you go through life only wanting one thing from the opposite sex? There's more to relationships than sex. That's why cheating hurts and people become obsessed.
Can't go through life thinking so poorly of the opposite sex. What's the point then?
