Why don't guys want to date me?

[ndthentherewasx]

Height and weight if you don' mind?


The only thing i can think of at the moment is your demeanor

You might have one of those leave me alone and let me be faces

 

[Taadow]

I know this post will sound whiney and over dramatic ...
I have a problem with over thinking. ...

I guess I went a little off topic. ...

Another thing I notice is that guys choose my friends over me. ...

I am approachable and introverted. ...

I can be very sensitive and jump to conclusions. I can also be too defensive when someone wants to debate with me.

All of this is why.


Okay:
- it doesn't matter what happens in the Army, that's your (and everyone elses') time to slut it up. Don't act like you don't know what I mean.

- stop doing chit with "friends" If you're out to catch. Go by yourself. You don't need other (perhaps more attractive) folks there
squashing your game. Here's something you should've learned by now if you're an adult: All other females are your competition
for dudes.

- that "introverted" chit ain't cute. Knock it off.
Even if you seem "chill" and "approachable", if you get approached the dude is gonna want some interaction.
Don't get scurred, or you don't get served. Shake it fast.

- fucc that other nicca talmbat he stressin' over gettin' a lesbian back. That sounds like dumb nicca chit, for one.
For two, like you said I think you only sweatin' him because he kept it all the way 100 with you. So when the next dude
comes up to you and he comes correct, you won't even care about other cuzz no mo'.



...and really, it's not a rule that you have to be dating like that anyway.

 

[Jabadahut]

tell us your height and weight.

and pick one

I have the neat hourglass. I'm skinny but I do have slight curve. I'm not a plank lol. Big boobs for someone my size too.

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

I'm bored and over thinking. I'm also new to this site so I will see how this goes lol

PM me, let's talk about it.


Unless you a dude then

 

[Jabadahut]

Height and weight if you don' mind?


The only thing i can think of at the moment is your demeanor

You might have one of those leave me alone and let me be faces

I'm 5'6 and 141 pounds. You might be right. It's weird because I attract males as friends but nothing more.

 

[Tunez]

I'll post a pic


Not at all.

Prove it

 

[Jean Jacket]

If dudes pick your friends over you, it's because you're ugly in the face or your body is manly. Your personality doesn't matter if they are just trying to fukk. You may be too annoying to deal with to just fukk. You seem like a wench waiting in the wings for a opportunistic fetishistic CAC.

Do you have a white accent, and dress really childish for your age?

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Leaning towards fake account

:oprahreallynow:

 

[Ronnie Macho]

tell us your height and weight.

and pick one

 

[Jabadahut]

I see what you're saying. Yeah I do go out by myself a lot because no one else I hang out with like to go out. They use tinder. I try to not be introverted. I'm not shy but it's just me. I'll slowly grow out of it soon. Sadly, what you said about that guy is true. I probably will move on soon when I get another guys attention.

All of this is why.


Okay:
- it doesn't matter what happens in the Army, that's your (and everyone elses') time to slut it up. Don't act like you don't know what I mean.

- stop doing chit with "friends" If you're out to catch. Go by yourself. You don't need other (perhaps more attractive) folks there
squashing your game. Here's something you should've learned by now if you're an adult: All other females are your competition
for dudes.

- that "introverted" chit ain't cute. Knock it off.
Even if you seem "chill" and "approachable", if you get approached the dude is gonna want some interaction.
Don't get scurred, or you don't get served. Shake it fast.

- fucc that other nicca talmbat he stressin' over gettin' a lesbian back. That sounds like dumb nicca chit, for one.
For two, like you said I think you only sweatin' him because he kept it all the way 100 with you. So when the next dude
comes up to you and he comes correct, you won't even care about other cuzz no mo'.



...and really, it's not a rule that you have to be dating like that anyway.

 

[Jabadahut]

Leaning towards fake account

:oprahreallynow:

Why would I create a fake account and include all these details...

 

[Collateral]

You sound like every other 20 year old chick in the world, I would know because I dated one, she was 19 though

You sound just like her too. Overthinking things, always jumping to conclusions, impatient. You’re 20. You have plenty of years ahead of you to find a man that means well. I doubt you’re gonna find him in the service though

Just relax, focus on improving yourself and making money in the meantime. Again, you’re 20, there’s no need to rush anything. You sound like a good young woman with her head screwed on tight. Good luck



And oh yeah drop a couple pics

 

[Jabadahut]

Asking dudes on TheColi.com for dating advice is not good.

I found that out fast

 

[Jabadahut]

You sound like every other 20 year old chick in the world, I would know because I dated one, she was 19 though

You sound just like her too. Overthinking things, always jumping to conclusions, impatient. You’re 20. You have plenty of years ahead of you to find a man that means well. I doubt you’re gonna find him in the service though

Just relax, focus on improving yourself and making money in the meantime. Again, you’re 20, there’s no need to rush anything. You sound like a good young woman with her head screwed on tight. Good luck



And oh yeah drop a couple pics

That last part has me laughing. I don't feel comfortable posting pictures online to people I don't know lol. I'll probably laugh at myself for being this dramatic years later. Thanks for your input tho!

 

[The BasedFather]

3 pages and not 1 pic!!!?

What the fukk moe!