Because you’re living for yourself and not others. When one doesn’t base their feelings on people or outside entities, they can truly be happy with oneself.
Why Does The World Hate You When You're Depressed??
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Because you’re living for yourself and not others. When one doesn’t base their feelings on people or outside entities, they can truly be happy with oneself.
Well, it's not that the world hates you, it's more of a distorted perception when you're in that state. When generating any negativity from your soul, you let off antimatter, which attracts demons that will feed off of you to the point of deforming your soul, which in turn leads to deceptive perceptions like "the whole world hates you".
This is false,you should work on making yourself more likeable,more righteous,more mouthpiece,more attractive,more spiritual. What you are saying does nothing to push one towards their greater self overall. Depression is meant to be fought through,I actually dreamed up a math equation that was the secret to life. I wrote it down somewhere,hopefully I can find it.
That’s your opinion.
What if you do all the things you stated and everyone still doesn’t like you. Then what? You did every to appease others and now you’re more depressed that everything you’ve done has failed.
Not once did I say not to improve oneself. I stated not to live your life seeking fulfillment from others.
I was bout to keep my feelings on mute, but I can't.
This shyt is pretty intense. Maybe its like in medieval times when people would catch the plague and motherfukkers would
Do I have the plague?
Able Archer 83
Two Minutes to Midnight
I've suffered from depression since I was a teenager; it's gone hand in hand with a host of other physical issues (I've got a laundry list of disabilities and deformities). I've often felt the same as you do.
In my more lucid moments, however, I realized that the world doesn't care. The trick is to adopt a philosophy that accounts for an uncaring world, and view the world through the prism of that philosophy. If the world doesn't care, so be it. If the world actively hates me, so be it. I know where I stand, and I can build a life based on my own guidelines, beholden to no one's perceptions but my own.
This hasn't eliminated my depression by any means, but it's at least provided me with a framework to power through the worst of the paranoia and misery.
However you choose to deal with it, I hope you have success.
In my more lucid moments, however, I realized that the world doesn't care. The trick is to adopt a philosophy that accounts for an uncaring world, and view the world through the prism of that philosophy. If the world doesn't care, so be it. If the world actively hates me, so be it. I know where I stand, and I can build a life based on my own guidelines, beholden to no one's perceptions but my own.
This hasn't eliminated my depression by any means, but it's at least provided me with a framework to power through the worst of the paranoia and misery.
However you choose to deal with it, I hope you have success.
All of this. People need to stop trying to impress others, do things to get others to like them and worry about how others perceive them. Confident people and genuinely good people, regardless of their specific personality, attractive people. What good is being likeable to others if you don't even like yourself?
Able Archer 83
Two Minutes to Midnight
The problem with this is approach is that there are no objective standards for the attributes you noted: likability, righteousness, attractiveness, spirituality. And trying to conform to everyone's standards will literally destroy your soul and--most importantly--rob you of your free will.
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I have such a toxic personality
I play the wavy dude, but deep down I always give a shyt how Im perceived, and I develop feelings for females easily.
I stylize myself, and I move carelessly. Im easily gratified, and once Im gratified, I separate myself entirely from all doubts and insecurities. Id rather hit a setback 3 then win the game.
I fixate on ideas and channel negative thoughts, then act surprised when the shyt happens.
I have very little discipline. I genuinely believe that style matters more then substance. Think I gotta move back in with my parents and just start over entirely.
Brehs,
Im at a loss. How can I defeat these personality traits? They are all accurate and its not just the depression speaking.
There is no simple solution to this, but the first steps are being aware and admitting there is a problem. Being able to talk about it is also important.
The rest of the world has it's own problems and so doesnt have patience for others who express their problems. For some people, they feel the way you do but if they engage you in talking about it, that means they cant ignore their own problems anymore and those feelings become real and not easy to suppress anymore.
If you take a step back you realize that your feelings are not unusual and we live in a generally fukked up and illogical and cruel world. Racism, greed, war, and all other forms of avoidable savagery and tragedy are around us each day.
The only real respite from that is the ability for us to savor the times where those arent issues. The time where you chill with a friend playing a game, or you find a good roast thread, or when you get a raise or tax return or when you get some good puss or when you find a dope TV show or movie. These are the things we must treasure that make life worth living on a planet with an otherwise evil species that is literally killing itself in all the ways it knows how and taking as many living creatures as it can with it.
Humanity itself is depressed and not optimistic, so you have to treasure the people and things that are on a different path and savor the good moments in life. The shyt around you is what gives those moments their sweetness.
For you to build discipline, be more secure in yourself etc. You need to take small steps and build momentum and also be willing to be vulnerable and trust people. It all starts with little things like learning to accept yourself, wanting to be healthier and doing little things like cleaning, walking more, deep breathing, eating more fruits and vegetables, sleeping etc.
Which will compound their depression and create more issues.
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#FLM
I've always wondered if my immense arrogance makes me immune to depression. I very rarely even feel low and if I do (usually based on things that happen to other i.e death/illness) I can pretty much think my way out of feeling low.
Maybe I'll just have a nervous breakdown in 10 years
Maybe I'll just have a nervous breakdown in 10 years
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Able Archer 83
Two Minutes to Midnight
Exactly The biggest danger is this: perhaps the number one contributor towards suicide is a feeling of "loss of control" and helplessness. If you have no free will, then how can you hope to gain control?
If you do all those things and nobody still likes you,you need to continue trying to crack the code. This advice is far better than telling somebody to "love yourself" when they feel as though there is nothing loveable about themselves. The only way to cure that sort of oppression is getting validation and attention from others. Problem is depressed people try to pretend those things don't matter to them,because its not cool or natural to admit that you want validation. When majority of people crave attention and validation,but it just happens naturally so you don't really think about it,because you've never lacked it. For people who don't recieve that attention and validation naturally and are aware of that,they need to seek it out. If you don't already love yourself,loving yourself comes after cracking the code,it can't come beforehand.
friends,the bible,dating aren't objective at all. I'm not saying anybody has to go outside of their wheelhouse and not be themselves. Often times its just about seeking out your audience and demographic,knowing where to find them,and how to attract them too you as friends or lovers. Whats wrong with telling people they need to learn a innate quality that most other people may have naturally? Blind people have to learn how to read with their fingers,deaf people have to learn sign language. Crying and being depressed because you have to learn to be more loveable because YOU as a person may not recieve it,or may even require more love and attention then the average normal person? If somebody needs more love,theres nothing wrong with telling them to go get it,and improve themselves in whatever ways they can to get it.