Why don't girls go for 'nice' guys?

[Jamal514]

To be honest, I didn't read past the 1st sentence cause guys who say that are losers and suckers.

Girls do like nice guys. They just don't want an insecure loser.

This is and always has been the answer yet it seems this thread continues to be made.

At least it was a female this time and not some Elliott Rogers type dude.

 

[MikelArteta]

Your ugly

Its brehs like you that help fuel this confusion.

 

[MikelArteta]

If this dude was attractive and had status and waa edgy, shed have felt a spark she never felt before . I don't usually do this or feel this way this early would be coming out of her mouth

 

[BlvdBrawler]

See the problem is that people equate being nice with being insecure cause insecure people can't say no and let u walk all over them. That's why there are so many a$$holes, they make that connection and say fukk that I ain't gonna be nice.

You can be nice without being insecure. The key is to be a perfect gentleman that is not afraid to call a female out on her shyt. Being an a$$hole is not necessary.

Very well said and very very important.

I took this dime out a few weeks ago. She was being a pain in the ass about the venue cause she didn't want to be in a part of town where we might run into her boyfriend . Anyway once she finally agreed to come to my part of town and we settled on a time, I told her, "Don't be late." Her response was, "Well if I show up at 7:12 (date was at 7) don't get your panties in a bunch." and I said, "No. Do..... not...... be....... late......"

She wasn't late.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

Um no I got your point, you were set up on a date with a nice guy. Because he showed interest and desperation and was enamourrd by your beauty even though you showed nothing else like any men cares about your intellect or what you do for a living in your eyes he was a pathetic no backbone simp nice guy.

This really is what she said. I mean he switched a few words but it's what she said.

Me and Reincar don't always agree but nikka be on point when he talks about these females, some dudes just don't like to hear it. Women DEFINITELY don't want to hear it because it removes the facade

 

[havoc]

Op, why didn't you open up about yourself ? Your inner beauty will stay inside in its shell if you decide to wait for a man to peel your outer layer.

 

[Rawtid]

You can be a nice guy and not be a simp.

 

[Poitier]

This is and always has been the answer yet it seems this thread continues to be made.

And its about to get worse.

 

[beanz]

Very well said and very very important.

I took this dime out a few weeks ago. She was being a pain in the ass about the venue cause she didn't want to be in a part of town where we might run into her boyfriend . Anyway once she finally agreed to come to my part of town and we settled on a time, I told her, "Don't be late." Her response was, "Well if I show up at 7:12 (date was at 7) don't get your panties in a bunch." and I said, "No. Don't...... be....... late......"

She wasn't late.

Rns

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

If this dude was attractive and had status and waa edgy, shed have felt a spark she never felt before . I don't usually do this or feel this way this early would be coming out of her mouth

I thought you said status didn't matter? Or am I wrong?

 

[KinksandCoils]

The better question is why do some people stay with losers because all of these men start off nice. You think she is gonna keep talking to a man in the beginning that treats her like trash? Most of the time all men are good at first.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Platinum thread in the making. Plenty of nice guys on this board want to know why they're losing. I used to be a nice guy but I turned heel because the bytches love it. Continue on.

 

[Deadpool1986]

I hear this phrase all the time; however, before self-reflecting on the realm of possibilities which may explain this conundrum, I conducted my own little experiment. I went out with a so-called 'nice' guy. My family and friends kept telling me that I was extremely picky and here was a 'nice' guy that was interested in me but I was turning him down for no reason apparently. So against my better judgement, I decided to give this 'nice' guy a chance.

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/End rant.

 

[Malik]

Nice guys aren't losers, or creeps, or weirdos. They could make a lot of women happy. Problem is, nice guys don't make a woman's blood rush the way an a$$hole does. They're boring. They bring no excitement. They're not the men women sit at home dreaming about. She knows your right for her in the way that you know Brussel sprouts are right for you. And 9 times out 10, you're a pushover who's too scared to tell her when she's being a bytch. That's why women don't like "nice guys".

I used to be a nice guy. I almost should thank the thot that broke me outta that

 

[Rawtid]

Very well said and very very important.

I took this dime out a few weeks ago. She was being a pain in the ass about the venue cause she didn't want to be in a part of town where we might run into her boyfriend . Anyway once she finally agreed to come to my part of town and we settled on a time, I told her, "Don't be late." Her response was, "Well if I show up at 7:12 (date was at 7) don't get your panties in a bunch." and I said, "No. Do..... not...... be....... late......"

She wasn't late.

This is how my friend "handles" me. Not mean but just very sure about what he expects from me and there is nothing wrong with that. I do the same with him.