Why do tinder convos go cold before exchanging numbers?

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Learn to be more aggressive with out coming off as thirsty.

Goal should be trying to face time at the very least, so you can be deemed as real. Then meet up after that.

The faster you get shyt off line the better. you become an actual option and not just a pic and bio.
 

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That's why online dating sucks because there's too much power in the woman's hands, and there's too many distractions. She's matching and holding convos with other dudes while she's conversing with you. There's no urgency for her to reply like there would be if your were hollering at her in person. Put them hoes on ice.
Works birth ways, tho.

I've matched with chicks and unmatched then because i felt they were boring and not worth meeting irl
 

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Because they found someone "seemingly" better or never planned on meeting up and just used you for attention.
 

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Gotta understand these women have short attention spans when they have literally 100's of matches from different dudes weekly.
You got any female friends? Ask them how many matches they get on tinder in one day. Literally 20+ it's ridiculous
 

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it took me so long to get good at tinder

i'm still not even that great but my looks make up for it

it's not convos going cold that pisses me off, it's when thots don't even respond to the first message

why the fukk would you match me if you can't simply say hello

how you do it is by not giving a fukk and spiking their emotions, then stopping the convo for a day

waiting a little bit before hitting them up for the first time

if you seem thirsty even a little bit it's over
you have to make the girl seem like the thirsty one in the convo

it's the best when you find a girl who has great chemistry with you and doesn't take things too seriously cause you can just talk normally

but what i found is that a large majority of girls on tinder are actually socially inept, and can't carry conversation unless you baby them along

now if this is by choice or not, idk

i'm gonna reup my tinder thread soon i been eating good recently
 

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You generally have to do it within a few "funny or lighthearted" exchanges. Strike while the iron is hot.

It's another story after you get the number however.
 
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