Why do women automatically blame bad sex on men?

[Rawtid]

this is exactly what is going to happen

i had this one girl who was on some form of anti anxiety medication which made it very hard for her to orgasm. it only worked when i pressed my dikk into her p*ssy as hard as i could from behind while at the same time stimulating her breasts while she stimulated herself. it was a all very technical and not sexy at all, but i never complained since i figuered it wasn't her fault and if that was the only way she could get off than so be it. anyways, at some point in our relationship we had sex and i couldn't nut. it had nothing to do with her, i was simply stressed out at the time and couldn't relax. so the next day while i was at work she texted me.

her: "why are you even together with me if you don't find me attractive"
me: "why do you think i don't find you attractive?"
her: "we have sex and you can't come. do you know how embarrassing that is for me?"
me: "listen, that had nothing to do with you. i just have a lot do deal with right now, which has me stressed out."
her: "i don't believe you. if you'd find me attractive, there would be no problems."

so we went back and forth like that for half an hour, with me trying to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her and her insisting that i must think she's ugly, until at some point i got and said:

"i never said anything about you're problems to orgasm and was very understanding. how come you're allowed to have a problem, and when i'm stressed out one time it's the end of the world?"
to which she replied: "wow, now i can never have sex with you again without feeling ashamed"
then there were no more replies and the the next couples of weeks she got totally distant until i decided to end things with her.

talking to a woman about her performance in bed is a very delicate subject.

Are you NOT better off without her in your life? If she can't take the honesty That goes for guys too. If sex is important in a relationship then it's worth it to have some honest conversations. If you're just looking to hit and dip, then it doesn't matter.

 

[Elle Driver]

what is the frequency of this happening? If sex is so sucky for men then why do men's life consist of sex mostly.

Let you tell it.

 

[Redwood]

the majority of females project their insecurities on men because they know they men are supposed to take the initiative, conquer, move mountains, etc.. its an ego blow if our performance in the bed ain't top notch as she believes herself to be.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Let you tell it.

u don't think so? All I hear men talk about is either sex or making money.

 

[mcdivit85]

what is the frequency of this happening? If sex is so sucky for men then why do men's life consist of sex mostly.

I can't speak for men in general. But I know of more than a few who haved faked an orgasm at least once.

Who says mens' lives revolve around sex? That's a bottled up lie that the media likes to perpetuate to make men look dumb and in need of control by a well-trained feminazi.

Most of the men I know, their lives consist of work, paying bills, hobbies, trying to avoid white supremacy as well as women. Contrary to what you may think, grown men, and I repeat grown men, don't spend their days chasing after women in thought and/or action. We have sh#t to do.

Just because we date and have sex doesn't mean that makes up our lives.

Peace

 

[John Mayer]

what is the frequency of this happening? If sex is so sucky for men then why do men's life consist of sex mostly.

Let you tell it.

We live in oversexualized society we see scantily clad women on movies, music videos, instagram etc.. porn is available in the best quality for free.The media has spent years brainwashing people into thinking that sex is the greatest thing in the world, so why wouldn't that have a lasting effect on the individual subconscious? If a man is a virgin, he may believe that he's missing out on something, and will start to get depressed about it, I see this on youtube and forums regularly. Imagine if we started telling nikkas that sex with most women is slightly better than bussing a nut yourself, or that most of these females suck in bed? All these dudes like Kentv, or the 25 year old unhappy black virgin wouldn't feel so bad about themselves being virgins, or if they hardly ever got some p*ssy. They would know that they are not missing out on much. It's like wondering if the grass is greener on the other side these dudes aren't missing out on much they just don't know it.

 

[mcdivit85]

this is exactly what is going to happen

i had this one girl who was on some form of anti anxiety medication which made it very hard for her to orgasm. it only worked when i pressed my dikk into her p*ssy as hard as i could from behind while at the same time stimulating her breasts while she stimulated herself. it was a all very technical and not sexy at all, but i never complained since i figuered it wasn't her fault and if that was the only way she could get off than so be it. anyways, at some point in our relationship we had sex and i couldn't nut. it had nothing to do with her, i was simply stressed out at the time and couldn't relax. so the next day while i was at work she texted me.

her: "why are you even together with me if you don't find me attractive"
me: "why do you think i don't find you attractive?"
her: "we have sex and you can't come. do you know how embarrassing that is for me?"
me: "listen, that had nothing to do with you. i just have a lot do deal with right now, which has me stressed out."
her: "i don't believe you. if you'd find me attractive, there would be no problems."

so we went back and forth like that for half an hour, with me trying to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her and her insisting that i must think she's ugly, until at some point i got and said:

"i never said anything about you're problems to orgasm and was very understanding. how come you're allowed to have a problem, and when i'm stressed out one time it's the end of the world?"
to which she replied: "wow, now i can never have sex with you again without feeling ashamed"
then there were no more replies and the the next couples of weeks she got totally distant until i decided to end things with her.

talking to a woman about her performance in bed is a very delicate subject.

You better than me. After explaining the stress issue and how I was patient and accomodating to her sexually, anything other than a "I understand" would have gotten her fired and deleted from my phone post haste.

Here you are playing hop scotch in the p*ssy, so she can get off and you can't even be stressed without her talking sh#t.

I would've clowned her and told her to lose my number.

Peace

 

[KinksandCoils]

I can't speak for men in general. But I know of more than a few who haved faked an orgasm at least once.

Who says mens' lives revolve around sex? That's a bottled up lie that the media likes to perpetuate to make men look dumb and in need of control by a well-trained feminazi.

Most of the men I know, their lives consist of work, paying bills, hobbies, trying to avoid white supremacy as well as women. Contrary to what you may think, grown men, and I repeat grown men, don't spend their days chasing after women in thought and/or action. We have sh#t to do.

Just because we date and have sex doesn't mean that makes up our lives.

Peace

no need to blame the media. Men really do talk about sex all the damn time. Like posters have said on here. Men really only go to clubs and places like that to get laid. They aren't there to just enjoy themselves.

We live in oversexualized society we see scantily clad women on movies, music videos, instagram etc.. porn is available in the best quality for free.The media has spent years brainwashing people into thinking that sex is the greatest thing in the world, so why wouldn't that have a lasting effect on the individual subconscious? If a man if a virgin, he may believe that he's missing out on something, and will start to get depressed about it, I see this on youtube and forums regularly. Imagine if we started telling nikkas that sex with most women is slightly better than better than bussing a nut yourself, or that most of these females suck in bed? All these dudes like Kentv, or the 25 year old unhappy black virgin wouldn't feel so bad about themselves being virgins, or if they hardly ever got some p*ssy. They would know that they are not missing out on much. It's like wondering if the grass is greener on the other side these dudes aren't missing out on much they just don't know it.

Shifting the blame I see. Now men barely busting from sex cause women suck in the bedroom

Da da da Coli.com

 

[Ello_Vee]

They would know that they are not missing out on much. It's like wondering if the grass is greener on the other side these dudes aren't missing out on much they just don't know it.

Missing the intimacy that fosters amazing sex, though. But I feel like a lot of people out here having sex with randoms are missing that intimacy, too. Maybe I am wrong, but...

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Also ladies.....

 

[philmonroe]

This is why Latinas (Ricans, Venezuelans, Brazilians) are hands down the best in bed and why men pay good money to go down there. When they fukk its like a dance, first time this brazilian girl was grinding from the bottom I was like Now I have to teach girls how to do this. This one rican chick would wrap her legs around my legs (heels on my hamstrings) and use it as leverage, she would change up pace, twirl, spring bounce, all kinda shyt from the bottom, her rhythm was feels like yo dikk is getting milked, you'd think it would put a strain bouncing off rhythm, but the way she was doing it, it actually made humping easier. I still can't teach girls how to move like that, but years later I smashed venezuelan chick who did the same thing. they always bounce it back in doggy. Must be cultural or something

honorable mentions go to israeli chicks as well. they're down right freaks with energy.

I can roll with everything but bold. That ain't the reason or moreso that ain't the main reason. They do bold cause most times they can't get that same play in the states from them chicks lol. Everything else I can roll with.

 

[Blackrogue]

My biggest peeve is when a female wants to do it a very specific way. And only wants it that way every time because she's learnt that's how she gets off. It's boring as shyt because it's like she only cares if she gets hers. It becomes monotonous

 

[Elle Driver]

We live in oversexualized society we see scantily clad women on movies, music videos, instagram etc.. porn is available in the best quality for free.The media has spent years brainwashing people into thinking that sex is the greatest thing in the world, so why wouldn't that have a lasting effect on the individual subconscious? If a man is a virgin, he may believe that he's missing out on something, and will start to get depressed about it, I see this on youtube and forums regularly. Imagine if we started telling nikkas that sex with most women is slightly better than better than bussing a nut yourself, or that most of these females suck in bed? All these dudes like Kentv, or the 25 year old unhappy black virgin wouldn't feel so bad about themselves being virgins, or if they hardly ever got some p*ssy. They would know that they are not missing out on much. It's like wondering if the grass is greener on the other side these dudes aren't missing out on much they just don't know it.

Ehhhhhh, I'd wager it has more to do with self esteem and living up to ridiculous standards as a man.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Also ladies.....

killaaaaaaaa shyt to funny and true

 

[H@LLOW]

I make my women freaks, as soon I introduce them to that ass eating game is game over.