Her income requirement is attention and peace of mind where it is found.
How you think she'll give it up easy for Jon E but make Jon Doe take her out?
She wants comfort, security and tending to.
If she cares she will tend to Jon E irrespective of Jon Doe's investment.
Dependent on who she is and knowing what she wants, supply that and ideal income requirements go away.
If she likes you, she will waive superficial standards because her standards of respect change.
Problem arrives when Jon E takes undue advantage of her invested trust and affection. Cheating mainly.
Happening too frequently among men, generalizing her myopic view she seeks superficial info to protect herself from Line 7.
Because change is hard once bad habits have formed. Jon A got easy work and fumbled the bag. Approximation, mileage varies.
The opposite can happen resultant of Line 8.
Lesbians are familiar and not required to play by the same rules. Talk to your lesbian friends, trauma bonding is part of establishing relationships.