I think the point is as the man u probaly no gon get custody.....I'm the provider for me my baby mama and daughter right now,she may do sum hair every once in a while to bring in extra money...but she stay at home cuz it just makes more sense than payin a baby sitter......if she decided to leave me tommorow she would have to go get govt assistance or move in with her mama or sumthing....bottom line in either one of those scenarios she's getting my daughter even tho I have the financial stability and its been proven daddys are more important for a sonyea I said it....and equally important for a daughter.....woman got the upperhand when it come to the babies on every level
...half mines when its convienient,mostly hers with the important shyt like abortion,custody,where she wanna live etc.....they don have the upperhand on this abuse shyt go which is why they can look at themselves as victims and y'all men in here complainin cant
Ladies just remember to show sum empathy next time we complainin about baby mama drama and not bein able to see kids when we want,having piece of shyt baby mams who raise our kids and we ain't got a chance of getting custody,women refusing to get abortions,have sum damn sympathy will u?
Oh its our fault we knocked them up?9 times outta 10 if a man smack the soul up out a woman it wuz her fault too,don't make it right and don't mean she can't complain "damn this nikka really knockin my teeth out,this fight really ain't fair and is uncalled for,this ain't how its supposed to be" while she gettin her azz whupped.....we all should know better by now but
don't always know what u dealin with or who until its too late
Start keeping reicipts and documentation now so when/if it comes time to determine custody, you will have proof and a case to show the judge. Plenty of men fight for and get custody of their Children, at least joint custody.