Why do women get validation from being in relationships?

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

Whether women will admit it or not, men are generally seen as the protectors and providers. These faux pas feminists can't live without us. They need that security. Security (or perceived security) comes from being committed to a man. A woman is not physically strong enough to protect her family by herself.

Also watching their friends being in relationships/getting married has a greater effect on women than it has on males. They're emotional beings. If a woman is over 30, not married and no children, she will believe she has under accomplished in life. That's why women of that age tend to settle for any guy which she wouldn't have 5-10 years ago.

 

[Trillion]

Whether women will admit it or not, men are generally seen as the protectors and providers. These faux pas feminists can't live without us. They need that security. Security (or perceived security) comes from being committed to a man. A woman is not physically strong enough to protect her family by herself.

Also watching their friends being in relationships/getting married has a greater effect on women than it has on males. They're emotional beings. If a woman is over 30, not married and no children, she will believe she has under accomplished in life. That's why women of that age tend to settle for any guy which she wouldn't have 5-10 years ago.

cray but true women lowkey the weaker sex

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Lol b/c of social norms.

 

[Trillion]

I haven't read this thread yet, so I'm not sure if this was touched on, but women are basically competing with other women. It's just competition.

If you think about it from a female POV, it's probably a bad look if you get consistent male attention & can't keep ONE man. They all just smash & move on.Keeping a man is an accomplishment for these women. Women attack each other's womanhood just like they'll attack your manhood.

Always talking about "Atleast I can keep a man."

powerful

 

[Trillion]

"For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man."

 

[↓R↑LYB]

What's funny is that the first insult coli men use (besides bytch or stupid) is I bet you can't find/keep a man or that the woman is single and lonely.

Stupid bytch you can't even keep a man your damn self

 

[Trillion]

Stupid bytch you can't even keep a man your damn self

 

[Music Fiend]

some women really have no hobbies or passions. And thats sad to me cuz I feel for em. Beyond career and money, maybe family their next focus is a man and the emotional ones get carried away like the wind.

But truth be told lots of women and men have abandonment issues and engulfment issues do to a lack of sense of self.

Main reason why relationships dont work for our generation. Bordem too, but a lot of ppl forget we they are when close to others and feel trapped so they leave, but really odnt wanna be alone.

 

[Cat piss martini]

it's telling their girlfriends that they have
found somebody that can deal with their bullshyt.

 

[Rayzah]

to men of value commitment = the male vagina

guys who throw commitment and beg to be in a relationship are just like sluts who give it up on the first night

secondly you can't compare the two, because a woman can just throw up a picture on tinder or a online dating site and be bombarded even if she ugly and fat, the average guy has to constantly be working take time off he'll have nothing. its the mindset a woman can be alone and knowing at the drop of a hat she can have 50 simp dudes willing to do anything men can't

as wel if men cared so much about relaitonships and marriage the black marriage rate would be high .

I've never really seen 30 plus year old black men crying out to be married

and you never will... Women often times, don't take the time to do the things that make them more than just a one night stand or side chick.. They only know how to meet guys but don't know how to keep them. Men don't want to keep woman most of the time until they find one that brings more to the table than looks.. No matter what anybody says, men are in the drivers seat when it comes to relationship, because we don't need em, just the sex, but that is blasphemous to say here around all these "perfect coli virgins"

 

[Rawtid]

As a woman, you can value the importance of a relationship and not interrupt other aspects of your life doing so. Make no mistake about it NOTHING trumps a good relationship.

 

[Elle Driver]

As a woman, you can value the importance of a relationship and not interrupt other aspects of your life doing so. Make no mistake about it NOTHING trumps a good relationship.

And the support that comes with it from a good man.

 

[Trillion]

And the support that comes with it from a good man.

Lmao

 

[SouthernBelle]

Because we know it gets under your skin dumb ass.

It only works if it's true dumbass. I've been with the same man the entire time I've been on the coli. You're too stupid to realize that an insult only gets under a person's skin when it's true. Get some new material.

 

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It only works if it's true dumbass. I've been with the same man the entire time I've been on the coli. You're too stupid to realize that an insult only gets under a person's skin when it's true. Get some new material.

Biitch, I dont care enuff to get some new material.