Why does our society shame absent parents?

[Prynce]

Having kids u dont plan to take care of is wrong.

Not taking care of ur kids is wrong.

And alot of deadbeat dads continue to have kids by diff women and irresponsibly.

And also alot of them have the audacity to take care of they step kids and not there own kids.

Deadbeat parents are

That's the natural state of human men tho

Men have biological drives to do just that

 

[Primetime21]

Being a good mother and father are social constructs defined by western culture.

According to who?

 

[Prynce]

How about teaching a boy how to be a man or a girl how to move around men?

What is a Man?

And women learn that from their mothers

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

But ton's of human cultures have norms where there are no fathers involved

Which cultures? And just because some may, doesn't mean their culture isn't backwards and something we should aspire to.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

That's the natural state of human men tho

Men have biological drives to do just that

So u see nothing wrong with having kids and not taking care of them?

 

[Daio]

Name the cultures

 

[Prynce]

According to who?

According to cultures who don't have western cultural norms ...

Everybody doesn't share the same beliefs in fatherhood or motherhood as western society

 

[beejus]

As someone with kids I can't even fathom choosing to not be around in my kids lives. You'll never find someone who loves you like your kids do. It's tough at times, but I get to raise and nurture this small being and watch as they grow into something special.

Now if you just don't want kids I can respect that also.

 

[Primetime21]

According to cultures who don't have western cultural norms ...

Everybody doesn't share the same beliefs in fatherhood or motherhood as western society

You keep harping on this “western society” shtick without answering the question

 

[Prynce]

Name the cultures

Mosuo - Wikipedia

Most matriarchal culture's are like this breh

 

[Prynce]

You keep harping on this “western society” shtick without answering the question

I answered the question

What didn't I answer?

 

[NatiboyB]

As someone with kids I can't even fathom choosing to be around in my kids lives. You'll never find someone who loves you like your kids do. It's tough at times, but I get to raise and nurture this small being and watch as they grow into something special.

Now if you just don't want kids I can respect that also.

do you have a teenager yet? If you can make it through your childrens teenage years without thinking to yourself fukk these lil mafukkas I salute you.

 

[Daio]

Mosuo - Wikipedia

Most matriarchal culture's are like this breh

Role of men[edit]

According to some, men have no responsibility in Mosuo society—they have no jobs, rest all day, and conserve their strength for nighttime visits.[9] However, Mosuo men do have roles in their society. They help to bring up the children of their sisters and female cousins, build houses and are in charge of livestock and fishing,[7] which they learn from their uncles and older male family members as soon as they are old enough.

Men deal with the slaughter of livestock, in which women never participate. Slaughtered pigs, in particular, are kept whole and stored in a dry, airy place that keeps them edible for up to ten years.[citation needed] This is especially helpful when harsh winters make food scarce.

 

[Prynce]

can we get the names of the cultures of both scenarios? is this deadbeat dad/mom completely adopting the culture of these foreigners or is he/she only adopting this particular practice that suits his/her deadbeatery?

Mosuo - Wikipedia

6 Modern Societies Where Women Rule

Matriarchal societies are like that

 

[Prynce]

Those are brothers and uncles not fathers breh