Why do we hold women to higher standards?
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So your main issue is a lack of clarity as to what role she is playing? Or is it the fact that they can alternate between both roles without a sense of guilt/a shytty excuse?
I think the issue is, women know the majority of men don't want to marry/wife up a chick that's been with a ton of nikkas. The problem is the whore will hide who she actually is and deceive a man that she likes if she knows he has a problem with been around the block Brenda, she'll present herself as something she knows she's not. And they do it because they know if they were up front about fukking the Charlotte Bobcats nikkas would be like
In other countries, chicks are more up front with their ways, and dudes can decide for themselves if they want to deal with her.
p*ssy has value. If she distributes her value(p*ssy) and people know about it, she has devalued herself. It's the reason Kim K could of slept with 3 men but she's seen as a hoe. I can type in her name on the internet and see her get fukked by Ray J. She can never be seen as a virtuous woman.
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
Dude just slick said all women are hoes
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
So your main issue is a lack of clarity as to what role she is playing? Or is it the fact that they can alternate between both roles without a sense of guilt/a shytty excuse?
It's the deception basically. Be straight up with what you do and let people choose accordingly. That goes for both sexes.
Because in the end, the women are choosing who they lay down with, and more often than not they aren't picking the right partners for a gang of reasons. I blame both sides, but when women are out there throwing it at dudes with no shame, you end up with what we have in the black community.
Make better choices.
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
Buts that is what i am trying to figure out. So as guys we want to fukk as many women as we want but we are concerned about overlap (other guys fukking the girls we fukked)? Because vagina only has value to who is fukking it, it shouldn't matter who fukked it or who is going to fukk it.
would you wife a chick that your brother or best friend has fukked?
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
Hard to say really, where i am at right now i do not plan on getting married. But i get what you mean because 5 years ago i would probably answer "NO" but i right now i always approach women without any expectations of her being more than just a girl or attachment to the image/persona she might sell me from the jump.
real ass girls usually get respect on some level. yes they will always have haters but for some reason they are more likable. I've known two girls like that in my life, very promiscuous. but they kept it real without trying to glamorize her actions or their actions and they weren't trying to act like they run the game or are above the game. Just girls that fukk a lot without trying to manipulate dudes. One of them was kinda dumb, i won't lie. but on some real shyt, they were cool as fukk, no caping. I would never have wifed them for obvious reasons but i never felt like shaming them or "exposing" them. I think what made them cool is that they weren't using their p*ssy to manipulate or have power over you. whatever rapport i had with them felt realer and not based on a facade.
It's the undercover hoes i fukking despise. they make me sick. the ones who are never responsible for what they do. the ones who act like they are better than other hoes. the one who are always trying to 1up the dude. the ones who front like their whoring is a political statement. the ones who want to have it both ways with dudes (act like a hoe and still be treated like a lady). the ones who do their deeds in the dark and then judge, etc...
MikeBrownsJob
Seattle fan since 2013 *deal with it slime*
I understand that....I think thats a separate discussion tho --- the quality of men that women choose, and what many women look for in a man (bad boy type), which can result in far-reaching consequences.
I think the OP was just getting at the overarching idea that a woman is automatically a hoe for being sexual, and whether that's a fair measure. I think we've been socialized to believe that sex for women is far easier to attain than men, so they should be held to a higher standard, and also there is this idea that women lack the carnal desires that men possess so there must be something abnormal with a woman who pursues sex outside of simply procreating, which is another patriarchal socialization.
To be fair, there are a lot of double standards men have to deal with as well (sensitive = puzzy), being one.
it is breh
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it actually kinda makes sense. it's an ego thing. women do it too. they want you to simp but won't want you as their boyfriend if you simp. yet they try their hardest to get you to simp. because it's an ego thing.
it's basically about trying to get someone to step out of their boundaries. a lot of dudes will try to see how much of the whore they can awake within the girl. it's a powertrip that feels good in the short term. but if they succeed, even if it feels good, do you really want to wife the hoe? deep down your ego is flattered but at some point once your ego as been flattered you snap out of it and remember that your game isn't that immaculate. you're not a jedi mind pimp. so chances are if you managed to smut her out that easy, it probably has more to do with her being an easy smut who did the same with other dudes than you having great game.
part of the reason no one wants to wife a hoe is that you run the risk of being cuckold. being cuckold feels threating on an instinctual level because you could be raising someone else's offspring without knowing and then if that's your only child, that means you don't get to pass on your genes. in other words wifing hoes means you reduce the odds of your genes surviving.