Why do we hold women to higher standards?

[EQ.]

real ass girls usually get respect on some level. yes they will always have haters but for some reason they are more likable. I've known two girls like that in my life, very promiscuous. but they kept it real without trying to glamorize her actions or their actions and they weren't trying to act like they run the game or are above the game. Just girls that fukk a lot without trying to manipulate dudes. One of them was kinda dumb, i won't lie. but on some real shyt, they were cool as fukk, no caping. I would never have wifed them for obvious reasons but i never felt like shaming them or "exposing" them. I think what made them cool is that they weren't using their p*ssy to manipulate or have power over you. whatever rapport i had with them felt realer and not based on a facade.

It's the undercover hoes i fukking despise. they make me sick. the ones who are never responsible for what they do. the ones who act like they are better than other hoes. the one who are always trying to 1up the dude. the ones who front like their whoring is a political statement. the ones who want to have it both ways with dudes (act like a hoe and still be treated like a lady). the ones who do their deeds in the dark and then judge, etc...

fukking phenomenal post breh

I honestly failed to account for that type of women. I was looking at it from the POV of the guys who approach women with googly eyes and expect them to be better than puzzy.

 

[EQ.]

I wish I could ignore thread types

All you gotta do is put me on ignore breh, i spew nothing but rubbish

 

[electric_fur]

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Like why can't they do "hoe-ish" (honestly do not know a better word to use) stuff and be open about doing "hoe-ish" stuff without dudes quick to label and shame.

IMO women's main battle is between their inner nature and society. Meaning they want to do "hoe-ish" shyt but fear society will condemn them for it. But its their nature to want to do "hoe-ish" shyt, so why we do have any expectations for them to be better than that
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I've never seen people judging chicks like this on other forums. Like I said in another thread this stuff primarily happens on hip hop forums.

 

[KingDanz]

if a woman fukks 10 men from 10 different countries on earth, is she a hoe?

if a woman fukks 10 men in the same city, is she a hoe?

if a woman fukks 10 men in the same neighborhood, is she a hoe?

if a woman fukks 10 men on the same block, is she a hoe?

 

[the next guy]

They are purer then men.

 

[EQ.]

if a woman fukks 10 men from 10 different countries on earth, is she a hoe?

if a woman fukks 10 men in the same city, is she a hoe?

if a woman fukks 10 men in the same neighborhood, is she a hoe?

if a woman fukks 10 men on the same block, is she a hoe?

Here is why i do not consider her a hoe, because she could just as easily fukked 100 guys. If anything that bish fukking ten dudes is lazy

But in all seriousness i am only trying to get to the root of why we percieve women as pure creatures. That is all

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

All you gotta do is put me on ignore breh, i spew nothing but rubbish

Its not you mayne its the dudes on this forum

The double standards are crazy

Women fukk up = they are the cause for all of society's problems

Men fukk up =

Coincidentally but completely unrelated, lot of dudes in here are fukking up. And its someone else's fault

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

women are the gateways to sex and give birth to children they should be held to a higher standards

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

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Like why can't they do "hoe-ish" (honestly do not know a better word to use) stuff and be open about doing "hoe-ish" stuff without dudes quick to label and shame.

IMO women's main battle is between their inner nature and society. Meaning they want to do "hoe-ish" shyt but fear society will condemn them for it. But its their nature to want to do "hoe-ish" shyt, so why we do have any expectations for them to be better than that
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[Rawtid]

would you wife a chick that your brother or best friend has fukked?

If you KNEW she fukked your best friend or brother that's one thing, but most of yall don't know.

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

I understand that....I think thats a separate discussion tho --- the quality of men that women choose, and what many women look for in a man (bad boy type), which can result in far-reaching consequences.

I think the OP was just getting at the overarching idea that a woman is automatically a hoe for being sexual, and whether that's a fair measure. I think we've been socialized to believe that sex for women is far easier to attain than men, so they should be held to a higher standard, and also there is this idea that women lack the carnal desires that men possess so there must be something abnormal with a woman who pursues sex outside of simply procreating, which is another patriarchal socialization.

To be fair, there are a lot of double standards men have to deal with as well (sensitive = puzzy), being one.

It is much easier for women to have sex..Im a good looking nikka and while the pussay does get thrown at me from time to time i still have to work to get laid more then a women whos a 5 has to work..

Getting a ons for a man is an art..sure it helps to have looks but you need to be blessed inherently with the art of seduction.. all a broad has to do is say yes if she wants dikk at any time

So women do have more responsiblity becasue of how easy they cna get it and the repricussions for them which hare far greater..

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

I don't know bruh, I've been to enough countries in my life to place the US @ the top of the big board as far as having slutty women. I can really only point to the UK or Canada as having easier women, so the shaming damn sure isn't working

It's fair to put that on men and women, but the dudes who do want to actually get married don't want to marry a whore.

I agree while other countries have sluts the slut to women ratio is much higher here then anywhere else.

The problem is women now have more sexual freedom the never and its less taboo the never to be a whore.If anyhtnig women have seen that if you whore it up with the right person you can become rich and famous ie Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian

Its an epidemic for every age group but the younger generation of women in their teens and 20's are by far the worst, i honest to god fear for this next generation of women thats how bad it is..we gonna see even more b*stard kids then ever

This past year ive dated 8 much younger women rangging from 21-25 and i slept with 7 of them on the first date back in the day you had to work to get the puss and i appreciated it more now its handed to you like free candy

Call it unfair a double standard whatever but if u hand me the puss on the firts date you a hoe and we have no shot at a relationship

 

[No_bammer_weed]

It is much easier for women to have sex..Im a good looking nikka and while the pussay does get thrown at me from time to time i still have to work to get laid more then a women whos a 5 has to work..

Getting a ons for a man is an art..sure it helps to have looks but you need to be blessed inherently with the art of seduction.. all a broad has to do is say yes if she wants dikk at any time

So women do have more responsiblity becasue of how easy they cna get it and the repricussions for them which hare far greater..

But isnt there an inherent flaw to this thinking? Men play a role in all of this --- dont you think?

The fact that, generally speaking, an unattractive woman has a far easier chance to get laid than a attractive male ever could speak to the lack of discipline and overall thirstyness of the male species? Men participate and contribute to this sociology of the genders as well. Why do men just sleep w/ any old bytch?

There was that thread a few days ago, where someone from the body building forums posed as a fat nasty black chick on POF, and niccas was droolin all over her pressed to hit. YOu think that sht would ever happen the other way around? Niccas need to take responsibility for their actions as a collective in terms of the environment created.

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

But isnt there an inherent flaw to this thinking? Men play a role in all of this --- dont you think?

The fact that, generally speaking, an unattractive woman has a far easier chance to get laid than a attractive male ever could speak to the lack of discipline and overall thirstyness of the male species? Men participate and contribute to this sociology of the genders as well. Why do men just sleep w/ any old bytch?

There was that thread a few days ago, where someone from the body building forums posed as a fat nasty black chick on POF, and niccas was droolin all over her pressed to hit. YOu think that sht would ever happen the other way around? Niccas need to take responsibility for their actions as a collective in terms of the environment created.

I do think men play a role in all this of course but the male sex drive is a motha

 

[No_bammer_weed]

I do think men play a role in all this of course but the male sex drive is a motha

I think its biological meeting the social. For instance, one example: Ad execs, mostly run by males, bombard us with hyper-sexualized images on the daily, to sell products by crudely oversexualizing women. That doesnt happen the other way around, fam. You dont see niccas running around in speedos in commercials. What comes first...chicken or the egg? Its not like as lil boys we were obsessed with girls.

Being a normal horny nicca is one thing ---- but desperate for sex tho? I think thats increased tremendously in the media age versus previous generations.