Why do you deserve a good woman?

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

No....I'm on point. I'm talking about a good woman. The church girl and the house wife that holds the house down are examples of what would be considered a good woman.......Thats why i used them.

If we talking about a girl thats good for an individual,then that could be a piece of sh*t woman as well. Like for instance.....have u ever seen a homeless crackhead couple? If u from the hood I'm sure u have.....OK now usually the crackhead woman will be the mouthpeice to get into certain situations the crackhead man cant. The crackhead woman will suck dik and turn tricks to get the money for the dope. Now to you and I, we wouldnt consider the crackhead woman a "good woman" but she's "good for" the crackhead man.

just because a girl goes to church or stays in the house doesn't mean she a good woman or just "good" in general. there are a lot of twisted people in church and a lot of twisted women who just sit at home all day. you just want a woman who is "simple", not necessarily good. your occupation doesn't define how you are as a person. there's no point even addressing your second example if you don't realize the flaw in your first example...

 

[skeetsinternal]

What have you accomplish in life to merit a good woman?

What qualities do you possess to deserve a good woman?

Do you have or reciprocate those qualities that you look for in a good woman?

And what is a good woman to you?

I have accomplished alot in life and always looking to improve. I deserve a good woman because most of the women I have know were ratchet. I believe the qualities I possess are good communication, realness and honesty which have always been some of the reasons that kept me pulling women.

A good woman to me would be my current, dont nobody get better than her. Being that she is only 23 she possesses a wisdom well beyond her years. I often tell her she naturally makes me want to be a better person and she inspires me to do better. A good woman is a positive force of nature. Everything around her is positive. A good woman will be made to feel like she is a man's better half. She completes him and picks hum up when feeling weak. A good woman must be able to accept the good and the bad in a man. A good woman should not subscribe to the idea that relationships are 50/50, this is bullshyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

1.) Whether I am a self made millionaire or just the average joe, I should be able to get a women based off my character before anything. You shouldn't get a life long partner based on your "accomplishments" that's just me.

2.) Im a tall, light skin brotha with good hair and a perfect smile. Take away all my physical characteristics and I'm one of the funniest people you can meet in person as well as one of the smartest. Only bad quality I may have is that I'm too honest and that I joke maybe a little bit too much, not to mention my lack of emotion.

3.) I don't look for a certain type of women. I dont have a "type".

4.) That's hard to explain, since literally ever female is different, yet there are still tons of good women out there. I don't go out looking for "good women" as much I go out and just find a girl thats I have perfect chemistry with, which usually happens out the blue. Im in no rush to look for Mrs. Right.

yet your a nikka who watches tranny porn, talk about almost hitting chicks, and call em names.

 

[Mike Ock]

Why the hell do people feel they "deserve" another person?....I never got this logic. There's no certain formula to guarantee you deserve anyone. It's pretty much just on you and that person to put the effort into comprimising and trying to make things work and last in a relationship.

 

[BrothaZay]

yet your a nikka who watches tranny porn, talk about almost hitting chicks, and call em names.

Im all this yet I never had my girlfriend abort my baby and break my heart

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Cause I get a 10% discount as an employee of Target. Think of the yearly savings I'm racking up

 

[MikelArteta]

Im all this yet I never had my girlfriend abort my baby and break my heart

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

yet your a nikka who watches tranny porn, talk about almost hitting chicks, and call em names.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Why the hell do people feel they "deserve" another person?....I never got this logic. There's no certain formula to guarantee you deserve anyone. It's pretty much just on you and that person to put the effort into comprimising and trying to make things work and last in a relationship.

In actuality, nobody deserves shyt out of life besides the inevitable of death that we all will experience one day.

I think the one thing that all humans deserve is love, and that is basically because of how we are hardwired. But as far as deserving a spouse... naw- no logic behind it.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

Why the hell do people feel they "deserve" another person?....I never got this logic. There's no certain formula to guarantee you deserve anyone. It's pretty much just on you and that person to put the effort into comprimising and trying to make things work and last in a relationship.

It always helps if the couple can relate too friend you make some good points

I think its good to think 2 people are deserving of eachother if their personalities are complimenting eachother and they are both genuinely interested. Maybe not so much so much a thing of i just deserve somebody because this this and this because you could always pass away before you reach that status.

 

[SuburbanPimp]

To be honest, I probably don't deserve one based on the way I treated women until the age of 25. But I got one, so I'ma just consider myself lucky

But then I again, I'm black with a good job, a paid off car, fairly eudcated and I dress well. I'm not crazy and don't do stupid stuff to or over females and most importantly I'm fiscally responsible. So its never been hard to convince a chick I was a good catch until they start trying to find out about past relationships and exes

 

[Mike Ock]

To be honest, I probably don't deserve one based on the way I treated women until the age of 25. But I got one, so I'ma just consider myself lucky

But then I again, I'm black with a good job, a paid off car, fairly eudcated and I dress well. I'm not crazy and don't do stupid stuff to or over females and most importantly I'm fiscally responsible. So its never been hard to convince a chick I was a good catch until they start trying to find out about past relationships and exes

@ you doing right now....but, I can relate to the bolded....not trying to throw this thread off track, but when I first tried dating after my last serious ex, I got thrown in the bushes by sistas when they find out that my ex was white Not sure if there's any returning to the motherland for me. My chik now is Asian.

 

[Jay58]

just because a girl goes to church or stays in the house doesn't mean she a good woman or just "good" in general. there are a lot of twisted people in church and a lot of twisted women who just sit at home all day. you just want a woman who is "simple", not necessarily good. your occupation doesn't define how you are as a person. there's no point even addressing your second example if you don't realize the flaw in your first example...

Oh my god......You totally missed the point. I was talking from the perspective of the piece of sh*t man.........thats why I used examples of what a con man looks for in a church girl and a husband cheating on his loyal wife.....These are examples from the perspective a a piece of sh*t man....what makes a man a piece of sh*t? if he's stalking a woman who is a church girl who he's studied and knows is a good woman.....what makes a man a piece of sh*t? ifr he knows he has a good wife at home but cheats and brings home HIV......I'm not talking about wether we know the woman is good...i'm talking about examples where the woman is already known to be a "good woman"...The con man has been studying her and stalking her so he already knows shes a good woman....the married husband has been happy with his wife for 15 years so he already knows she's a good woman.


I'm not talking about what to look for to determine if the woman is a
"good woman" I was using examples of woman who are already known to be "good woman"

 

[Mr. Somebody]

I have a good woman and i obviously deserve her because God put us together. Lets not question God when we have a good woman. Instead lets look inside ourselves and at our woman and realize the things we need to change to be better matches for 1 another and a better example for our future children.

 

[Sierra Mist]

No one deserves anyone. People aren't objects.