Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned

[Youseenmywork]

...even when your not appreciated or loved ..its just a hard pill to swallow

 

[Youseenmywork]

@Emperor_ReinScarf
@Zapp Brannigan
@BonitaChelz

Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved

Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.

In the same respect that women cannot appreciate the sacrifices men are expected to make in order to facilitate their imperatives, women can’t actualize how a man would have himself loved by her. It is not the natural state of women, and the moment he attempts to explain his ideal love, that’s the point at which his idealization becomes her obligation. Our girlfriends, our wives, daughters and even our mothers are all incapable of this idealized love. As nice as it would be to relax, trust and be vulnerable, upfront, rational and open, the great abyss is still the lack of an ability for women to love Men as Men would like them to.


From the rational male website

 

[beenz]

@Emperor_ReinScarf you really gotta stop being a 1-trick pony with these threads.

 

[Poitier]

you dont need marriage to get all the perks of a stable LTR

you live in dream world

"We can live in a post racial society too"

 

[CoCKy GeNiuS]

Over the last 20 years these hoes have been given lots of room to play and get away with it, so now they are showing their true colors....

 

[Yup]

I swear this nikka always gotta make a thread atleast once a day about something negative about women and marriage.

Yet he mocks women not coming from married households. Aren't his parents married?

 

[Yup]

Easier said than done. Some people are great con-artists and can slip through the cracks. If you think that you're too smart and savvy for it to happen to you, you're the most susceptible victim of these kinds of people.

I thought that was not possible. That we should all know who we are dealing with a 100% before we all get into a commitment? At least that's what is expected of women isn't it?

 

[Yup]

never said that
I'm talking about marriage, see if i'm in a relationship with a woman and she "changes", she falls out of love, she cheats, I can just exit without any ramifications.

Now if I'm married?

People change all the time. That's called life, are you the same person today that you were 10 years ago? Should you be? I know I am not. For someone with married parents you seem to have little insight of what marriage consists of or your expectations are unrealistic and unattainable. Your partner will change and so are you. I guess you never plan on being in a long term relationship then.

 

[Poitier]

People change all the time. That's called life, are you the same person today that you were 10 years ago? Should you be? I know I am not. For someone with married parents you seem to have little insight of what marriage consists of or your expectations are unrealistic and unattainable. Your partner will change and so are you. I guess you never plan on being in a long term relationship then.

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[StickStickly]

So this is what happens when you have a society of guys too nervous to pursue women and women completely disinterested in relationships with men?

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I thought that was not possible. That we should all know who we are dealing with a 100% before we all get into a commitment? At least that's what is expected of women isn't it?

There's a difference between getting conned by someone very good or being with someone who has a later-in-life change of heart and being outright stupid about who you have unprotected sex with.

 

[Yup]

I've come to the conclusion that I'm not getting married. fukk that shyt, brehs.

Crazy thing is I'm one of the nikkas who should be getting married. But, I'd rather just fukk women and toss them in the bushes at my leisure, travel, and detail my cars.

@mamba what qualifies you as marriage material?

 

[Remote]

I read it too. I believe the the real issue is people creating egalitarian marriages where the gender roles and expectations are blurred. You have more men operating in more nurturing type qualities, and more women operating in more challenging type qualities. when a husband is becoming more nurturing, compassionate, etc, it's hard for the wife to respect his "leadership" capability and role. I agree with the article that these androgynous men are sol because women want the bad boy that excites them, but also the nice guy that makes them feel loved. They leave one for the other thinking they will be fulfilled and it never happens. Ultimately, you can't have both.

I agree with you on not liking their results. The idea of marriage, roles, expectations, etc has changed so much in the last 30 yrs, and I honestly think most are confused as to what they really want because marriage isn't be what it used to be .

The honesty of this reply...

 

[Yup]

It's sad to see some men get so angry at @Emperor_ReinScarf he does nothing but speak the truth.

People are not mad at him, at least i'm not. His arguments are inconsistent and gender biased. They lack context and discernment. People ate not always black or white.

 

[mamba]

If I ever lose my mind and decide to have kids, I'm naming them Noel & Luke.

Noel

Luke

We'll figure out the names when the times comes. In the meantime, let's go ahead and make this thing official, @Sunshine

Dump that cornball you're currently with and tell him you've chosen a legitimate 666 nikka from the Coli.