Its rough out there. To be honest there's selfishness. It's give and take, you can't provide emotional support and dikk to more than one broad. There might be enough dikk to go around, there's pills to help you get it up if you need it. There's no pill that aides in providing emotional support. My jump off is going on a date with a relatively nice guy she met on campus. She told me she needs the emotional support, someone to go places and do/have way more than just sex. Depending on the week, my girl and I are arguing about not having enough sex or not enough emotional support. The reason I'm cheating is because the broads I cheat with are into some shyt where I don't know if I want to do with my girl, also I respect my woman, she's smart, goal oriented someone I could settle long term with. The jumps are adequate, they aren't dummies or unemployed but they know what it is.
I told my girl from the jump I don't believe in a person being with one person forever. She can get in my mind and make me want to be more successful and an overall better person, that's a reason I'd feel bad fukking her like a smut and experimenting on her. I peed on a broad, I didn't really feel it, I'm glad I don't have to look her in the face everyday and kiss her and tell her I love her
Maybe love or genuinely caring for someone means giving it all up and ignoring curiosity and other acts of opportunity and exploration.