why don't women ever take accountability for cheating?

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Cheating is cheating though and the reason that you've told yourself to justify cheating "somethings wrong" or "i couldnt turn down new p*ssy"doesn't make any difference.

Something wrong does not mean that the man isn't handling his business. It means somethings wrong, that could be her fault or his fault or both of their faults.
I'm disagreeing that women only cheat because "they have a reason" " the man isn't handling his business"

Some women are 40 years old or have been married for awhile and just can't handle the fact that their Disney land fantasy isn't coming true.
These women have comfortable lives, their husband provides and is a good partner and parent but that just isn't good enough.

You hear these women complaining about "he's just not exciting anymore"
"This isn't like when we were dating" "sure he works 60 hrs a week but that's just not romantic that he comes home and wants to rest"

That's not that the man isn t handling his business. That's a woman who has completely unrealistic expectations of marriage and or doesn't want to grow the fukk up.

No your husband isn't part of a romance novel and he's not fabio and every day isn't going to be filled with roses and poems and quivering loins.


Yo husband lucky :lawd:
 
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If your husband/boyfriend hasn't proposed a 3 some yet or fooled around on the side he has low T.

That's all there is to it. :manny:

A High Testosterone Alpha Male is not programmed to be satisfied with just one Woman. Any Woman who disagrees just has a low T partner or is delusional.

Conversely, a Man who has cheated usually the female fights for him and is even more loyal because it is an indicator of high genetic fitness since he is a wanted Man.

The reality is no female wants a Man that other females are not interested in.
 

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Some of you dudes sound like scientists. "Only a man with low testosterone levels would be satisfied with just one woman."

Yeah, okay Bill Nye. Just because YOU guys like to cheat on women, doesn't mean that a dude is automatically a sissy or is dealing with a hormonal imbalance because he doesn't. Maybe he's happy with who he's with and doesn't need a third party to be fulfilled in his relationship.

Either way, cheating is selfish and super corny, just break up and save the stupid arguments that come with cheating in the future.
 

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Some of you dudes sound like scientists. "Only a man with low testosterone levels would be satisfied with just one woman."

Yeah, okay Bill Nye. Just because YOU guys like to cheat on women, doesn't mean that a dude is automatically a sissy or is dealing with a hormonal imbalance because he doesn't. Maybe he's happy with who he's with and doesn't need a third party to be fulfilled in his relationship.

Either way, cheating is selfish and super corny, just break up and save the stupid arguments that come with cheating in the future.
Yea if anything I think it's the other way around. A guy who can't fight temptation is not a alpha
 
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Many Women just don't understand. It is literally PHYSICALLY impossible for a Man with high testosterone to be locked down to one female no matter how many fairy tales your momma told you as a child. :ld:

There is no such thing as "Maybe he's happy who he is with" - This is a feature of estrogen and you don't even know it because testosterone encourages thoughts of constantly chasing a moving target - There is no end goal, the goal post just keeps changing.

We have 10x the testosterone of Women there is no way you can ever fully understand how we think or why we have the thoughts we do. Stop trying to understand it and just accept it. :ohlawd:
 

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Not offended, I'm actually pretty young- just didn't think my perspective should be disqualified because of it.

I was only asking because your views seem old school so I did expect you to be at least In your 40s
 
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I think you miss understood what I was saying. A man isn't handling his business was something I was using as a general statement with something being wrong in the relationship. If a woman is cheating and something is wrong. Chances are she's just gonna blame him. Either way i never meant or said it justified their actions. I think this is just a difference of an opinion. No need to go back and fourth to argue. I believe the avg married woman cheats more because she's not happy at home versus a married man who is happy at home but still wants another piece of ass. Men stepping out on women is something some men feel like they're actually allowed to just because they are a man.

So yes a woman can and will cheat just because she wants to put I believe women cheat more because they aren't happy versus a man.

I'm referring to married people only....
Cheating is cheating though and the reason that you've told yourself to justify cheating "somethings wrong" or "i couldnt turn down new p*ssy"doesn't make any difference.

Something wrong does not mean that the man isn't handling his business. It means somethings wrong, that could be her fault or his fault or both of their faults.
I'm disagreeing that women only cheat because "they have a reason" " the man isn't handling his business"

Some women are 40 years old or have been married for awhile and just can't handle the fact that their Disney land fantasy isn't coming true.
These women have comfortable lives, their husband provides and is a good partner and parent but that just isn't good enough.

You hear these women complaining about "he's just not exciting anymore"
"This isn't like when we were dating" "sure he works 60 hrs a week but that's just not romantic that he comes home and wants to rest"

That's not that the man isn t handling his business. That's a woman who has completely unrealistic expectations of marriage and or doesn't want to grow the fukk up.

No your husband isn't part of a romance novel and he's not fabio and every day isn't going to be filled with roses and poems and quivering loins.
 

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I think you miss understood what I was saying. A man isn't handling his business was something I was using as a general statement with something being wrong in the relationship. If a woman is cheating and something is wrong. Chances are she's just gonna blame him. Either way i never meant or said it justified their actions. I think this is just a difference of an opinion. No need to go back and fourth to argue. I believe the avg married woman cheats more because she's not happy at home versus a married man who is happy at home but still wants another piece of ass. Men stepping out on women is something some men feel like they're actually allowed to just because they are a man.

So yes a woman can and will cheat just because she wants to put I believe women cheat more because they aren't happy versus a man.

I'm referring to married people only....


No arguing here.
I got after your second post that you were using that language more as a catch all phrase or to indicate that in general women cheat more for supposed emotional reasons while men in general are motivated by the physical.

The way you were wording it seemed blame shifty.
Or that you were attempting to seem as though one way of scummy behavior was more noble than the other.

I just really hate for men OR women to blame their bad behavior on their partner.
I try to be consistent and call out both.

Nothing personal at all
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