if a guy cooks or cleans is he acting like a woman? if he is a stay at home parent is he acting like a woman? there is no acting like a woman or a man. society has told us how we are supposed to behave. are you traditional all around? do you hold a job servicing whites? or are you only traditional in areas that put you in a superior position?
Stop makin lies up about me wait...
You not knowing the difference between a man and a woman isn't my fault you fukking moron. Nothing about me says "hey guys I'm a female." That's your fault for being a fukking thirsty loser.
Any married women answer this question?
i asked about if you had a job servicing whites because the tradition you are saying you adhere to also puts blacks in a position to service, cater to and respect authority of whites.
i don't understand why black men expected for black women to feel empowered enough to challenge racial supremacy but that somehow those seeds of empowerment would not grow to see that gender supremacy is very similar to racial supremacy. i realize you did not mention bw specifically, but as the conversation relates to race and gender intersecting i think it is a little relevant. sometimes i feel like you guys want girls to have just enough pride so that you aren't embarrassed to date her but not so much pride that she thinks she's as good as you are or better 
i asked about if you had a job servicing whites because the tradition you are saying you adhere to also puts blacks in a position to service, cater to and respect authority of whites.
you chose to stick to keeping traditional gender because it puts you in a position of authority. you don't stick to racial tradition in this country because it puts you in a position of inferiority. don't you think that as humans, women would seek out exactly what you seek out? not to be inferior?
you say these modern women dislike gender roles,
like you're saying "you don't belong in the white man's kitchen"
"you belong in my kitchen"
Lol, I don't think that is the most appropriate analogy, but for this discussion's sake, it wouldn't really apply anyways because ...
1. I am not currently living in the United States, nor am I working in the United States.
2. I am not from the United States.
3. I am biracial, and have lived in many different parts of the world.
So my values were shaped by experiences that are much more larger than social issues in America.
And I didn't put a blanket definition over what a "modern woman" is, you did. I simply stated that if a woman dislikes gender roles, insisting that a man should propose BECAUSE of a gender role is pretty spurious and foolish. That is all. Race was never bought up until you replied.
Hope that clears it up for you. Unless you were trolling or trying to bait some sort of an antagonistic response outta me ... if so then
but i guess since you are biracial, black issues and history don't affect you
1. i brought up race because you brought up tradition and roles. traditional ways that race and gender are seen is not just limited to america although i recognize there are variations of how this is expressed.
2. i assumed you were black because your username ThatKidBlackHippy
3. the behavior you described (women getting in men's faces provoking them) sounded like stereotypes of american women that men are promoting. i apologize for mistaking your location, but unless where you are from doesn't have a gender supremacy issue then i stand by my argument. considering you believe women have a role, i think it is safe to say where you are from does have gender supremacy
I am half black, spent a good part of my childhood in Cali.
And of course black history and racial issues affect me, but I think the way you are trying to bring it into this is kind of a reach
so the states were relevant. the places you named had colonialism that caused what i am speaking about as well. you bought up the fact that you were biracial like what i was saying didn't apply to you, and that is what i said what i said in sarcasm.