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Why don't guys want to date me?
- Thread starter Jabadahut
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Not about belief. The first thing a man will do when he meets you is look at you and make a spot decision about you.
You can't be serious about asking why things are going wrong but unwilling to let the men you're asking look at you.
Nobody here knows you so you're picture is effectively just a random person they don't know. Even a troll would just steal a pic and post it.
The fact that a picture isn't posted means something. Especially when the problem you allude to having is so impractical to the average woman.
I know this post will sound whiney and over dramatic but I just want to hear a guys insight on this. I have an older brother who I could probably talk to about this but he's overprotective and I'm sure he doesn't want to hear me complain about this stuff. Anyway, I'm 20, female and in the Army. I've been in about two years. I have a problem with over thinking. One of things I think about a lot is why I haven't had dating experience or had a guy even want to date me. Yes I know I should approach too, but from my observations I had two guys approach me but they were drunk. One was a weird sergeant (long story about him) who tried hitting on all the females and another was a guy friend who told me how he felt. He also said that I'm "wifey " material when sober. Yet when I eventually
grew closer to him and I returned those feelings, he said that he doesn't want to ruin the friendship or make things awkward at work. He also said he would probably screw it up because he is trying to get back with his ex who is married to a woman. It did make me feel some type of way but I told him I understand since I didn't return my feelings that night drunkenly told me. I just wanted to get to know him more because he was new to the unit... After that we still talked and hung out but now he acts distant and weird. So some days he'll joke around with me and another day he acts cold. He said me rejecting him the first time wasn't the issue . He said it's him. I still don't get it though.
I guess I went a little off topic. I mentioned that friend because it is bothering me about how he is acting toward me and I still have feelings for him. He's the only guy I've had strong feelings for... probably because he's the only guy who approached me directly and told me he likes me. What I don't understand is why some guys will say so much good things to a girl but not date her. What's the purpose of that?
Another thing I notice is that guys choose my friends over me. I don't think I'm ugly personally and strangers tell me I'm beautiful. I'm certainly not a dime or a 10 though. Personality... hard to describe to people who don't know me but I am approachable and introverted. The reason why I say I'm approachable is that I attract male and female friends. They all said that I seemed like a chill person and was friendly. I'm not trying to make myself sound perfect because I'm not. I can be very sensitive and jump to conclusions. I can also be too defensive when someone wants to debate with me. I enjoy learning languages, game of thrones fan, harry potter fan, going to school for political science, and I love to travel. Do you guys think me being kind of a nerd has a lot to do with why I've been single my whole life and me not having a curvy body (slim thick)? Most of my friends are and they can have any guy they want. It's not even just their bodies that attract men... I can't pinpoint what else it is but if a thing for one guy doesn't work out, they have others waiting in line. And I'm over here like I can't even get the guy i like to date me and I'm a loner over here lol.
Guys, I can't remember how I discovered this website but I would like input. I can take criticism and if some of you find this post ridiculous, I don't mind. I'm just saying how I feel. Also, if what I said above doesn't make sense, just ask me and I'll elaborate more.
I'd have to see how you look. Because looks determine what sort of excuses a woman may get.
nerdy is in... so I don't think that's a problem. It could only be a problem around the wrong company.
I don't think you should compare yourself to others and their situations., that's always a quick path down a road where you'll never be happy with yourself. Maybe these other women are using sex and sex appeal to catch these men. Maybe your bait has too much substance. Like, a man might see that he better be ready to settle down if he fukking with you... I dunno.
You sound good...So just focus on your good qualities and what you want will surely come along as cliche as that sounds.
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BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
You're kidding. I guess bc she's so fit.My wife is 5'7 144, people think she's skinny still although very curvy.
When I tell then how much she weights there like
I'm 5'1/2 133.
I still look small tho filled out more.
Btw decided to go with a personal trainer* random but I know you were dropping those exercise videos.
l3lackstarr
In my observatory
If I had to guess from reading that, its how you carry yourself. You may be approachable on the front end, but these guys might pick up on something after the fact...and choose to dip.. or stick around in case they think sex may be an option. So a reevaluation of yourself may be a place to start. With that... you should probably just chill and not worry yourself about it so much. You get a lot thinking done like that.
The Up Right Man
All Star
Dang, well be careful. Lots of people in the military about that grime life. Just don't lose to no nice smile and charming words. Goto church and get you a good Christian brother.
Unemployed GM
All Star
My wife is the same as the op too and people think she is skinny, but to me her body isMy wife is 5'7 144, people think she's skinny still although very curvy.
When I tell then how much she weights there like
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Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
Always nikkas who be late as hell to the thread talking shyt
Yea OP posted a pic and deleted it, thats why the thread blew up.
Yea OP posted a pic and deleted it, thats why the thread blew up.
Why don't one of you younger gentlemen take Yazzy out? All these dudes on here and nobody wanna date her?
Perhaps, somebody or a panel of people can pick 5 or 10 eligible bachelor's from here and have a lil dating game of sorts?
I know it may be a lil sketchy, but fuggit..What she got to loose? Just a thought..*shrugs*
Perhaps, somebody or a panel of people can pick 5 or 10 eligible bachelor's from here and have a lil dating game of sorts?
I know it may be a lil sketchy, but fuggit..What she got to loose? Just a thought..*shrugs*
Broke Wave
The GOAT
Ill pay for cbox whats up link me
ol' send her a good morning winky face emoji ass nikka
let's be honest. this bytch sounds like she is very ugly. I mean just the way she types she sound like a ugly bytch
how you in the military around a bunch of nikkas in prison-like settings and still can't get no dikk
O.T.I.S.
Veteran
You better wait until you get out the military for that shyt then.
It's not impossible but 9 month- 1 year deployments, constant moving and training, long nights and weekends, etc., not to mention the fukkery
I say don't do it unless you find a good nikka AND you are a good chick
