Why do women REFUSE to let a man have peace?

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This was me like 10 years ago. I learned to play with him.

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For me, a man can exude those qualities without being an extrovert. You can have a quiet aura that draws people towards you.

You can't exactly have a "quiet aura that draws people towards you" in a crowded room / large social setting. As an individual you can have that energy and draw in women or like minded men for serious conversation in a corner somewhere, but that's not what I'm talking about.

Class clowns are just that... they should be left in the classroom. Once you reach adulthood, as a man, you can still be the life and soul of the party without being obnoxious. There’s just something very feminine about a man who competes with his woman for attention.

I know guys like that who have to be in every selfie, that have to be heard the moment they enter the room. Ones who can’t shut the hell up.

That kind of behavior is acceptable from women because we expect that, but from
Straight men? Nah.

Of course you can do it without being obnoxious, that's almost exactly what I said. But you can't be a life of the party type while being an introvert. I mean, that shyt is damn near an oxymoron. Introverts don't WANT to be the life of the party. In fact, they'd rather not be at the party at all.

You're still thinking of extros solely as loudmouthed attention whores when really extrovert just means outgoing, can talk to just about anyone, etc. And trust me I KNOW the type you're talking about. I'm from LA, nikkas who need to be the center of attention at all times are abundant, but that's not the only type of extrovert.
 

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If more women learned how to play PS4/XBox with their man... I promise their relationship would last longer.

I need a chick who’s down with getting a fight stick for Tekken.

But yeah I’m doubling down on my previous post.. I’m getting in everything in
want to do single before this crazy shyt happens
 

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I need a chick who’s down with getting a fight stick for Tekken.

But yeah I’m doubling down on my previous post.. I’m getting in everything in
want to do single before this crazy shyt happens
My ex from college was a real one. She found my old N64, dusted it off. Kicked my ass at Goldeneye and still blew me after I lost. Damn I let a good one get away. I still kick myself over that. :mjcry:
 

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You can't exactly have a "quiet aura that draws people towards you" in a crowded room / large social setting. As an individual you can have that energy and draw in women or like minded men for serious conversation in a corner somewhere, but that's not what I'm talking about.
Breh, you absolutely can. Not everything is black and white. There are men and women who can draw people towards them without being ostentatious... but as you said, we’re digressing.



Of course you can do it without being obnoxious, that's almost exactly what I said. But you can't be a life of the party type while being an introvert. I mean, that shyt is damn near an oxymoron. Introverts don't WANT to be the life of the party. In fact, they'd rather not be at the party at all.

You're still thinking of extros solely as loudmouthed attention whores when really extrovert just means outgoing, can talk to just about anyone, etc. And trust me I KNOW the type you're talking about. I'm from LA, nikkas who need to be the center of attention at all times are abundant, but that's not the only type of extrovert.
Exactly, just like introverts are not one dimensional as well. You can get introverts who can meander between being social but preferring a lot more me time (myself for example).

In fact, women that I date are surprised when they see me in large social settings compared to how I am when it’s a smaller group. I can be withdrawn at times but be the life of the party with my dry humor.

I’m Not necessarily going to go around the party and introduce myself to everyone, but I’ll have my circle laughing with more people being drawn towards me.

I think we’re on the same page, we’re just coming from different perspectives.
 

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Exactly, just like introverts are not one dimensional as well. You can get introverts who can meander between being social but preferring a lot more me time (myself for example).

In fact, women that I date are surprised when they see me in large social settings compared to how I am when it’s a smaller group. I can be withdrawn at times but be the life of the party with my dry humor.

Truth is, I feel like you consider yourself an introvert when in reality, you fall comfortably in the middle. You know how and when to sit back and observe, but can hold conversations and be social. It's a good balance, very attractive to women and people in general, but not a skill most hardline either intros or extros possess. You might even be a latent extro who simply exercises common sense and decorum.

But yeah, we're def on the same page.
 

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My wife could be upstairs on her phone or bullshytting. As soon as she hears that PS4 beep all of a sudden she got ideas :stopitslime:

Sometimes it be like that lol
The funny thing is, do the same shyt when a woman wants to watch one of those stupid ass TV shows they like to watch and see what happens :mindblown:
Woman and their double standards.
 

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Just throw the bytch down the stairs and call it a day

Works for me
outstanding.

I need a chick who’s down with getting a fight stick for Tekken.

But yeah I’m doubling down on my previous post.. I’m getting in everything in
want to do single before this crazy shyt happens
last weekend i fired up tekken and tossed her a controller. Proceeded to light that ass up for a good 15 mins.

:russ:







Now if only i could get shorty to play some forza with me:ohhh:
 
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