Why don't guys want to date me?

brebabyyy

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They find people quick. But I must be the 1%


I’m in the Army too, but I don’t have the issues you’re having. Honestly reading your post, having a man should be the least of your concerns. You sound like you have low self esteem. The things you’re interested in, will never affect you getting a man. Enjoy life girl, you’re 20. I understand wanting to be with someone, but you need to work on yourself first.
 

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Yazzy,

The reason why you aren't dating is because it isn't time for you to date(yet). You are still very young(although an adult) and you have a lifetime to date. In the meantime, focus on your career and educational goals. Also, since you are in the military, you may want to explore the world and travel to different places.

You could join a reputable dating site as well as join groups where people share similar interests as yourself.

Lastly, which celebrity do people say you resemble so people here can get an ideal of what you look like? How do you dress? How do you wear your hair? What type of guys are you attracted to? What is your age range? Perhaps people can help once you provide the answers to these questions.

Oh, be patient and don't take any criticism you may get personally.
It's a dream of mine to travel. I would like to teach English abroad when I get out. I don't look like any celebrity tbh. I wear my hair in a slicked back bun (military style.) I dress casual but not too fancy unless I get in that mood. My standards for guys aren't too high. Just someone who is caring
 
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I’m in the Army too, but I don’t have the issues you’re having. Honestly reading your post, having a man should be the least of your concerns. You sound like you have low self esteem. The things you’re interested in, will never affect you getting a man. Enjoy life girl, you’re 20. I understand wanting to be with someone, but you need to work on yourself first.


How old is u bre
 

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I’m in the Army too, but I don’t have the issues you’re having. Honestly reading your post, having a man should be the least of your concerns. You sound like you have low self esteem. The things you’re interested in, will never affect you getting a man. Enjoy life girl, you’re 20. I understand wanting to be with someone, but you need to work on yourself first.
I won't lie. My self esteem is low. You right. I do have to be content with myself first
 

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You can't get a man because I've skimmed through 7 pages and ain't see notanaan picture yet
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brebabyyy

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I won't lie. My self esteem is low. You right. I do have to be content with myself first


I know men come off as they’re not that intelligent sometimes, but they can spot self esteem issues right away with a woman. Maybe some of the men noticed it, that’s why you’re being friendzoned. Work on your self esteem and everything will fall into place eventually.
 

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I won't lie. My self esteem is low. You right. I do have to be content with myself first

What a lot of women don't realize is that a lot of men can pick up on this fast as hell...We're not going to deny a casual sexual encounters with women who fit this bracket but, most of us don't want the baggage in a serious relationship. I doubt it's your appearance at all...it's how you carry yourself.
 

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I know men come off as they’re not that intelligent sometimes, but they can spot self esteem issues right away with a woman. Maybe some of the men noticed it, that’s why you’re being friendzoned. Work on your self esteem and everything will fall into place eventually.

Ding...ding...ding..You got it..This is something a lot of women don't realize.
 
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