Why don't guys want to date me?

[KOOL-AID]

did she post or...

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Cliffs? Notes? Cliff notes......

 

[FukYaFeelings]

Nope I'm a she. But it is a known fact about females in the military.. what you said. Basically we can't win. As a female in the military, if you don't put yourself out there, then you are considered gay or just a prude. If you talk to a bunch of guys and sleep around with them, you are considered a hoe.

thats the real world too.

 

[Poitier]

The fact yall fall for this same exact troll routine every year is hilarious.

 

[calh45]

You're 20. No need to be in a hurry. You got time. Become more comfortable and confident about who/what you are and don't trip on cats not approaching or how many folks you've dated.

 

[julesocean]

The fact yall fall for this same exact troll routine every year is hilarious.

I dunno what's worse, the person who spent their time typing this up, or the ppl falling for it being 10x nicer than they usually are.

 

[TheDarkskinnedDrake]

No dudes getting at you and you're in the army you're lying out your ass

 

[Kaypain]

Thirsty ass nikkas in here

 

[Piff Perkins]

A lot of people are introverted today. Many folks prefer staying in, watching Netflix, etc. That's not going to stop you from finding a guy, in fact it helps you.

My advice would be to expand your social circle a bit, beyond military guys, and just relax. You're young, you don't need to rush things. Have fun. Meet people. Go out on a date if someone decent asks you out. Let things just...flow.

Don't overthink. I know it's easy for me to say that online but for real. I'm similar. I overthink a lot of simple stuff. But I found that putting myself in social situations forced me to take some risks, deal with random circumstances, and meet people.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

op hasn't posted pics

i assuming she's facially challenge that's really the only reason why guys don't approach

either that or she's not telling us the whole story

 

[Black Nate Grey]

When she said only two guys have approached her in her life I called bullshyt.

We were trolled.

 

[TEH]

Stop it ****

 

[Bilz]

This does seem like a troll post but it's a real problem that some girls have. Some people think they put in a lot of effort to make friends and be social and are oblivious to the fact that they are actually closed off from the world. Like the OP saying she has only been hit on twice but later said that strangers tell her she said beautiful. If you ignore or resist very basic approaches, then yeah, people will never progress to the point of asking you out.

If a girl has confidence and doesn't try to fill every awkward lonely moment by burying her face in her phone to appear busy, she is going to be approached regularly no matter how she looks.

 

[Jabadahut]

Guys are simps, dirtbags, and degenerates (some aren't but....) so if they aren't approaching you with that type of body, you must be wildly ugly in the face or a man.



And that's why I don't believe her. Unless she doesn't date Black guys and their advances don't count.

Omg I’m dyin at this I was so dumb and dramatic. I’ve had many men like me but they were either married or for some reason didn’t like them. I was 20 at the time I posted this. I’m 25 and single. I was in a long distance relationship 3 years ago. I’m doing great now . I finished my degree, left the army , have a townhouse and a new job. My life isn’t perfect but over the years I started caring less about men attention. Sometimes I reflect at how much I improved over the years. My homies are good. I’m good. And I don’t take shyt as serious anymore. Life is too short

 

[Jabadahut]

Is that ass phat?

Omg I’m dyin at this I was so dumb and dramatic. I’ve had many men like me but they were either married or for some reason didn’t like them. I was 20 at the time I posted this. I’m 25 and single. I was in a long distance relationship 3 years ago. I’m doing great now . I finished my degree, left the army , have a townhouse and a new job. My life isn’t perfect but over the years I started caring less about men attention. Sometimes I reflect at how much I improved over the years. My homies are good. I’m good. And I don’t take shyt as serious anymore. Life is too short. The way I see it is if i meet someone, I do. If I don’t, oh well. I’ve met some pretty cool people in the new state I’m in.