why don't women ever take accountability for cheating?

[Mac Brown]

@wickedsm I wanted to rep but got that "error ocurred" msg

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Folks who cheat are scum of the earth as far as I'm concerned, and I generally tend to not hang with them.

If I find out a woman has cheated in the past, huge red flag for me. Let's me know she's fallen to temptation before, could very well happen again.

 

[prince_peoples]

Men cheat because they want new p*ssy. They could genuinely have a good woman at home and that don't matter.Women cheat when the man ain't handling his business .

you have been brain washed if you believe this.

 

[iBrowse]

Men cheat because they want new p*ssy. They could genuinely have a good woman at home and that don't matter.Women cheat when the man ain't handling his business .

 

[Jaw-Breaka]

They should be burned or shot for cheating

 

[Gaara]

Why does the blame get shifted to men everytime negative female behavior is called out?

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Men are earth. Women are water.

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

Believe that Men are biologically programmed for monogamous relationships brehettes

Believe that Women will remain loyal to a Man they think they can control brehs

my nikka you just dropped some gems

Monogamy is a social construct.

We need to admit that as men collectively that we were not designed for monogamy.

 

[SirShaktus]

Regardless of gender, cheaters ain't shyt.
If you want some new p*ssy/dikk, or you're bored, or whatever reason... Get out of the relationship. At least give the other party your with some dignity and closure.


But I've always seen that if a man is caught cheating, eventually, if he knows he can't do shut else about it.. He'll at least admit he fukked up and/or that he's sorry.
He doesn't even have to mean it, but he'll at least say the words.

A woman can be caught with a dude neck deep in her p*ssy, there will never be anything she'll admit; as Beige Philip says:
"no matter what happens; whether she leaves, cheats on you... IT'S YOUR FAULT."

"You're not around enough"
"You're smothering me"
"The sex is dull"
"You're too wild in bed"
"You don't love me anymore"
"You love me too much" (I always when I hear this bullshyt.)

My homeboy got cheated on by his fiance while he was out on a job interview and when he caught her in the act, she told him "You're doing too good for yourself. I was afraid of losing you. You caused this! "

I literally had the face when I found out.


The fukked up part is he's a changed man... Was the epitome of gentleman and nice guy... Every female he's met since gets ignored or stuck in the fukk zone.
Outside, he's to anyone with a p*ssy that ain't his blood, and he's smashing more than he ever has in life... but he's essentially become a high-functioning alcoholic and barely smiles.

Thankfully, karma caught up with her hoe ass... She got knocked up back to back, the dads (yes, dads, plural) don't talk to her and no one's there to take part in that shytstorm that is her life.
Retribution from the cosmos can be a lovely thing to watch, at times.

 

[DrexlersFade]

fukk all this bullshyt people need to stop putting so much emphasis on sex...It's humanly impossible for someone male/female not too be attracted too someone else. People in Open relationships are alot more happier.Think about it what's 90% of your fukking arguments with the opposite sex? Exactly,woman got the game fukked up as well oh well I brung another bytch too the room and now he sneaking off with her,no shyt never do that fukk shyt if your man ain't willing to let you do the same shyt.

 

[wickedsm]

fukk all this bullshyt people need to stop putting so much emphasis on sex...It's humanly impossible for someone male/female not too be attracted too someone else. People in Open relationships are alot more happier.Think about it what's 90% of your fukking arguments with the opposite sex? Exactly,woman got the game fukked up as well oh well I brung another bytch too the room and now he sneaking off with her,no shyt never do that fukk shyt if your man ain't willing to let you do the same shyt.

Most people are truly not built for open relationships.
Those take communication maturity honesty and trust to work.

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

They think crying is a perfect explanation of their fukkery or a way to apologize but not apologize

 

[Linc]

They cheat due to a sense of entitlement

I think this is the biggest one on both sides

I've never cheated on anyone, I'm no angel or anything I've thrown my shyt around when I've been single but I value trust on a different level than most

as soon as anything gets serious I have a talk with the girl and just basically say "look, if you decide you need something else while we're together just call me and tell me before/during or right after and we can just move on with our lives"

I don't get mad at anyone that does this, I appreciate that they respect me enough to live up to it and move on.

I actually have one girl that I'm still friends with who did this and I give her advice when she needs it, I wouldn't get back with her or anything but I respect her and hope everything works out for her

it's not a 100% success rate obviously but I think it helps

the trust thing extends to all aspects of my life, friends, family etc (family gets a little more leniency I guess)

I feel like it's a different viewpoint than most and that's unfortunate

 

[Buckeye Fever]

bytches be victim blamin like a muthafukka.

"Yeah, i admit, i fell off in terms of doin what i was supposed to do in this relationship. I fell for the hype and cheated. But where were you to catch me when i was slippin?!"

 

[DrexlersFade]

Most people are truly not built for open relationships.
Those take communication maturity honesty and trust to work.

Yes indeed don't peopel get tired of sneaking around and covering their tracks