Why does a man do this?

[Blackout]

He could be recuperating from a harsh rejection that he got earlier

 

[FTBS]

But 99.99% of the time, men turn you down or use you for some sex if you do the approach. Plus women are told that you'll never know if he truly would have wanted you if you approached.

I'm not saying women should approach men. I am saying that women should consider all that goes into the approach from a man's perspective before dismissing him as soft or a creep or whatever other pejoratives that men can be called when they are unsure of themselves or clumsy in this regard. Not accusing you of this.

 

[Blackout]

But 99.99% of the time, men turn you down or use you for some sex if you do the approach. Plus women are told that you'll never know if he truly would have wanted you if you approached.

The same can happen if he approaches you..

A good man doesn't magically change into a bad one because you approached

 

[#1 pick]

Not sure why

its interesting because I went out Friday and most of the black men was staring at me but women and other races of men approached me. Not sure If this happens to you tho

That usually means you appear unavailable. I just told my co-worker that this morning. She was mad at me because I didn't say nothing to her but she was looking like she didn't want to be bother and she was like, I always don't want to be bother. That's cool. But sometimes people don't want to say nothing to you if they think you just gonna look disinterested even if it is your friend

 

[#1 pick]

@PearlsGalore, there is a fine line between flirty and too nice to open but not about the BS and just plain unavailable. You post like a plain unavailable chick, then you got the cute not really fukking with you nikkas look and I can see how that can run away quality dudes. Even if you really just want to run away the fukkboys.

 

[FTBS]

@PearlsGalore, there is a fine line between flirty and too nice to open but not about the BS and just plain unavailable. You post like a plain unavailable chick, then you got the cute not really fukking with you nikkas look and I can see how that can run away quality dudes. Even if you really just want to run away the fukkboys.

The ironic thing is that this doesn't work on them . All the defenses that women put up only keep the decent cats away and make them more vulnerable to the shytty dudes.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Yeah. Why?

Because, this is The Coli.

A place where Kentrick Lacar is a STAR. If this means nothing to you, YouTube 'Kent, women'. And die on the inside.

A place where fake women, with 15 different photos of 15 different women when they say 'this is me' are treated like gold. 'That really is HER!'

A place where to fukk a mattress is considered 'getting PUSS'. Where factory workers claim to have 6 Certs. And simps write #HOH. Dating chubby ones.

So.. if anybody on here ask you 'that you in yo avi?'

remember. THIS IS THE COLI.

A lonely, socially awkward person who has a live restraining order for the one time he spoke to a girl will screencap your reply and print it and work out on that with cheap lotion like it's a blow up doll. 7 prints. 1 whole week.

Good luck.

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

Finally breaking out that shell I see

No shell. Sometimes i stay in. Sometimes I'll go out.


Unless you're talking aboout my sexuality

 

[Astroslik]

No shell. Sometimes i stay in. Sometimes I'll go out.


Unless you're talking aboout my sexuality

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

Because we can be shy.

Shy my ass. I think it's intimidation.

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

So yeah I always go out. It's a hit or diss when I step out. Lately, it's a diss and that's fine as well

 

[Astroslik]

So yeah I always go out. It's a hit or diss when I step out. Lately, it's a diss and that's fine as well

You should've invited me

 

[Spotja]

But sending your friend to speak to a woman for you?

kindergarten acts

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

It's called fear of rejection. Women don't have to do anything but sit on their ass and wait for men to come to them so it's clear why a lot of women don't understand it.

Woman logic:

"Men don't approach me cuz they're scared"

"I don't approach men cuz they're scared"

 

[Mr.bocario]

But 99.99% of the time, men turn you down or use you for some sex if you do the approach. Plus women are told that you'll never know if he truly would have wanted you if you approached.

-rejection is part of the game of life

-he can still use you for sex even if he just approaches

-just because a man approaches you doesn't mean he likes you like that. He might have been feeling himself that day and stepped to you