OP..
Good luck trying to understand why people do what they do! Lol
Obviously, the person your match was trying to hook you up with have poor communication skills which should be a red flag for you!
Some women are too afraid to put themselves out there, despite having natural urges and desires to connect with someone.
Also, that was mighty presumptuous of her to "ass-u-me" they you are too young for her saying they you don't have enough maturity to deal with her.
shyt, I could pretty much say the same thing about her because I got well over a decade and some change over her(you said she was 36 yes old).
Maturity is a state of mind! I have dealt with women my age and older who acted like teeny boppers in the brain and women who could technically be a daughter or baby sister be super mature..
In all, some women make profiles and weed out prospective suitors on behalf of their friends.
Their hearts are in the right place, but they are also doing their shy sns socially awkward friends a disservice because the person who seeks to connect need to put themselves out there and put in the time and effort to connect with someone!