Why don't guys want to date me?

Jabadahut

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this thread 5 years old.. gotta watch the time cuz it's flying rite by


I’m sayin 😂😂 I saw this site pop up when I was on Facebook and I’m like wtf I remember this shyt. I was so dumb lol . Y’all roasted tf out of me
 

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Some upright coli breh needs to step up to the plate and take care of this nice young lady. :mjgrin:
 

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you had a bf yet ?

EDIT: u answered. never mind
Yeah … that was something else. It was stressful because he was suicidal and he got locked in mental institution. I had to contact people from my last unit to give me updates. Last I heard he had to take out a loan for an apartment and he has a kid 😭 he cheated on me with his ex. Oh well, wish his mental health is better these days (that’s not sarcasm)
 

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Omg I’m dyin at this 😂 I was so dumb and dramatic. I’ve had many men like me but they were either married or for some reason didn’t like them. I was 20 at the time I posted this. I’m 25 and single. I was in a long distance relationship 3 years ago. I’m doing great now . I finished my degree, left the army , have a townhouse and a new job. My life isn’t perfect but over the years I started caring less about men attention. Sometimes I reflect at how much I improved over the years. My homies are good. I’m good. And I don’t take shyt as serious anymore. Life is too short. The way I see it is if i meet someone, I do. If I don’t, oh well. I’ve met some pretty cool people in the new state I’m in.

Older you get the more you realize finding a date is easy peasy, now finding someone good to build a life with well
 

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Well I wish you all the best in this crazy dating world lol. I know guys have it even worse. There’s someone out there but you really have to love yourself and it happens naturally. If someone isn’t giving you the energy you want, fukk them (not literally) just give the energy back which is leave them be. I’m drunk but tryna preach .
 

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Omg I’m dyin at this 😂 I was so dumb and dramatic. I’ve had many men like me but they were either married or for some reason didn’t like them. I was 20 at the time I posted this. I’m 25 and single. I was in a long distance relationship 3 years ago. I’m doing great now . I finished my degree, left the army , have a townhouse and a new job. My life isn’t perfect but over the years I started caring less about men attention. Sometimes I reflect at how much I improved over the years. My homies are good. I’m good. And I don’t take shyt as serious anymore. Life is too short. The way I see it is if i meet someone, I do. If I don’t, oh well. I’ve met some pretty cool people in the new state I’m in.


You lonely coli nikkas had your chance at a "high value" woman and dropped the ball.


But I guess in 2017 good women were a dime a dozen. Tried to tell you the quality of women was about to drastically decline. And to either wife the one your with,or hurry up and drop her to try to find the last of the righteous women. Oh well cant cry over spilled milk,at least yall still have JBO:francis:
 

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You lonely coli nikkas had your chance at a "high value" woman and dropped the ball.


But I guess in 2017 good women were a dime a dozen. Tried to tell you the quality of women was about to drastically decline. And to either wife the one your with,or hurry up and drop her to try to find the last of the righteous women. Oh well cant cry over spilled milk,at least yall still have JBO:francis:
I feel like the quality of people in general went downhill. Men and woman. And no I’m not offended at what you said but I see it both sides from people I know smh. I’ve seen female friends drop the ball on good dudes and vice Versa
 
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