Why do women want to label interactions so quickly?

[Neuromancer]

I've always been one to feel as though im being cornered when a label comes up too early. If I haven't come up with the notion in my own mind first. This could also be because my longest relationship with a female is with a friend with benefits, whom I was transparent with (didn't stop her from asking occasionally. )but we've been friends for going on 5 years. Point is she gave me my time and space and just enjoyed my company. In return she has my loyalty.

 

[InDePickWest]

What if you're upfront from gate and she still asks?

Don't women usually have at least 3 guys on the line at one time? I mean why else would we tell them I don't want shyt but sex early on?

Your chick sounds insecure. The type to want a relationship, fukk a nikka then realize she hustled backwards. Is she young 18-24? If she over 25 still letting these nikkas play her gone and give her the L after you give her the D.

 

[InDePickWest]

p*ssy is an investment. dikk is just dikk. Its not special unless its attached to a man women deem worthy enough to pursue (rich).

 

[Drake is God]

p*ssy is an investment. dikk is just dikk. Its not special unless its attached to a man women deem worthy enough to pursue (rich).

Whatever gets you through the night

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

1. I've dealt with this so many times. The key is to either ask her why (99% of the time it's a complete bullshyt answer and I automatically shut her the fukk down) or you can just tell her straight up tell her what it's all about. The key is to be non-chalant about it the entire time, women pick up on that shyt a lot and if you're missing an ounce of confidence in your voice, she'll probably cuss you out if you say some dumb shyt. This is an art form, breh it takes pracitce.

 

[PeridotPuss]

If she has to ask she already lost.

Men are declarative with their intent in a relationship through actions and words.

She's asking because she's insecure and knows that she's moved too quickly.

Thiissss. Really could end thread.

 

[philmonroe]

WHOOA. 2 seconds before I read this thread my roommates friend just asked this guy on the phone "What are we?". Lol. Shes being coached by us.

I think its cuz women have to be careful. You nikkas can just fukk and leave cuz ya'll dont have to wordy about

1. Ruined Rep
2. Unwanted Pregnancy
3. Your Safety

when dealing with random women. We do. Plus if she wants kids, she gotta find a suitable mate. Instead of "What are we?..bytches should just start asking nikkas up front if they gone keep it real or play fukkboy games. If he's real, he'll let ya know what he wants, you take that and proceed accordingly. This why I'm bout to tell this bish she sound desperate and she should have 5-9 nikkas on her line at all times in case one falls off until she finds that one.

Bold is a tricky proposition IMO. Its 50/50 at best with that way of doing things. Most dudes find out she messing with a crew of dudes they going to treat her like a bust down straight up. She'd be better just doing like you said in the beginning and finding out what these cats really about more quicker and going from there. At least if these cats lie when you bash they shyt in j/k you will feel better since they lied instead of the usual some girls do where they act like they cool being FB but really not.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Just lie to the dumb thot and keep it moving

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

they lying to themselves

asking dumb questions like they aint just some regular thots

they are supposed to ask before fukking not after fukking

 

[Londilon]

its just a ho, trying to unho herself but once you ho out you can't unho a ho.

 

[Londilon]

Just lie to the dumb thot and keep it moving

 

[Strawberry]

Why does this happen? I feel like a number of females I've dealt with have brought up the "what are we" way to fast.
Especially ones I was just sleeping with and had never taken on a date.

@Amethyst and @wickedsm . Helplease me understand my sisters.

I used to do this type of shyt when I was younger.

I think part of it has to do with wanting to know where you stand & wanting to know if you're exclusive or if you should keep fukkin other people.

IDGAF about this shyt anymore though

 

[Neuromancer]

I used to do this type of shyt when I was younger.

I think part of it has to do with wanting to know where you stand & wanting to know if you're exclusive or if you should keep fukkin other people.

Most men will assume the latter anyway. Even me.

 

[InDePickWest]

Bold is a tricky proposition IMO. Its 50/50 at best with that way of doing things. Most dudes find out she messing with a crew of dudes they going to treat her like a bust down straight up. She'd be better just doing like you said in the beginning and finding out what these cats really about more quicker and going from there. At least if these cats lie when you bash they shyt in j/k you will feel better since they lied instead of the usual some girls do where they act like they cool being FB but really not.

I dont think so, if a nikka finds out you're talking to other nikkas and he don't step his game up to impress you then you can bush him. In my experience nikkas find out theres comptetition and get on that shyt you nikkas be on trynna be the winner. I have had nikkas fall back tho but no nikka try to treat me as a busdown cuz I guess I exude that thats not even an option.

 

[Mowgli]

Why does this happen? I feel like a number of females I've dealt with have brought up the "what are we" way to fast.
Especially ones I was just sleeping with and had never taken on a date.

@Amethyst and @wickedsm . Helplease me understand my sisters.

Because women want stability and security.