Being unpredictable is dangerous.
Dangerous is exciting...Instincts still exist. To laugh in the face of danger and risk your life...
...is the greatest feeling of all (afterward).
Women see that hell in you and they're attracted to it because they know deep down you have more survival skills than a square...and the square world is simply an overlay. It's not a real place. They know.
That's why children with superior genes are being raised by men that aren't their fathers.
Programming like that has been around since humans have been around.
Get pregnant by a certain type, pick a nurturing type to raise it...give nurturing type a sympathy baby...
Strong genes get to spread...weak gene gets to stay alive and create a fukkboy to raise more strong kids for men busy dying in warfare and/or hunting.