Why Does it Seem Like Women are Scared to Ask Men Questions?

[¢apitali$t Migraine]

My girl does this
this.

"You wanna pick me up at 4:30? If not i can just walk"

"You want me to ride with you?"

"You going home?"

"You coming in the store with me?

She never directly asks something.

Then when she asks if i want to pick her up from work and i say yeah, she'll be like "if you cant then thats fine"

I be like. I just told you yea

I used to hate that shyt. Wait, ur hoe ain't got a car? She prolly know she inadequate as fukk n subconsciously feels like an irresponsible lil ass kid having to axe an illuminated nikka for favors n shyt all the time.

 

[13473]

many don't want to be an inconvenience

 

[jwonder]

Cause most are cowards

I hate when they say

"I was testing you to see how strong our bond is "

That's an immature mind. Always good to stay away from broads like that

 

[Victoria Wade]

Why would a man say no to doing something for his woman? The same reason you'd say no for doing something for anybody else, you're doing something else, tired, had something else planned beforehand, etc. it doesn't usually have shyt to do with inconvenience or being worrisome. Sometimes things happen and you just can't do it. Its that simple but don't have anything to do with inconvenience unless you consider bad timing inconvenience. The passive aggressive thing is worse to me because I already know what you want so spit it out. Rejection happens to us all y'all need to get more comfortable with it.

Put your cape away fam. I don't know what your talking about outside of caping. I'm pretty sure I didn't say anything about any ulterior motives so nag in don't know what your talking about.

Also don't ask disingenuous questions. Chicks are not being considerate of your time they are scarred you'll say no so,they bullshyt around whatever they want to ask. That shyt weak and personally I'm just saying if you got something to say say it worse A person going to say is no. I just feel women too often have been raised to be weak on these types of issues (even dating) and then hide behind wack stuff like considering your time when its just bullshyt but a lot of capes fall for it.

Honey,you basically said the same thing I said,but in your own way.And your whole paragraph represents why women beat around the bush with men.They are weeeding out what type of man she has,to see if he's worth her asking him can he do things for her.If he keeps saying NO pretty soon,she will just start doing things for herself,and not ask him at all because she will already knoe what his answer will be.Thats why a good portion of women are now more independent,and do things for themselves.

 

[¢apitali$t Migraine]

It ain't just chicks, either. I had a super dee duper grown broke ass homeboy who wouldn't directly ask me for shyt. He would hint at shyt like a bytch. We smoking, "U wanna get some pizza? U wanna go to the store right quick n get some chips?" His hair wild, my hair wild, I'm kickin it with him right quick waitin on the cøkeman I'm like, "Yeah I'ma go get my shyt cut tomorrow morning." This nikka like, "Yeah I think I'ma roll with u, dog." Man, I pulled up to that bytch, his ass hopped out n strolled in n his boy was there n he sat down, I poked my head in there n ain't see my boy, so I said, "Oh shyt, my dog ain't here. Ay I'ma go head n roll out, bro."

The nikka was tryna be slick. I had told this gay nikka I wasn't gettin his hair cut n spending money on shyt for his lazy ass no more, he gon have to get a damn job. This hoe nikka switched up n started using suggestive shyt to try n see if I would do shyt for him. Even when I repeatedly DON'T do shyt for him, he would STILL use the same tactics.

Cuz he's fukking irresponsible and he's fukking lazy and he's a fukking hoe ass nikka who refuses to take care of his own shyt and is forced into axing real hardcore og gangstas for shyt, but paradixically has too much pride to hear a nikka say No, so he gotta kinda, maybe, bat his eyelashes n hint at wanting something.

Ain't got jack shyt to do with a nikka not "trusting" bytches. It has to do with a bytch being grown n able to handle her own and not needing to be axing u for shyt all the damn time like a lil ass girl. Cuz I been in the position of axing a bytch for shyt all the damn time, and the hell I went thru popcorn pimpin was partly responsible for making me go hard for my own shyt.

 

[Mac Brown]

why?

I just hate when women give all these hidden "test". Its sneaky and not very open communication.

 

[Raava]

I just hate when women give all these hidden "test". Its sneaky and not very open communication.

I was joking. I don't do that, still demonic tho

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I used to hate that shyt. Wait, ur hoe ain't got a car? She prolly know she inadequate as fukk n subconsciously feels like an irresponsible lil ass kid having to axe an illuminated nikka for favors n shyt all the time.

Maybe so.

 

[philmonroe]

Honey,you basically said the same thing I said,but in your own way.And your whole paragraph represents why women beat around the bush with men.They are weeeding out what type of man she has,to see if he's worth her asking him can he do things for her.If he keeps saying NO pretty soon,she will just start doing things for herself,and not ask him at all because she will already knoe what his answer will be.Thats why a good portion of women are now more independent,and do things for themselves.

Women beat around the bush because their scarred of rejection period. Its no different a reason than why a guy beats around the bush with a girl. Its no this, that, and the other because if you were guaranteed the person would say yes you wouldn't beat around the bush or "worry" about time. Some of y'all just like lying to,yourselves and fukk it it don't affect me so continue to do so.

People should be more independent because that's how they should be as adults not because of anything else.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

It ain't just chicks, either. I had a super dee duper grown broke ass homeboy who wouldn't directly ask me for shyt. He would hint at shyt like a bytch. We smoking, "U wanna get some pizza? U wanna go to the store right quick n get some chips?" His hair wild, my hair wild, I'm kickin it with him right quick waitin on the cøkeman I'm like, "Yeah I'ma go get my shyt cut tomorrow morning." This nikka like, "Yeah I think I'ma roll with u, dog." Man, I pulled up to that bytch, his ass hopped out n strolled in n his boy was there n he sat down, I poked my head in there n ain't see my boy, so I said, "Oh shyt, my dog ain't here. Ay I'ma go head n roll out, bro."

The nikka was tryna be slick. I had told this gay nikka I wasn't gettin his hair cut n spending money on shyt for his lazy ass no more, he gon have to get a damn job. This hoe nikka switched up n started using suggestive shyt to try n see if I would do shyt for him. Even when I repeatedly DON'T do shyt for him, he would STILL use the same tactics.

Cuz he's fukking irresponsible and he's fukking lazy and he's a fukking hoe ass nikka who refuses to take care of his own shyt and is forced into axing real hardcore og gangstas for shyt, but paradixically has too much pride to hear a nikka say No, so he gotta kinda, maybe, bat his eyelashes n hint at wanting something.

Ain't got jack shyt to do with a nikka not "trusting" bytches. It has to do with a bytch being grown n able to handle her own and not needing to be axing u for shyt all the damn time like a lil ass girl. Cuz I been in the position of axing a bytch for shyt all the damn time, and the hell I went thru popcorn pimpin was partly responsible for making me go hard for my own shyt.

I got a homeboy like that.
I'll be eating something and hell be like THAT shyt LOOK GOOD. Ill tell him he can have some and he'll be like NAH IM GOOD. IMA JUST WAIT TIL I GET HOME. (it'll be 11am and he don't plan on going home til night). Then later in the middle. Of me eating, aye bro you wanna take me to McDonald's?.


Or he'll ask for a piece of what im eating then he'll say NAH IM JUST PLAYING. Then ask later to take him to get something to eat

 

[Yaboysix]

Yall think way to deeply about some things on this site lol.wow!

 

[MarloStanTrill]

My girl does this
this.

"You wanna pick me up at 4:30? If not i can just walk"

"You want me to ride with you?"

"You going home?"

"You coming in the store with me?

She never directly asks something.

Then when she asks if i want to pick her up from work and i say yeah, she'll be like "if you cant then thats fine"

I be like. I just told you yea

women are stupid. thread/

 

[MarloStanTrill]

Thats all, womanesse for" you're supposed to be doing these things and i shouldn have to ask"

a woman isnt entitled to shyt. so if she wants something she damn well better ask. not putting a p*ssy hole on a pedestal thats simp talk or logic from a dumb broad.

i got my own. she should have her own. anything i MAY do is from the heart bc I WANT TO not because "IM SUPPOSED TO"

FOH #HOH in b4 someone call me bitter i got 2 bad bytches, and 1 okay lookn bytch they hold me down bc i mean what i say abd treat them like normal people not godesses

 

[moonchild]

the majority of women i know do not know how to be direct or decisive (or think critically). even if the tone is aggressive. my mom is like this as well. its something a lot of us are not raised to do or talked to about. had a teacher lecture the women in my class on this and as a woman its something ive been aware of since then.

 

[Arithmetic]

Dump this girl.

She's not worth your time.