Why does our society shame absent parents?

[Prynce]

Being a good mother and father are social constructs defined by western culture. There is no natural/instinctive formula on how to construct a family or who should be present in said family,

In other cultures it is considered normal for the dad to not be involved in a child's upbringing at all and in some cultures it's vice versa

So why do we shame and belittle people who don't want to be a parents in the states?

Because social stigma aside they're not doing anything that's wrong

 

[Bubba T]

Because social stigma aside they're not doing anything that's wrong

How about teaching a boy how to be a man or a girl how to move around men?

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Having kids u dont plan to take care of is wrong.

Not taking care of ur kids is wrong.

And alot of deadbeat dads continue to have kids by diff women and irresponsibly.

And also alot of them have the audacity to take care of they step kids and not there own kids.

Deadbeat parents are

 

[Clay Puppington]

Because social stigma aside they're not doing anything that's wrong

Breh you need to recalibrate your whole moral compass if you believe this goofy shyt

 

[Jhoon]

Can I see a photo of your hand?

 

[Dr. Acula]

Op is a deadbeat. Going to judge the fukk out of you breh. Stop being a bum. Not even going to argue the shyt.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

 

[Prynce]

Breh you need to recalibrate your whole moral compass if you believe this goofy shyt

There is no right or wrong breh

It's all determined by the standards of our society

If you we're born apart of the NA culture in china you wouldn't feel that way

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Because humans aren't turtles they can't just hatch and make it by themselves in the open sea

 

[Prynce]

Op is a deadbeat. Going to judge the fukk out of you breh. Stop being a bum. Not even going to argue the shyt.

I'm childless

The concept of being a father is some new shyt

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Kids can't raise themselves, they need parents. If you don't want to be a parent, don't have kids.

 

[NatiboyB]

shyt deadbeats seem to end up with more kids in a ironic twist...Seems as if women don't really give a damn about paternal mastery.

 

[13473]

In other cultures it is considered normal for the dad to not be involved in a child's upbringing at all and in some cultures it's vice versa

can we get the names of the cultures of both scenarios? is this deadbeat dad/mom completely adopting the culture of these foreigners or is he/she only adopting this particular practice that suits his/her deadbeatery?

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Breh you need to recalibrate your whole moral compass if you believe this goofy shyt

Exactly like folks is actually saying its ok to be a deadbeat crazy

 

[Prynce]

Because humans aren't turtles they can't just hatch and make it by themselves in the open sea

But ton's of human cultures have norms where there are no fathers involved