Why do we blame single mothers for their situation?

[Crude]

Both the man and woman are at fault.

Anytime I see an unmarried women that has multiple children by multiple men it tells me a lot about her decision making. I’d say the same for men; however, I’m not interested in men sexually or as a dating partner so my focus is exclusively on the woman.

If they have children by more than 3 or more different people the chance of them not being shyt significantly increases. You got condoms, a dozen or more different forms of birth control, plan b pills, etc.

If you don’t want to be pregnant then you won’t be, the fact that people be randomly having kids with different people speaks to a level of recklessness and irresponsibility.

 

[NinoBrown]

Aren’t the men at fault for not staying to build a family? Why so much anger and vitryall towards women doing their best to raise kids alone.

They don't take responsibility for who they sleep with and blame men for shooting in them raw....

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Men get joint custody if they want it, my dad got sole custody of me at 10 and it was considered a one in a million

I know a couple of men that got sole custody of their kids.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I can see one child. But multiple or in her case 7?! What was she thinking?

She was thinking of herself at the moment only. Most people are miserable. Bet sex is also her escape.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

fukk women

Dont ask me how

 

[The God Poster]

It’s on both. Don’t matter if she “chose wrong” the man still played a part in it so he has a responsibility too

This

The only time I’d say the woman gets a little more blame is if it’s multiple children with the same man or type of man

Same thing goes for men who have multiple deadbeat/crazy bm’s

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Because she chooses to keep the kid(s) and the man/men she chose do not see the value in fatherhood.

You can be a quality father to your kids with your unmarried day 1 and an apathetic dad to the kids you had in marriage.

The difference is, the quality father WANTS to be a good father and the married one doesn’t.

We can sit here and blame women all day but if pregnancies were akin to going dutch on lottery tickets and every birth came with a jackpot, men would take women to court for their share.

 

[Hersh]

woman logic

 

[Rakim Allah]

 

[Rakim Allah]

What if someone made a Fox News thread with Tucker Carlson saying what you saying.
How would you reply?

I’d be like

Tucker got it right this time

 

[mag357]

No lie.... This actually influenced me alot and the way I understood relationships around me, when I was a kid.
There's alot of knowledge in that little interlude

 

[AAKing23]

Why do we blame broke dudes for their situation?

 

[Rakim Allah]

Because 8 out of 10 times the guy shes chooses to have children with is already trash. They make their beds and be mad they gotta sleep in it.

8 out 10 times she’s as well, friend.

 

[mag357]

People are trying to downplay the "having the choice" part.
That is the most important part.
Women having the ability to chose whether sex happens or not.... And who it happens with.
Also if a child will be made or not...
Puts all of the responsibility on her...
It's that simple. Nothing more to it.

But if you really understood the truth... you would know that women actually want to be single mothers.
So just take away the negative stigma that men put on it.... And you have no problem

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This nikka is hilarious