Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned

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Nope.

But hey, just to beat this horse into an even more fine paste, let's try to teach you one more time: Having someone build trust with you, have your kids, build a life together, etc. is way different than rushing to get knocked up by the first guy that said all the right shyt early on after a couple weeks of knowing him. One suggests a long con or a change of heart that didn't end up in the man's favor. The other suggests poor choice in partners and in life in general. So when women do that shyt to guys or fail to use birth control/smart family planning, yes, both situations are theirs for the blame.

Oh wait, holding women to a standard of reasonable judgment means that I hate them, right?

typical coli women

you are bitter
you hate women bla bla bla

no go save that rhetoric for your chris browns, ray rice and jonathan dwyers of the world.

Coli women call men sexist, misogynistic and closed minded for simply not agreeing with them.

How can you say with a straight face a man that is married for ten years and finds out his wife cheated is the same as some single mother who never got a ring, never got commitment, never said vows and ended up with a deadbeat is the same

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Neither of you are even helping your strawman.

If I'm around someone for years I have a lot more opportunity to know that person and who they are/what I can expect from them. If its true that single mothers are becoming single mothers after month long situationships (a lie, but lets assume) it is a lot more feasible that the guy could pretend to be something he's not over the course of that time. Even over 6 months its feasible. But you dated someone for years and had no inkling that they were full of it until the divorce papers were filed?

If you can be around someone for that long and not know who they are, you are either very stupid or you weren't paying attention/were a negligent partner. So in that case, you're definitely the one to blame for the dissolution of your marriage.
 

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Neither of you are even helping your strawman.

If I'm around someone for years I have a lot more opportunity to know that person and who they are/what I can expect from them. If its true that single mothers are becoming single mothers after month long situationships (a lie, but lets assume) it is a lot more feasible that the guy could pretend to be something he's not over the course of that time. Even over 6 months its feasible. But you dated someone for years and had no inkling that they were full of it until the divorce papers were filed?

If you can be around someone for that long and not know who they are, you are either very stupid or you weren't paying attention/were a negligent partner. So in that case, you're definitely the one to blame for the dissolution of your marriage.

Good Lord, does nobody read what I write here? Do you know what a long con is? Do you know what a change of heart is?
 

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I disproved everything you said. Not that you'd know, since you didn't read any of it.

I read what you wrote and decided it was useless to address. Most of it came off as made up or twisted by your failed logic.

You are not worth even replying to anymore.

The only time people start insulting other users is when the user they insulted proved that they have failed logic/argument.
 

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Neither of you are even helping your strawman.

If I'm around someone for years I have a lot more opportunity to know that person and who they are/what I can expect from them. If its true that single mothers are becoming single mothers after month long situationships (a lie, but lets assume) it is a lot more feasible that the guy could pretend to be something he's not over the course of that time. Even over 6 months its feasible. But you dated someone for years and had no inkling that they were full of it until the divorce papers were filed?

If you can be around someone for that long and not know who they are, you are either very stupid or you weren't paying attention/were a negligent partner. So in that case, you're definitely the one to blame for the dissolution of your marriage.

:snoop:

its the equivalent of working for a place for 20 years then being told your let go, there is nothing differently you could have DONE, you couldn't have picked a better place to work at. But things change, just like people in marriages. Your wife could love you to death when your dating, engaged, marriaged, but 20 years down the line shes going through something and cheats, how the hell does that tie down to you not picking the right person

your arguements and comparison of the two is frigging laughable
 

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Good Lord, does nobody read what I write here? Do you know what a long con is? Do you know what a change of heart is?

When the long con is only presented as an option when men are the ones conned....:comeon:

Anyway, I pointed out what I wanted to point out. Have fun guys :lolbron:
 

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I read what you wrote and decided it was useless to address. Most of it came off as made up or twisted by your failed logic.

You are not worth even replying to anymore.

The only time people start insulting other users is when the user they insulted proved that they have failed logic/argument.

You just didn't know how to address it. You couldn't even understand the stats I posted. Go ahead, sulk away in defeat and tell yourself you were right tonight to make yourself feel better.
 

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its the equivalent of working for a place for 20 years then being told your let go, there is nothing differently you could have DONE, you couldn't have picked a better place to work at. But things change, just like people in marriages. Your wife could love you to death when your dating, engaged, marriaged, but 20 years down the line shes going through something and cheats, how the hell does that tie down to you not picking the right person

your arguements and comparison of the two is frigging laughable

Couldn't be that your quality or work has gone down the tube compared to how you used to work when you was first hired. Couldn't be that your boss now realizes they made a mistake hiring you because your personality is wack and that you put on your best for the interview and the first few years. Now you are comfortable and you are slowly cutting corners in most of your work. Can't be that. :childplease:
 
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