Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned

[The Nigerian]

When is this Reincar dude just going to come our as a Peter puffer?

 

[Mowgli]

"Men value looks.... they don't value degrees.... keep thinking that your degree gives you a one up on a dime"
"women should be getting married at 21-25 they shouldn't have much life experience..."
"Women are wasting their prime seeking success in a career and individual financial stability"
~Coli men

Im talking more about her cooking cleaning and obedience skills.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You're one of the few exceptions, @Sunshine . I'd probably wife you up.

Did you grow up with a father in the home?

Yes, I did.

@Sunshine , that's sweet! What are you going to name it? I hope you consider "mamba" or "Coli" as a name.

I named him Ambrosio.

 

[Youseenmywork]

... be hypocritical brehs.....

How am i hypocritical thoe?

 

[Colicat]

How am i hypocritical thoe?

You fussed about women throwing around insults, but then you turn right around insult me by insinuating that i was ..
Thats how...

 

[Colicat]

Im talking more about her cooking cleaning and obedience skills.

....it's pointless talking to some of y'all...

 

[Mowgli]

....it's pointless talking to some of y'all...

Seems like you have trust issues.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

I edited this post because I felt bad.

 

[Turbulent]

He had sex with cats/dogs, etc. Got chlamydia from this one Japanese girl, he got cured, had sex with her again and got chlamydia again. Then had sex with one of their moms and the girl at the same time.

Then he had a threesome with this other Jamaican dude he met in Japan.

One thing he would not have sex with though. Is an escort/prostitute that he met in South Korea. Why? Check it out... He was afraid of HIV, dude was a moron I threw that book in the bushes.

I'm actually upset he was allowed to work with children and teach them.

i'm not done with the book. i didn,t read your whole post but why are you trying to spoil people's reading experience?

 

[Youseenmywork]

[QUOTE="Colicat, post: 10132248, member: 16488fussed about women throwing around insults, but then you turn right around insult me by insinuating that i was ..
Thats how...[/QUOTE]

Thats not an insult i just thought it was funny how women never answer that question. Which i think as women gets older they dont answer that question but a young girl say her age quickly.My hopes was for you to say something like im between 26 and 30. Then i was going to say well you probaly look bad but you probaly look good for 36 thoe . It was going to be a joke but you defensive and thought i was insulting you. I didnt have a reason to insult you but whatever . I cant believe women still say it not nice to ask a women her age or believe in that. I understand the reasoning behind it but whatever.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Yes, I did.



I named him Ambrosio.

It dosent matter if the farther was in the home if the mother ran the relationship ...or they believed in a 50/50 which there is no such thing. just imo.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Women get bored. They fantasize about happily ever after but the actual ever after is just a routine. See: men that give up all other women have consigned themselves to sex hell by simply getting married. We accept the fact and focus on home making. Women's ultimate sex fantasy is taming that bad boy. They think they have just begun their ultimate fantasy on wedding day. Then eventually he's no longer the bad boy. The fantasy is still there but the object becomes the next bad boy that needs taming. Men focus on their calculations. Women focus on their feelings. A woman would rather do something that feels good? right? instead of doing that which is logically sound. Married. Divorced. Married. Divorced. And see nothing wrong with it cause they felt like it at the time.

 

[BK Breh]

Marriage in itself is becoming an "overrated" deal. The glitz and glamour of a big wedding, that women grow up dreaming about. Not all, but most.

And so when they finally get it, with "the man of their dreams", They eventually get bored. Bc of these images and life styles that the media is pumping into our brains, that they wanna keep up with..

You reach a point where like @marcuz said, all it really was; was having that big pretty wedding, and nice family and financial security..Then they just don't want it anymore.

And instead of fighting for the ish they built with this dude they just dip. Its really stupid, waste of time and money imo.

 

[mamba]

Thats not an insult i just thought it was funny how women never answer that question. Which i think as women gets older they dont answer that question but a young girl say her age quickly.My hopes was for you to say something like im between 26 and 30. Then i was going to say well you probaly look bad but you probaly look good for 36 thoe . It was going to be a joke but you defensive and thought i was insulting you. I didnt have a reason to insult you but whatever . I cant believe women still say it not nice to ask a women her age or believe in that. I understand the reasoning behind it but whatever.

Young boys are told to never ask a woman her age.

We never question that code of conduct? Why is it wrong to ask a woman her age?

 

[mamba]

Yes, I did.

There is hope. We might need to make that marriage thing happen, @Sunshine and work toward Black excellence.

I named him Ambrosio.