Here Comes the Pain
Superstar
They don't want you to win.
Why do women give the worst dating advice to everyone?
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Also Single moms create these half men women are hating nowadays..men raised by emotional ass moms teaching their sons feminine behavior...blaming men when the courts usually gave the mom custody. In the case of deadbeats they get the blame ...but the point remains
And i'll keep it 100..I was raised by an emotional,but loving mom with undiagnosed mental problems..and I had to learn the hard way the tendencies I picked up from her.
Why? Because life humbled me like a motherfukker and isn't done yet...and because i'm a man people won't be soft about it and let me know at times when I need to accept,cope, and do better.
EXample..a situation where I was in an argument..dude was mad and told me to get out his face...I kept egging him on (feminine shyt I admit)...and it was about to be a tussle but my homie broke it up.
Later on my homie told me what I did wrong..when someone is mad like that..what to do to de-escalate instead of escalating. He told me if I ever did some shyt like that i'm not his friend anymore.on some....I needed to hear that, a women wouldn't have told her friend that. In my experience most women would've tried to justify their bad behavior and not accept the truth.
No, men leaving women to raise their children alone are the blame. Women are emotional BEFORE children....like literally all of our lives for the most part. What you think raising kids alone and doing the job of two is going to make them? DOUBLE EMOTIONAL! Add to that having to pick up the financial slack of a missing parent...TRIPLE EMOTIONAL! Men are NEEDED to balance the energy, with no balance, then you get what you get.
Your father is the problem, not your mother! He should have been there.
Yeah both sexes fukking up right now but only one of us is trying to normalize those fukk ups. Make being hoes trendy while still shaming men. It's toxic to be masculine and such... The modern feminist movement is every reflection of what a lack of accountability looks like.
Marriage rates on the decline because of men not women. Men don't see the point if their average partner is going to be over entitled yet underqualified to be a suitable mate. The average millenial girl wants a dude to play some gender roles but she won't. She wants to be taken care of but can't cook or hold the crib down. It's all one sided.
Women have an extremely hard time admitting when they are wrong. Just like the metoo movement imploding on itself because the truth of the matter was the whole story was not being told. In the end nothing changes because of a lack of real honesty. Look how long it took for women to call out the metoo hijackers... The attention starved and the remorseful hoes. Apparently everyone was a victim. No accountability
IsThatBrothaMouzone?
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Women base their advice on the men that get their attention.
An attractive dude can do the most basic shyt and have females all over him. If he has any game, dude will put up Wilt numbers.
Average or below average looking brehs have less margin for error. Females will tell John Q. Average to do what Chadwick does....but that shyt won't work for John Q. Females ignore the "attractiveness" aspect of game.
An attractive dude can do the most basic shyt and have females all over him. If he has any game, dude will put up Wilt numbers.
Average or below average looking brehs have less margin for error. Females will tell John Q. Average to do what Chadwick does....but that shyt won't work for John Q. Females ignore the "attractiveness" aspect of game.
this shyt right here is the problemCurrent day men aren't the same men from 10-20-30 years ago...why?
They're told to pick up feminine traits,and/or being raised in situations with no male figure. I mean fukk society,and even women today are complaining about toxic masculinity but at the sametime are helping create the men that they are growing to resent
I can only speak from what I observe...in our community alot of men are raised in households with no male figure, that has a trickle effect. Having to learn how to become a man from others,society.
I grew up without a positive male role model
in a neighborhood filled with other boys that also had no role models
I learned a lot of shyt from street cats
I got a ton of game from my homeboys uncle who was a OG Gentleman of Leisure
but lets be honest
those dudes were fuking up
I got lucky and some of my homies on their own sarted figuring out what a man was really suppose to be
and I hoped on their wave
It wasnt till I got a good job and moved to the suburbs
and started hanging around men that had successful families
I'm not talking about money I mean their family was happy and enjoying life
that I realized I didn't know shyt about being a man
I don't blame any of them..I grew up off that...
The point is forget the blame...see what is causing it and do something about it.
Both Men and Women are to blame...men for not doing more to be in their child's life
And women too..because let's not act like their aren't women out there who gas each other up and be on some "he only wants the baby for child support" shyt.
But women thinking they can raise boys to men are delusional.
You aren't delusional...from what I have seen in my community most women haven't grasped that fact...hell modern day feminism is telling women you don't need men. I mean fukk the courts usually give the custody to the mom automatically.
In certain situations men are to blame but women aren't without fault...
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
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southern.girl
Superstar
Yeah both sexes fukking up right now but only one of us is trying to normalize those fukk ups. Make being hoes trendy while still shaming men. It's toxic to be masculine and such... The modern feminist movement is every reflection of what a lack of accountability looks like.
Marriage rates on the decline because of men not women. Men don't see the point if their average partner is going to be over entitled yet underqualified to be a suitable mate. Women have an extremely hard time admitting when they are wrong. Just like the metoo movement imploding on itself because the truth of the matter was the whole story was not being told. In the end nothing changes because of a lack of real honesty. Look how long it took for women to call out the metoo hijackers... The attention starved and the remorseful hoes. Apparently everyone was a victim. No accountability
I agree with damn near everything you said...except when you put all of the blame solely on women. This is the deflection that I am speaking about.
Men are not just avoiding marriage b/c of the prospects. They are avoiding marriage b/c of the of the following:
- Epidemic of delayed adolescence. Despite what your favorite rapper said, 40 is not, and will never be, the new 30.
- No examples of successful marriages, but more importantly, no desire to seek out positive relationships that shift the narrative of the dysfunction experienced this far in life.
- The glorification of bachelor culture. Singleness fits some people quite well, but many of these men are growing old & bitter just like their female counterparts.
- Men don’t even know how to chose a partner. If you did, IG wouldn’t have that much traffic.
So as I said before, both men and women are delusional and both sexes are trying to normalize dysfunction.
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DatBoiHawk
HAWK
My mom actually gives good advice on women surprisingly, but you ain’t lying. My favorite saying is never listen to women about women
We will always have different perspectives, because men and women are different.
While, I don't agree with feminism, I feel it has gained so much traction because men aren't doing their part and don't want to. Men aren't the hardworking providers they used to be. So women, are supporting these jokers, while these bums contribute minimally. Men without a fukking GED will sit complain about a woman with multiple degrees and tell her she needs to focus on her family.
I say this all the time, but women's bodies prepare to make child EVERY MONTH, from first period to menopause, so it's natural for us to want children. It's more natural than marriage that's for sure. Men CHOOSING to opt out of parenting is what makes women believe they can do it without them.
I agree we all need to step up are game
I got nothing but love for are women
and what better way to show it than coming together and working on are shared issues
I would't take parenting advice from a dead beat dad
Women shouldn't take advice on how to a successful wife and mother from childless lesbians
and that's what the feminist movement is, childless lesbians
I'm all for equal rights
I'm all for gay rights
but women thinking there going to have a successful heterosexual marriage and family life
from people that don't have that, won't ever have that ,and are not even interested in having that
are confused
Lol bc women are emotional and go for the fairy tale bs instead of the truth
They are also passive aggressive and dont wanna ruffle any feathers telling the truth
The other half just wanna sabotage u and keep u as miserable as them
That is why they need a steady man that doesnt fall for their emotional games and puts them under instruction and checks them.
Problem is alotta these dudes are just as emotionally erratic as these women.
The only female advice that has ever been good consistently are older women from the baby boomer generation. Alotta them will even tell u how trash alotta birds these days are. Shoutouts to my second momma
im like her Dominican son. She the one that told me to get paternity tests always even before the Coli
They are also passive aggressive and dont wanna ruffle any feathers telling the truth
The other half just wanna sabotage u and keep u as miserable as them
That is why they need a steady man that doesnt fall for their emotional games and puts them under instruction and checks them.
Problem is alotta these dudes are just as emotionally erratic as these women.
The only female advice that has ever been good consistently are older women from the baby boomer generation. Alotta them will even tell u how trash alotta birds these days are. Shoutouts to my second momma
im like her Dominican son. She the one that told me to get paternity tests always even before the Coli
Both sexes fukking up period.We will always have different perspectives, because men and women are different.
While, I don't agree with feminism, I feel it has gained so much traction because men aren't doing their part and don't want to. Men aren't the hardworking providers they used to be. So women, are supporting these jokers, while these bums contribute minimally. Men without a fukking GED will sit complain about a woman with multiple degrees and tell her she needs to focus on her family.
I say this all the time, but women's bodies prepare to make child EVERY MONTH, from first period to menopause, so it's natural for us to want children. It's more natural than marriage that's for sure. Men CHOOSING to opt out of parenting is what makes women believe they can do it without them.
I heard a podcast recently headed by 2 progressive women (WHOReible decisions) on sex and the things they were saying about men and sex illustrate why we fukked. They said and I quote "nikkaz with the best dikk don't read books" as an illustration of what the best sexual partner is like aka ignorant and ain't shyt. These are women actively telling on themselves and telling other women that they seek out and select partners that won't be good parents. These women are also feminists but they objectify men. The contradiction blew my mind. I don't agree that feminism has gained traction because men were being neglectful.
Ciara for example shows this mindstate in real time. Fukk a bad boy when you know what he is all about and let him get you pregnant. Start complaining that he isn't shyt but you knew what he was about then go find a suitable provider. No man wants to be Russell Wilson consciously...
Any woman supporting a man that isn't a provider is holding on to the "good dikk". Thats a choice made by the individual on what is important to them. I should know I've been that bum before
Women didn't care if they wanted me around they would delude themselves into believing I was going to fit whatever mold they wanted. 